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Old 02-11-2016, 12:11 AM  
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Ethical and/or Moral dilemma
A few months back my girlfriend and I took in a friend in need. To make a long story short the guy owned a 1 year old husky mix and an adult cat. This guy has had a pretty hard life growing up. His ex gave him a 3 month old husky mix as a gift, then broke up with him about a month later. He never asked for it, and after they split was never really able to take care of it. He is an emotional mess and pretty much sleeps all the time except for when he is working.

Last week, after his dog pissed all over our house, and he realized everybody was better off if the dog went to a better home. The dog has a better home now, and some pretty awesome new owners. About two days after the dog left our house his cat ran outside while we let our own dogs out. His cat is not an outdoor cat. My girlfriend and I put up flyers for it today (he hasn't made an effort to find it in any fashion), but while putting up flyers we discovered the deceased cat in some brush by the road.

We are beyond torn on what to do. Currently his cat is wrapped up in a towel in my garage, and I really don't want to tell him, even though that is the easiest thing to do. I really don't know if this guy can handle more shit on his already large pile of shit he calls a life. I already found a dead cat today, and I really don't want to find a dead roommate another day.

tl;dr: Roommate is a broken depressed human that had to give up his dog, and now lost his cat forever. Do I tell this poor soul, or let him have false hope?
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Old 02-11-2016, 01:20 AM   #16
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An ethical, moral dilemma is cheating on someone or stealing something. This is. .dude,sorry, we found the cat dead, dinner is ready at 6
Wait till he finds out the NFL is fake. Poor bastard.
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Old 02-11-2016, 01:22 AM   #17
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Probably better tell him. Get closure ASAP. If you tell him in 6 months when he has made some progress he may undo the progress and delay his healing.

If he's depressed, the question shouldn't be regarding the cat, it should be what kind of help you are going to get him.
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Old 02-11-2016, 01:24 AM   #18
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I think Tribal was on the right path...Boobs he must see the girlfriends boobs.
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Old 02-11-2016, 02:52 AM   #19
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I think Tribal was on the right path...Boobs he must see the girlfriends boobs.
We should probably see the girlfriend's boobs as well.
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Old 02-11-2016, 03:13 AM   #20
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Just put the cat in the road in front of the house and let him find it. Jeez !
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Old 02-11-2016, 03:32 AM   #21
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If he cared a lot about the cat, why, as you mentioned, did he not put any effort at all into finding it?
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:05 AM   #22
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Can't you just find another cat that looks just like it?
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:14 AM   #23
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Part of owning a pet is realizing that they die/get killed. Easier to tell him the truth than sidestep or lie to him about it and try to remember what you've said.
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:27 AM   #24
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Without knowing the details of his life I would say tell him and let him deal with it as soon as possible... Then after a week or so have a talk with him about moving on with his life and quit wallowing in self pity.. Just work and sleep is not healthy for anyone. He needs to get off his ass and find something to interest him....
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Old 02-11-2016, 07:48 AM   #25
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Old 02-11-2016, 08:07 AM   #26
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I'd start by burying it. Or, make a pate out of it, and serve it to him. Just dont tell him.
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Not trying to be a dick here but if he's fragile at the moment, put the thing in the freezer for the immediate future and let him get better.
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Old 02-11-2016, 08:13 AM   #28
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Not trying to be a dick here but if he's fragile at the moment, put the thing in the freezer for the immediate future and let him get better.
Yeah, because nothing helps you get over losing a pet like suddenly running across it's frozen carcass while you are looking for a Don Miguel burrito.
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Old 02-11-2016, 08:14 AM   #29
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Honestly... get rid of the cat. Tell him it was never found, pets run off.

And, then move on. If I knew you had my dead pet in your freezer because you didn't know how to tell me it died --- I might slap you and call you a woman. And, then I'd ask you to slap me because obviously I have made you think I'm a woman.
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Old 02-11-2016, 08:25 AM   #30
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Call this guy. Since he sleeps all the time, he'll likely never notice.
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