Life GF of 3 years left me yesterday.... - Page 18

Pushead2 · 01-04-2011, 07:55 AM

She's going for her PhD, it takes up a lot of her time & I felt a tad bit neglected. I know it's tough for her as it is but I told her how I felt. She told me in response that she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore.....

I'm still young & I've left a long relationship (4 years) before but this was different. She was more than my gf but my best friend too.....I was planning on proposing to her later this year but that's clearly out the window.

I'm getting 50/50 opinions from people on if I should just let her be & move on or fight for the girl I love / my best friend. She was all torn up hysterically crying last night when the conversation was going on.....Don't know, felt like I needed to air it out to a different crowd than my friends. What y'all think?

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 05:53 AM

Once school starts again & I get a better job than what I have now, all the pieces will fall into place.

Over-Head · 01-05-2011, 06:07 AM

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Once school starts again & I get a better job than what I have now, all the pieces will fall into place.

Yes, YES it will

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 06:12 AM

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Yes, YES it will

Fritz88 · 01-05-2011, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

Once school starts again & I get a better job than what I have now, all the pieces will fall into place.

Glad you are getting over it. Life is short.
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Fritz88 · 01-05-2011, 06:22 AM

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the night hours were the loneliest time for me too, when all your support is sleeping. Play some video games, read a book, watch movies that don't involve romantic stuff.

Most importantly, when you feel down, dont pick up the phone and call her.
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Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 06:27 AM

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Most importantly, when you feel down, dont pick up the phone and call her.
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that's not an option. I rather sit & cry my eyes out or just online with random strangers then do that.

Fritz88 · 01-05-2011, 06:36 AM

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that's not an option. I rather sit & cry my eyes out or just online with random strangers then do that.

Easier said than done. Believe me.

But yes, this is what you should do when you need to vent. Get on CP and talk.

**Dunit35** · 01-05-2011, 06:38 AM

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Easier said than done. Believe me.

But yes, this is what you should do when you need to vent. Get on CP and talk.

Yep, this. One of the things I enjoy (ed) about this place.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 06:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Fritz88

Easier said than done. Believe me.

But yes, this is what you should do when you need to vent. Get on CP and talk.

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Originally Posted by Dunit35

Yep, this. One of the things I enjoy (ed) about this place.

I thank you all for the help....

beach tribe · 01-05-2011, 09:48 AM

I have a bajillion songs on my itunes. This one came on, and couldn't help but think of this thread.
Maybe it's just me, but this dude's story sounds a lot like yours.

Fat Elvis · 01-05-2011, 10:00 AM

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amen, except I'll never see her as a bitch (just no reason to think that) & we were fairly open nothing hidden.

thanks for the support.

You are well on the road to a healthy recovery and fruitful new relationship with another woman. Sometimes things, for whatever reason, just don't work. Guys who call women bitches are still butthurt about one or more past relationships.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 11:21 AM

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You are well on the road to a healthy recovery and fruitful new relationship with another woman. Sometimes things, for whatever reason, just don't work. Guys who call women bitches are still butthurt about one or more past relationships.

yeah was never that. I can't call her a bitch for not being in love with me anymore. Doesn't warrant that title at all.

WV · 01-05-2011, 05:54 PM

Posting nudies would probably help....

Pushead2 · 01-06-2011, 07:34 AM

now I've developed a bit of a touchy topic, I have all her passwords stored on my CPU, I wiped them but I know the passwords by memory anyway to e-mail & etc.

I've peaked a few nights ago, nothing in there I really didn't know already but I'm getting the urge to repeat it.....I know curiosity killed the cat but any tips to not do it? I also do realize it will do me no good to keep looking too, but it's tough you know?

BTW, I'm doing much much better y'all. Thanks for the love & support. I truly mean it.

Frosty · 01-06-2011, 07:40 AM

Sounds like a first step to "creepy stalker"-dom. Let it go.

01-04-2011, 07:55 AM
Pushead2 **** off Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: New York Casino cash: $7381882	GF of 3 years left me yesterday.... She's going for her PhD, it takes up a lot of her time & I felt a tad bit neglected. I know it's tough for her as it is but I told her how I felt. She told me in response that she loves me to death but doesn't feel the same about being in love with me anymore..... I'm still young & I've left a long relationship (4 years) before but this was different. She was more than my gf but my best friend too.....I was planning on proposing to her later this year but that's clearly out the window. I'm getting 50/50 opinions from people on if I should just let her be & move on or fight for the girl I love / my best friend. She was all torn up hysterically crying last night when the conversation was going on.....Don't know, felt like I needed to air it out to a different crowd than my friends. What y'all think?
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01-05-2011, 05:53 AM	#256
Pushead2 **** off Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: New York Casino cash: $7381882	Once school starts again & I get a better job than what I have now, all the pieces will fall into place. __________________ "**** up once, lose two teeth....”
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01-05-2011, 09:48 AM	#265
beach tribe Keep doubting J MFing Houston Join Date: May 2007 Location: ft.lauderdale Casino cash: $4808036	I have a bajillion songs on my itunes. This one came on, and couldn't help but think of this thread. Maybe it's just me, but this dude's story sounds a lot like yours.
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01-05-2011, 05:54 PM	#268
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01-06-2011, 07:34 AM	#269
Pushead2 **** off Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: New York Casino cash: $7381882	now I've developed a bit of a touchy topic, I have all her passwords stored on my CPU, I wiped them but I know the passwords by memory anyway to e-mail & etc. I've peaked a few nights ago, nothing in there I really didn't know already but I'm getting the urge to repeat it.....I know curiosity killed the cat but any tips to not do it? I also do realize it will do me no good to keep looking too, but it's tough you know? BTW, I'm doing much much better y'all. Thanks for the love & support. I truly mean it. __________________ "**** up once, lose two teeth....”
Posts: 5,199

01-06-2011, 07:40 AM	#270
Frosty Go Beavers! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Warshington Casino cash: $5658243	Sounds like a first step to "creepy stalker"-dom. Let it go.
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