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12-24-2012, 11:53 AM | #1 | |
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He broke trust by reading the text message She broke trust by talking shit about his family with someone beside him
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12-24-2012, 12:03 PM | #2 |
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Eh. It depends on the circumstance. I don't rely on my wife to meet every single need I have as a person and I don't try to meet every single need she has either. If his wife was just venting, I don't see it as a big deal.
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12-24-2012, 12:11 PM | #3 | |
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If she dislikes his family THAT much and he doesn't agree (he obviously doesn't or she would have vented to him) its going to be a point of contention forever. |
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12-24-2012, 12:16 PM | #4 |
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12-24-2012, 12:24 PM | #5 | |
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For example, the husband would prefer to see his family at least once a month. The wife isn't wild about his family. Maybe they settle on six times a year. Maybe the husband occasionally visits his family without his wife. The time that the couple spends with her family would also factor into the compromise. Mature people that respect the desires, needs and boundaries of the other can work thinks out if their expectations aren't completely at odds (eg. he wants to spend every weekend with his family and she never wants to see them again). |
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12-24-2012, 12:28 PM | #6 | |
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You're talking about compromising to iron out MINOR differences. I'm not. |
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12-24-2012, 12:34 PM | #7 |
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Well, not liking the cooking and finding the conversation boring rank as minor differences in my book. She already seems to be aboard the compromise bus since she plans to go for his sake and is trying to be a good trooper about it (by not bitching about minor issues) so he can enjoy the time with his family.
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12-24-2012, 12:37 PM | #8 | |
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12-24-2012, 12:15 PM | #9 | |
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some people talk shit to each other about stuff and just laugh ... it's all good. but apparently she didn't talk to him about it all she is just being a snarky bitch BEHIND HIS BACK not only will it be in the back of his mind each time she is around his family but each time he is around her family he is going to wonder what else they have been talking shit about. 2 completely different things 1. Not liking your in-laws 2. Not liking your in-laws and talking shit about them with someone other than your fiancee/spouse and you can BET YOUR ASS that if he bring it up that she will flip-the-script and get angry at him about reading her texts and use all sorts of girl tricks during the following argument. He will be lucky to know what day it is after that fight.
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The bigger problem for me is him snooping and reading her messages without her knowing. I mean who is the bigger sneaky bitch here? No offense Jim Jones... |
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