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Old 04-28-2009, 07:15 PM  
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This sucks at 58

I normally don't post on here,but damn I need to vent. I have (had) been married to the same woman for over 35 years. Never a major problem in our relationship. Five weeks ago she informs me she wants a divorce as she has met someone and wants something different in her life.

I worked 25 years for Williams Energy, we put two daughters through college and helped them, as we could, get established in life.

So,today was a meeting between the lawyers and I find out I will have to give her the house (paid for ) a car (new) and 1/2 of my pension,savings, and investments. Now all of that was ours 50/50 any way and she did her part in the marriage. Not only does it hurt like hell but now it looks like at 58 I have to start all over again.

Sorry for spelling or grammer but right now I don't care my heart is broken and soon to be homeless (STARTING OVER AT 58 )
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:44 PM   #46
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Probably not advice you should take, but I'd burn that ****ing house to the ground with her inside it.
It is has crossed my mind
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:46 PM   #47
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:47 PM   #48
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:47 PM   #49
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Never did over do it. We took several small vacations as the girls were growing up and I was working. But after the girls were grown we made several overseas trips. Come to think of it I may start buying a better scotch
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:47 PM   #50
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Well hang in there, it will get better after all the bullshit is done. Live your life and have some fun.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:48 PM   #51
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Of course she doesn't. She's a f()ckin lazy leach. She'll live off his hard earned retirement money.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:48 PM   #52
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:49 PM   #53
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Well hang in there, it will get better after all the bullshit is done. Live your life and have some fun.
Maybe there are some real positives that can come from this, who knows.

It should bring some sort of solitude to see your integrity is unblemished while someone doing you wrong has none. Maybe, I don't know.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:49 PM   #54
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Does she have a job now?
Yes since she left she has started work a small business here in town as a receptionist or something
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:50 PM   #55
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It is has crossed my mind
Seriously, you should get a better lawyer. Under the circumstances, you should at least get half the value of the house. I would fight that bitch tooth and nail over that. Let the guy she's ****ing buy her a house.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:51 PM   #56
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Maybe there are some real positives that can come from this, who knows.
God I hope so, but right now I see none.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:52 PM   #57
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Maybe there are some real positives that can come from this, who knows.
It's what you make it to be honest. Like I said, after all the BS is done, old Monk needs live some dreams and have some fun. I'm not saying go bat shit crazy, but live your life and enjoy it.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:53 PM   #58
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That really sucks. Listen, hop in the car, drive to the nearest liquor store, and buy a bottle of Glenlivet (aged 12 yrs plus). I bought that for my husband and he raves about it! Good luck to u Monk.
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:53 PM   #59
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Ok here is the long and short of it.

#1 Colorado has some F-ed up laws...
#2 Based on what I have read so far... the "standard" for CO would be for you to split the house and pay her temporary Alimony
#3 I am assuming they are trying to take ALL of the house in lieu of any alimony (bullshit!)
#4 All lawyers suck and are lazy. Period. if your attorney is highly regarded, that just means she may actually work 20 real hours a week and may actually give a shit and THINK during 2 of those. They are as unethical as automechanics and as unreliable as doctors... so, please get at least ONE other opinion before you agree to something as life changing as your final divorce decree.

(Apologies to any lawyers, docotrs or mechanics... hyperbole needed for point...)
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Old 04-28-2009, 07:54 PM   #60
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Yes since she left she has started work a small business here in town as a receptionist or something
That is really really good for you. Did she physically move out? Is she living with the other guy?
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