New Dating Megathread

[Buck]

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

[Discuss Thrower]

Originally Posted by keg in kc

Many of those "attraction triggers", however, require you to be close enough to them for those attributes to be notable. And it requires status, real or perceived, to get there.

Like, being a nice guy with a great sense of humor and an anaconda wrapped around your waist doesn't matter if you're socially awkward/inept or if you aren't able to project confidence.

Fuggit, I'm out. Ain't nobody got time for that.

[Discuss Thrower]

Originally Posted by Buck

Wtf is wrong with you?

Gallows humor mixed with self deprecation? It's been a rough 2013 so far and this is does NOT apply to relations with lady friends.

[Buck]

Originally Posted by Pestilence

When should I expect to receive a wedding invitation?

Oh....and FTR.....I better ****ing get one when it actually goes down.

At this rate we're looking at May.

lol

Edit: but seriously, I'm a little excited because every girl I've ever gone after before has had serious issues, and that was because I had serious issues. Now that my issues are gone, I'm finding that perfectly nice girls have been flirting with me and pursuing me...i'm just not used to it.

Losing weight helps a lot...

[Buck]

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Gallows humor mixed with self deprecation? It's been a rough 2013 so far and this is does NOT apply to relations with lady friends.

Sorry things aren't going your way, it just seems like you're being a little too hard on yourself.

[Discuss Thrower]

Originally Posted by Buck

Sorry things aren't going your way, it just seems like you're being a little too hard on yourself.

Maybe, but if I'm not hard on myself then who will be?

[Lumpy]

Originally Posted by luv

Yes, we like to bone, but not all of us are attracted to status. Looks like you still have a few things to learn, sparky.

I agree with Luv on this. Most, but NOT all, women are attracted to status, (and security for that matter). Whereas, the rest of us simply prefer men with an outgoing personality and a great sense of humor.

As far us liking to get boned... no comment.

Seriously though, I would say that the majority of women enjoy sex and crave it as much as men. Some of us do have that going for us... which is nice.

[Rudy tossed tigger's salad]

Originally Posted by Buck

I am horrible on the phone and with texts. Very short, give a lot of one word answers.

When she texts me, it makes me feel amazing, and I wanted to do that with her, so I thought long and hard and sent a text that I thought she would like.

She replied that I was sweet. 10 minutes later she replied that she wanted to see me on Friday.

I guess it worked.

Careful

[Buck]

Originally Posted by Rudy Was Offsides.

Careful

With what?

[Rudy tossed tigger's salad]

Originally Posted by Buck

With what?

With bitches

[Ecto-I]

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Gallows humor mixed with self deprecation? It's been a rough 2013 so far and this is does NOT apply to relations with lady friends.

Jesus man get it together! 2013 is only 4 months old so make 2013 the best year of your life. You're not good with girls? Then GET good with girls. There are resources out there. If you want it bad enough, you will put yourself through the discomfort of approaching women, getting rejected, etc to learn how to meet someone.

Common man!

[Bosie]

Originally Posted by Buck

At this rate we're looking at May.

lol

Edit: but seriously, I'm a little excited because every girl I've ever gone after before has had serious issues, and that was because I had serious issues. Now that my issues are gone, I'm finding that perfectly nice girls have been flirting with me and pursuing me...i'm just not used to it.

Losing weight helps a lot...

good for you dude. Yeah losing weight makes a world of a difference. I've been trying to lose weight for awhile and its really improved my confidence.

[Buck]

Third date tonight. Not sure what we're doing yet. Gonna play this one by ear. Assuming since she's not coming over til 8:30 or 9 that its gonna be a bar night...I think if I tried dinner and a movie I'd just fall asleep.

[Chiefs=Champions]

Originally Posted by Buck

Third date tonight. Not sure what we're doing yet. Gonna play this one by ear. Assuming since she's not coming over til 8:30 or 9 that its gonna be a bar night...I think if I tried dinner and a movie I'd just fall asleep.

This is an enjoyable thread thanks to you. Good luck dude

[Buck]

I try my best. Soon I'll be live streaming my coital activities.

[Spott]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

I think its tough to say. All women are different, but unlike men, they seem to have a wider range of things they look for in a guy. In general, I feel like most dudes just want the hottest chick they can get. Of course that's a huge generalization and no one wants to be locked down with a super hot idiot for the rest of their life (or do they??), but I think most would agree that physical attraction is probably the most important thing for men.

Women, on the other hand, like nice things and security. That's why the guys with the good job, nice cars, and nice clothes can bag chicks most would consider "out of their league". But women also look for physical attraction. I know waayyyyyy too many bums (jobless, carless) that are considered studs who get loads of pussy just because girls think they look good.

Women actually love those types of guys. Dudes like this always have girlfriends even though they live their lives broke, working odd jobs, and can't drive because they can't afford a car or get their licenses taken away for DUI's, etc. The women that pursue those dudes are usually the same ones that complain later on that they can never find a "good guy" because now they are thirty something, broke, and raising kids by themselves with no child support.