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Old 08-10-2015, 05:05 PM  
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Cash bar or foot the bill? Wedding poll

So we're attending a wedding in STL in a few weeks, and instead of footing the bill themselves, it's a cash bar.

What are your thoughts on this?

I kinda think if youre having a big fancy all weekend kinda wedding, pay for the bar tab, but I get it I guess, miney wise.

So, what say you?

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Old 08-10-2015, 05:14 PM   #16
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We had 2 kegs and a cash bar. If you wanted mixed drinks, you're on your own. Everyone was putting money down at the bar though. People would drop $100 here and $100 there. Most of the times at cash bars it turns out like that. People get liquored up and put money down.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:16 PM   #17
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Beer and wine free?
Which, I think, is a good way to go about things. Those beverages will cover the vast amount of guests and the beer could cost all of $300-400 given keg costs. I'd guess buying the selections of wine would jump that to $1000 which isn't terrible either.

Then you let the venue price the hard liquors so if someone really needs a fix they can get it. That's what the wedding I was in Saturday did and let me tell you, I had to trouble getting buzzed up.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:17 PM   #18
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Normally I would think that's the way they'd go, but based on this family I was expecting to be sipping top shelf liquor all weekend on their dime.

Kind of upset
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:18 PM   #19
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I'm pretty sure you know my stance on this OP.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:19 PM   #20
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The only way I'll attend is if I can get wasted for free. Those cheap ****s
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:24 PM   #21
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Getting married next summer. Where we are having the reception does not do kegs so we are getting 2 drink tickets for everyone. I'm not going to pay for people to get drunk.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:29 PM   #22
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I would disinvite anyone I caught bitching about a cash bar.

You absolutely don't have to be a part of my day.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:30 PM   #23
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Just means you go cheaper on their gift if that's how they treat you to attend their wedding.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:30 PM   #24
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And we would hope that the invite is taken back.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:32 PM   #25
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Pretty silly to get upset about attending a wedding with a cash bar.

If it's that big of a deal don't go.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:34 PM   #26
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I would disinvite anyone I caught bitching about a cash bar.

You absolutely don't have to be a part of my day.
This. Absolutely.
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Getting married next summer. Where we are having the reception does not do kegs so we are getting 2 drink tickets for everyone. I'm not going to pay for people to get drunk.
That's a good exception that makes sense. Offers something while still saving some money. Plus the non-drinkers can give their tickets to those drinking.
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Old 08-10-2015, 05:34 PM   #28
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So we're attending a wedding in STL in a few weeks, and instead of footing the bill themselves, it's a cash bar.

What are your thoughts on this?

I kinda think if youre having a big fancy all weekend kinda wedding, pay for the bar tab, but I get it I guess, miney wise.

So, what say you?
You invite someone to a party, you don't charge them for refreshments. Limit it to beer and wine if necessary, but why not just charge them for dinner, too?
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I don't care who's feelings are hurt - it's god damned tacky to have a guest pay for alcohol. Period.
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Salute to you for not bringing your kids with you considering their ages.

Bringing kids younger than middle school age to weddings is just stupid.
Bringing kids to a wedding that aren't invited is just stupid. Some people assume that if they are invited, then their kids are welcome also.
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