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Yeah. My wife already knows I'm silly. She wouldn't care about anything I've said. I would be just fine with anything I've said with or without here up to an including the comment about that chick's fabulous legs while out with my buddies.
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12-24-2012, 12:03 PM | #227 |
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Eh. It depends on the circumstance. I don't rely on my wife to meet every single need I have as a person and I don't try to meet every single need she has either. If his wife was just venting, I don't see it as a big deal.
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12-24-2012, 12:07 PM | #230 |
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There are probably some things my wife has said that I'd rather not know, or I'd be divorced. It's probably that way with any couple.
It's immature of his fiance to say stuff like that, if it's as bad as it sounds. It's also terrible of him to be spying on her when he had no reason to not trust her. If she doesn't like his family and he's spying on her communications, it sounds like they should rethink this relationship.
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12-24-2012, 12:09 PM | #231 | |
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12-24-2012, 12:11 PM | #233 | |
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12-24-2012, 12:15 PM | #234 | |
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some people talk shit to each other about stuff and just laugh ... it's all good. but apparently she didn't talk to him about it all she is just being a snarky bitch BEHIND HIS BACK not only will it be in the back of his mind each time she is around his family but each time he is around her family he is going to wonder what else they have been talking shit about. 2 completely different things 1. Not liking your in-laws 2. Not liking your in-laws and talking shit about them with someone other than your fiancee/spouse and you can BET YOUR ASS that if he bring it up that she will flip-the-script and get angry at him about reading her texts and use all sorts of girl tricks during the following argument. He will be lucky to know what day it is after that fight.
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For example, the husband would prefer to see his family at least once a month. The wife isn't wild about his family. Maybe they settle on six times a year. Maybe the husband occasionally visits his family without his wife. The time that the couple spends with her family would also factor into the compromise. Mature people that respect the desires, needs and boundaries of the other can work thinks out if their expectations aren't completely at odds (eg. he wants to spend every weekend with his family and she never wants to see them again). |
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12-24-2012, 12:26 PM | #238 |
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I'm inclined to agree with the idea that there are trust issues you should work on, but I don't want to give any advice about that; I've never been married or engaged, so I can't pretend to truly understand what that kind of commitment means.
Here's a sneaky idea: after the holiday, bring up to your fiancee that she looked uncomfortable around your family. Say that you saw something in her body language. Never bring up the fact that you invaded her privacy. Use this lie of a physical tell in her body language to bring up a discussion on how she feels about your family. Tell her to be honest, that she can be honest with you. If she lies to you then, well, then you might have to re-evaluate things. |
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Yeah, play mind games. That always works.
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