Should I confront my fiance over text messages I found?

[htismaqe]

Originally Posted by Argo

Not true.

I'd they have a large gap in their feelings one of them is going to have to give up more than what they are comfortable with. That leads to regret and resentment.

I'm not suggesting they have to be in lock-step. Everybody in a relationship has disagreements. But if their fundamental views of his family are that far off, a bit of compromise won't be enough.

[soopamanluva]

Originally Posted by htismaqe

I'd they have a large gap in their feelings one of them is going to have to give up more than what they are comfortable with. That leads to regret and resentment.

I'm not suggesting they have to be in lock-step. Everybody in a relationship has disagreements. But if their fundamental views of his family are that far off, a bit of compromise won't be enough.

You are right. I'm going through this very issue right now. It does cause problems. I dont like my inlaws and SHE LOVES her fam. Its always a point of contention. She finally just let me stop going around them.

The difference between the op and me is I tell her how I feel and I don't fake.