Should I confront my fiance over text messages I found?

[LiveSteam]

No woman on earth can put up with me for more than a month or 2 at the most.
& I'm dam proud of that

[FAX]

Wait until after Christmas then break it off. Immediately thereafter, find a psychiatrist because snooping into your fiance's private communications is not healthy. Neither is it normal. If you don't completely and entirely trust the person with whom you are planning to spend the rest of your freaking entire life, you are with the wrong person and your "trust issues" need some work, man.

FAX

[Garcia Bronco]

Originally Posted by FAX

Wait until after Christmas then break it off. Immediately thereafter, find a psychiatrist because snooping into your fiance's private communications is not healthy. Neither is it normal. If you don't completely and entirely trust the person with whom you are planning to spend the rest of your freaking entire life, you are with the wrong person and your "trust issues" need some work, man.

FAX

I disagree. Not only is it healthy to check this stuff its a good way to keep people honest. If the other gets upset its because they were doing something wrong. Good luck OP, I would never get married to woman on this planet because they're all liars, but that's because I ain't met one that didn't.

[Chief Pote]

Originally Posted by FAX

Wait until after Christmas then break it off. Immediately thereafter, find a psychiatrist because snooping into your fiance's private communications is not healthy. Neither is it normal. If you don't completely and entirely trust the person with whom you are planning to spend the rest of your freaking entire life, you are with the wrong person and your "trust issues" need some work, man.

FAX

Fax, you're not only witty, but you're the smartest person on this board. I'm number two.

[FAX]

I can't imagine what it would be like to be married (assumably in love and sharing your life) with someone I couldn't completely trust. It would make me very uncomfortable. Spending your days in some degree of paranoia would drive me crazy.

But, if that's how you want to live your life, who am I to say otherwise? Good luck.

FAX

[FAX]

Oh ... one more thing.

You're wrong about all women being liars. That is simply untrue.

FAX

[dmahurin]

Originally Posted by FAX

Oh ... one more thing.

You're wrong about all women being liars. That is simply untrue.

FAX

I've yet to meet one that isn't Mr. FAX.

[Garcia Bronco]

Originally Posted by dmahurin

I've yet to meet one that isn't Mr. FAX.

Seriously...me either.

[FAX]

Wow. Are you talking about serious lying like say ... "No, I didn't screw your brother."? ... or are you talking about stuff like, "No, I didn't put salt in the soup."?

What exactly are we talking about here?

You guys are freaking me out a little.

FAX

[dmahurin]

Originally Posted by FAX

Wow. Are you talking about serious lying like say ... "No, I didn't screw your brother."? ... or are you talking about stuff like, "No, I didn't put salt in the soup."?

What exactly are we talking about here?

You guys are freaking me out a little.

FAX

Unfortunately in my experience its closer to brother ****er than soup ****er-upper.

[FAX]

Wow.

I don't know what to say ... and that is pretty unusual for me ... so I'll say this.

I can't fathom a good reason to maintain a relationship with someone who is not truthful. I can see why some guys might marry some deceitful hag, of course ... they want companionship of any sort, someone to make their sammiches, and it may make getting laid a little more convenient sometimes (all completely stupid reasons to get married, by the way).

But, to be perfectly frank, there have been times when I would have preferred the beautiful and witty Mrs. FAX had lied to me. Since I've known her, she never has and I would have found out by now, for certain. And, if she ever did, as much as it would hurt, that would be the last conversation we ever shared and the last she saw of me would be through my car exhaust. First off, it would break our solemn and mutual promise to each other and secondly, I couldn't live with somebody who thought it was acceptable to lie to me about ... well ... about anything, really. I mean, what's the point?

How could you stand to be around that person? Let alone hold affection for them?

I feel for you guys if that's what you have come to believe ... that all women lie and none can be completely open and honest. Whether it's true or not in your experience, that has to be a damn difficult way to co-exist with a person.

FAX

[Fat Elvis]

Originally Posted by FAX

Wow.

I don't know what to say ... and that is pretty unusual for me ... so I'll say this.

I can't fathom a good reason to maintain a relationship with someone who is not truthful. I can see why some guys might marry some deceitful hag, of course ... they want companionship of any sort, someone to make their sammiches, and it may make getting laid a little more convenient sometimes (all completely stupid reasons to get married, by the way).

But, to be perfectly frank, there have been times when I would have preferred the beautiful and witty Mrs. FAX had lied to me. Since I've known her, she never has and I would have found out by now, for certain. And, if she ever did, as much as it would hurt, that would be the last conversation we ever shared and the last she saw of me would be through my car exhaust. First off, it would break our solemn and mutual promise to each other and secondly, I couldn't live with somebody who thought it was acceptable to lie to me about ... well ... about anything, really. I mean, what's the point?

How could you stand to be around that person? Let alone hold affection for them?

I feel for you guys if that's what you have come to believe ... that all women lie and none can be completely open and honest. Whether it's true or not in your experience, that has to be a damn difficult way to co-exist with a person.

FAX

Exactly

[crossbow]

If you wed and have children she would turn them against your family. That would not be good. It would be a source of great frustration to everyone. She needs to grow up and stop the petty behavior.

[threebag]

Break her heart. Tell her she is a worthless piece of shit and you've been ****ing other bitches because she is such a ****. But do it slowly start treating her like ass. ****ing slap the bitch around a little(it will improve the sex life) they love it. Start flirting with her friends maybe work in a threesome. Take her off the deep end and leave her to rot.


But you need to quit reading other people's shit.

[Mr. Flopnuts]

Originally Posted by htismaqe

Outside of the fact that we have a couple of kids, my wife and I are just like you.

As for the OP, you are in a catch 22. Reading those text messages is a trust issue. On the other hand, there are 3 things that couples fight about at a fundamental level and one of those is family.

If she REALLY hates your family THAT much, I am afraid there isn't much of a chance she will ever be truly happy.

My advice, and I realize I am being brutally honest here, is that you guys aren't meant to be together. I would ditch her.

Originally Posted by threebag02

Break her heart. Tell her she is a worthless piece of shit and you've been ****ing other bitches because she is such a ****. But do it slowly start treating her like ass. ****ing slap the bitch around a little(it will improve the sex life) they love it. Start flirting with her friends maybe work in a threesome. Take her off the deep end and leave her to rot.


But you need to quit reading other people's shit.