Life Would/could/should you ever hit a woman back? - Page 6

GoHuge · 04-18-2010, 11:25 AM

I was out last night with some friends and it was 8 or 9 couples. We went to dinner, the boats, and then to P&L. One of my buddies has a new girlfriend and she's just kinda weird. Couldn't really put my finger on it, but we where all watching the Pavlik/Martinez fight and she starts going on and on about how boxing is for whimps because she does MMA. This chick was just getting dumber and dumber as the night went on and the more she drank. When we all got down to P&L she starts yelling at my buddy and within 20 seconds just sucker punched him 2-3 times in the face. Everyone just kind of froze like WTF? His mouth/nose where bleeding and she went after him again. They where like 15 yards behind us so none of us where right there to stop it immediatley, but it got broken up quick. He just went into a ball and did nothing. I asked him how he just say there and he said "I can't hit a girl."

I've been slapped by a girl before, but not a big deal. It's what some of the high drama ones do. You hang out with anyone like that and you deserve it. I think fighting is absolutely ridiculous unless it's to protect yourself, your family, or a person that can't protect themselves for whatever reason.

If you where that guy what would you have done? I'd like to think I would just do something to restrain her, or push her down, or whatever. Or I might have went bat shit crazy....not sure. My buddy had told me she's pretty bad ass at the MMA stuff and never lost a match, etc as she was talking down boxing. So she's a trained fighter and makes herself a combatant with closed fists. How is she any different than any of these other athletes like football players, boxers, that assault other people because they really know how to hurt them or are much bigger and stronger? IMO a bully is a bully and should be looked at as such. Having never been in a situation like I'm honestly not sure what I'd do in the heat of the moment. If anybody closes their fists and sucker punches you are they fair game? Do you get your man card pulled for returning fire?

MOhillbilly · 04-19-2010, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by CoMoChief

Yup. I wouldn't hit her at first. But I'd damn sure let her I know I'm about to snap. If she seems not to care, well then she's going to care.

id slap em 1st. just to let em know WTF is about to go down.

just remember women play for keeps. If you smack one you best be willin to see it to the bitter end.
No surrender.

Garcia Bronco · 04-19-2010, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by notorious

Garcia, I agree. I have yet to run into a smart, educated person that gets into fights.

Usually people with little or nothing to lose get into fights.

I have walked away from losers trying to start something. I got called every name in the book, but guess what? I still have my great life and self-respect while they wake up every morning knowing that they are loser douchebags.

Exactly, because everybody loses. There is no winning.

**Bane** · 04-19-2010, 09:20 AM

All I can say is I never have.I've wanted to in the past but always found the strength to walk away.My ex pulled some crazy shit and really pushed my limits but I never hit her.
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L.A. Chieffan · 04-19-2010, 09:23 AM

was she hot?

MOhillbilly · 04-19-2010, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Garcia Bronco

Exactly, because everybody loses. There is no winning.

If you finish it your pride wins.

Means something.

**The Franchise** · 04-19-2010, 10:00 AM

If she hits me with a closed fist....she gets one. If she comes back for a 2nd.....she's getting knocked the **** out.

Otter · 04-19-2010, 10:02 AM

She deserved a punch in the throat if you ask me. Once you start throwing punches to the face that bloody me up you lose your lady privileges.

I can speak from the experience that usually the better you get at defending yourself the less likely you are to engage someone. It's no longer two frat boys throwing haymakers hoping one lands. You can really **** someone up if you know what your doing. Not saying I'm Bwana caliber but I'm working on it.

Did he do anything to antagonize her? Kinda weird that she would just start swinging out of the blue unless she's a total psycho.

beach tribe · 04-19-2010, 10:33 AM

The answer is no. Unless you are a pussy, and she's kicking your ass like a bitch.

You just push her away. I've been through this, and it's not that hard to keep her at a distance.

Your arms should be longer than hers. You can put your hand on her forehead, and keep her out of reach. that's what I did.

Otter · 04-19-2010, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by beach tribe

The answer is no. Unless you are a pussy, and she's kicking your ass like a bitch.

If you want to be treated like a lady, act like a lady.

MOhillbilly · 04-19-2010, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Otter

If you want to be treated like a lady, act like a lady.

