Life My boyfriend broke up with me today. - Page 5

badgirl · 04-08-2009, 09:37 PM

2 hours before I had to come to work, needless to say tonight is very hard. I have to try to stay busy, I am off work tomorrow so I can cry all I want but for right Now I am trying to hold it in.

Almost 3 1/2 years of my life shot to hell.

**J Diddy** · 04-08-2009, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Claythan

Your cat loves you. That's more than badgirl can say.

you should walk upstairs and kiss your mom goodnight.

badgirl · 04-08-2009, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

You don't have to have a man in your life in order to be complete. I know I'm the loser who lives alone, but, although there are lonely times, I don't mind for the most part. I like being independent and knowing I can make it on my own. A man should not complete you, he should compliment you. JMO.

I know your right, I have always loved being a wife and I really thought one day I would be his. I enjoy being a wife (and mother) when my kids were little. I had my first child when I was 19 and it was hard when they all grew up and left, I miss that, but I never thought I would be alone when they left. Its just a lifestyle I don't care much for, I enjoy taking care of my husband and cooking and everything that goes along with it.

I know what you say is right Luv and I appreciate it.. Your right to claythan, I don't even have a cat.

badgirl · 04-08-2009, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronjon

"There comes a time in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, ; who always will. Don't worry about the people in your past. There is a reason they didn't make it to your future.."

Might take a while to get over it but all in all you will be just fine!

Thank you, I see that is your first post and you made it count in my eyes.. Thanks again.

**luv** · 04-08-2009, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

I know your right, I have always loved being a wife and I really thought one day I would be his. I enjoy being a wife (and mother) when my kids were little. I had my first child when I was 19 and it was hard when they all grew up and left, I miss that, but I never thought I would be alone when they left. Its just a lifestyle I don't care much for, I enjoy taking care of my husband and cooking and everything that goes along with it.

I know what you say is right Luv and I appreciate it.. Your right to claythan, I don't even have a cat.

Oh, I would absolutely LOVE to have someone to do things for. I'm so a people pleaser. I just like knowing its something I really want to do, and not something I need in order to survive. Or maybe it's something I tell myself to make my life make sense.

The only advice I will give is that, no matter what you do in the future, take some time to do what you want/need to do right now. Pamper yourself with a hot bubble bath and some candles. Go shopping. Order pizza, put in Marley & Me, and ball your eyes out. Go for a nice long walk. Whatever helps you feel better right now. Put some things in perspective, then decide where to go from there.

Hammock Parties · 04-08-2009, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Thank you, I see that is your first post and you made it count in my eyes.. Thanks again.

Hold on to this man, okay?

**kysirsoze** · 04-08-2009, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by T-post Tom

And I think you meant "abstruse". Here ya go:

....
b: difficult to comprehend : not clear or precise in thought or expression

I've been called worse, but I've been guilty of both.

I did mean abstruse. That's what I get for being a vocab dick.

But I believe that definition is one added through common misuse.

Here's a pretty good site put up by an English professor that has a lot of common errors in the language.

http://www.wsu.edu/~brians/errors/errors.txt

ABSTRUSE/OBTUSE

Most people first encounter "obtuse" in geometry class, where it labels
an angle of more than 90 degrees. Imagine what sort of blunt arrowhead
that kind of angle would make and you will understand why it also has a
figurative meaning of "dull, stupid." But people often mix the word up
with "abstruse," which means "difficult to understand."

When you mean to criticize something for being needlessly complex or
baffling, the word you need is not "obtuse," but "abstruse."

Wow I'm bored.

**Bugeater** · 04-08-2009, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

You don't have to have a man in your life in order to be complete. I know I'm the loser who lives alone, but, although there are lonely times, I don't mind for the most part. I like being independent and knowing I can make it on my own. A man should not complete you, he should compliment you. JMO.

No no, Badgirl needs a man. Who else is going to operate the appliances?

badgirl · 04-08-2009, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

Oh, I would absolutely LOVE to have someone to do things for. I'm so a people pleaser. I just like knowing its something I really want to do, and not something I need in order to survive. Or maybe it's something I tell myself to make my life make sense.

The only advice I will give is that, no matter what you do in the future, take some time to do what you want/need to do right now. Pamper yourself with a hot bubble bath and some candles. Go shopping. Order pizza, put in Marley & Me, and ball your eyes out. Go for a nice long walk. Whatever helps you feel better right now. Put some things in perspective, then decide where to go from there.

Well I am off work tomorrow night and I bought 7 pounds last night and haven't got to watch it yet, so I will take your advice and start to figure out what I want to do with myself. Thanks Luv, I appreciate it.

badgirl · 04-08-2009, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Claythan

Hold on to this man, okay?

What??

**luv** · 04-08-2009, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Well I am off work tomorrow night and I bought 7 pounds last night and haven't got to watch it yet, so I will take your advice and start to figure out what I want to do with myself. Thanks Luv, I appreciate it.

Trust me, if there was a way to make a living at getting dumped, I'd be very rich.

Fairplay · 04-08-2009, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

The only advice I will give is that, no matter what you do in the future, take some time to do what you want/need to do right now. Pamper yourself with a hot bubble bath and some candles. Go shopping. Order pizza, put in Marley & Me, and ball your eyes out.

Men get drunk in these situations, and women eat......a lot.

wutamess · 04-08-2009, 11:05 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

Well I am off work tomorrow night and I bought 7 pounds last night and haven't got to watch it yet, so I will take your advice and start to figure out what I want to do with myself. Thanks Luv, I appreciate it.

7lbs is not the movie to watch after a break up.
Must get Superbad instead.

What ever came about your house being invaded when you left the house?

Fairplay · 04-08-2009, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronjon

"There comes a time in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, ; who always will. Don't worry about the people in your past. There is a reason they didn't make it to your future.."

Listen to Ronjon the philosopher.

Hammock Parties · 04-08-2009, 11:07 PM

The movie for badgirl is Thelma and Louise.

Sure-Oz · 04-08-2009, 11:09 PM

Focus on yourself and do what you can to make yourself a better person...trust me

Stay busy and do things that will make you feel good, it'll help

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