Agreed, ill open a door, say yes maam, help anyone out who needs it, if they ask or not.

But if you wanna go nuts, lets get bonkers.

Christofire · 04-19-2010, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by badmajama

Wow ... that's the first time I'd actually seen the clip of Snooki getting punched. What a dick.

jenksme · 04-19-2010, 11:19 AM

No, never.

**SAUTO** · 04-19-2010, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

Agreed, ill open a door, say yes maam, help anyone out who needs it, if they ask or not.

But if you wanna go nuts, lets get bonkers.

this

Inspector · 04-19-2010, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by UCFGoldenKnight

He needs to be done with her.. period.

She probably doesn't have those anymore.

Micjones · 04-19-2010, 12:45 PM

I think I'd restrain her and call it a day.

But my philosophy is this... If you hit a man you should prepare yourself to be hit like one.
You can't open the door to violence then hide behind your tits.

I doubt very seriously I'd ever hit a woman though.

04-18-2010, 11:25 AM
GoHuge The Truth Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Overland Park Casino cash: $10006072	Would/could/should you ever hit a woman back? I was out last night with some friends and it was 8 or 9 couples. We went to dinner, the boats, and then to P&L. One of my buddies has a new girlfriend and she's just kinda weird. Couldn't really put my finger on it, but we where all watching the Pavlik/Martinez fight and she starts going on and on about how boxing is for whimps because she does MMA. This chick was just getting dumber and dumber as the night went on and the more she drank. When we all got down to P&L she starts yelling at my buddy and within 20 seconds just sucker punched him 2-3 times in the face. Everyone just kind of froze like WTF? His mouth/nose where bleeding and she went after him again. They where like 15 yards behind us so none of us where right there to stop it immediatley, but it got broken up quick. He just went into a ball and did nothing. I asked him how he just say there and he said "I can't hit a girl." I've been slapped by a girl before, but not a big deal. It's what some of the high drama ones do. You hang out with anyone like that and you deserve it. I think fighting is absolutely ridiculous unless it's to protect yourself, your family, or a person that can't protect themselves for whatever reason. If you where that guy what would you have done? I'd like to think I would just do something to restrain her, or push her down, or whatever. Or I might have went bat shit crazy....not sure. My buddy had told me she's pretty bad ass at the MMA stuff and never lost a match, etc as she was talking down boxing. So she's a trained fighter and makes herself a combatant with closed fists. How is she any different than any of these other athletes like football players, boxers, that assault other people because they really know how to hurt them or are much bigger and stronger? IMO a bully is a bully and should be looked at as such. Having never been in a situation like I'm honestly not sure what I'd do in the heat of the moment. If anybody closes their fists and sucker punches you are they fair game? Do you get your man card pulled for returning fire?
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04-19-2010, 09:20 AM	#78
Bane C.H.I.E.F.S Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: **** your face Casino cash: $10005055	All I can say is I never have.I've wanted to in the past but always found the strength to walk away.My ex pulled some crazy shit and really pushed my limits but I never hit her. Posted via Mobile Device
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L.A. Chieffan PLAY GOOD FOOTBALL Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: American Gardens Building Casino cash: $4058654	was she hot?
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04-19-2010, 10:33 AM	#83
beach tribe Keep doubting J MFing Houston Join Date: May 2007 Location: ft.lauderdale Casino cash: $4808036	The answer is no. Unless you are a pussy, and she's kicking your ass like a bitch. You just push her away. I've been through this, and it's not that hard to keep her at a distance. Your arms should be longer than hers. You can put your hand on her forehead, and keep her out of reach. that's what I did.
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jenksme Starter Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Salisbury, MO Casino cash: $8781251	No, never. __________________ Go Chiefs Go
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04-19-2010, 12:45 PM	#90
Micjones Whose house? Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: KCMO Casino cash: $10005180	I think I'd restrain her and call it a day. But my philosophy is this... If you hit a man you should prepare yourself to be hit like one. You can't open the door to violence then hide behind your tits. I doubt very seriously I'd ever hit a woman though. __________________ It's like when I'm right I'm right, when I'm wrong I could been right, so I'm still right cause I coulda been wrong.
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