New Dating Megathread

[Buck]

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

[Pepe Silvia]

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Yup.

I have to look at this way.

IF I get a job it will be no more than $28k a year.

That's not impressive.. unless we're talking about undocumented workers or Stone County trailer park queens.

How about the schmucks that are like" Yeah I'll go get me a wife overseas.?" As soon as she becomes Americanized she will be out the door. A friend of my dads married this chick from Brazil and like a year later her and her mother took everything of his and kicked him out the door, how sweet of them.

[Pepe Silvia]

Originally Posted by Dayze

yeah....he's ****ing loaded.

He has to be. no way she marries a guy without arms unless he has money, call me a prick but you know its true.

[Dayze]

damn.....

[Dayze]

Originally Posted by PackerinMo

He has to be. no way she marries a guy without arms unless he has money, call me a prick but you know its true.

absolutely.

not that your a prick, but 'absolutely' that he had money.

[Titty Meat]

I think some of you are single because youre negative as ****

[Pepe Silvia]

Originally Posted by Chocolate Hog

I think some of you are single because youre negative as ****

I'm single by choice.

[Eureka]

Originally Posted by PackerinMo

I'm single by choice.

Same here.

Some couples I know are happy some are not. To each his own.

[Dayze]

agree. IMO, some things in life people do because of what was taught that they 'should' do as opposed to what someone wants to do. College is an example. I think relationships, marriage, kids etc is another.

Some folks, deep down, don't want a relationship or marriage but might 'think' they 'have to' based on traditions or upbringing. It's not a bad thing to want to remain single etc.

I think honesty with ones' self is important. For sure.

[ThaVirus]

Originally Posted by Dayze

agree. IMO, some things in life people do because of what was taught that they 'should' do as opposed to what someone wants to do. College is an example. I think relationships, marriage, kids etc is another.

Some folks, deep down, don't want a relationship or marriage but might 'think' they 'have to' based on traditions or upbringing. It's not a bad thing to want to remain single etc.

I think honesty with ones' self is important. For sure.

This is exactly right and that's a huge problem.

[Pasta Little Brioni]

Some are not capable of being in a relationship.

[Pasta Little Brioni]

Agree about the dumb bitches that will only date a certain income level. They deserve to be one and doned.

[Pushead2]

Met a girl off of match and it was going well for a couple months, but then it just seemed - off.

I was in similar situation when I was younger. So I followed the advice I didn't take the first time around & cornered her with "what's the deal and where do we stand?". She gave me the ole' it's me not you because she decided that she didn't want to seriously date anyone.

The first time, when I didn't take the advice, the girl was seeing me but was trying to get someone else (didn't figure it out until after the fact). I was too afraid of asking her because I was loving the little I received from her. She ended up getting with him eventually and it hurt a bit. That's why I confronted this chick, she said what she had to say to me and then posts a pic of her and a guy on her IG a few days later.

It sucks but it's true. If you're not firing on all cylinders for a girl, you're just wasting your time. Any time I feel I'm not getting "all" her attention, she's probably got something else going too - so I'm out. A bunch of my buddies (guys & girls) feel that she's going to end up hitting me up but I'm over it.

Always trust your gut instincts.

[patteeu]

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

There are tons of short guys, broke guys, ugly guys, fat guys, nerdy guys. Criminals, guys with no car, guys that still live with their parents, guys with acne, guys with small dicks... And yet, somehow they manage.

Those guys aren't self-loathers with incessant victim-complexes.

[DaKCMan AP]

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower

Delete Facebook, hit the gym..

Whatever. That's going to be GifHorse's response... But what people don't tell you is that you could do all of that self improvement stuff but it'll never net you a quality woman.

Why?

You're either attractive or you're not. No amount of bench presses or cooking classes will save you.

Wrong.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus

There are tons of short guys, broke guys, ugly guys, fat guys, nerdy guys. Criminals, guys with no car, guys that still live with their parents, guys with acne, guys with small dicks... And yet, somehow they manage.

Originally Posted by patteeu

Those guys aren't self-loathers with incessant victim-complexes.

Right.


It's about confidence. Sure, looks can give you confidence. So can exercising, socializing, and self-improvement. Many girls are attracted to a guy who is confident and that guy becomes better looking than he really may be.

[Demonpenz]

Being a "Hot guy" is not all about looks. You can be the top 99% of wit, humor, money making, social skills, etc. You can be a hot guy with average looks. I have a bag O tricks because I have years in the game. I have tools that I can use to bring down those hot girls bitch face. Of course people want to whine and play xbox all day because they are lazy ****s. I also am not of the approach "let it happen" I don't see any other skills in life where people "let it happen" it's not like you learn to play piano by "Not thinking about it and letting it happen" you work on your game and you work on relationships like any other skills. Think about what you want and what you don't want and improve yourself over time to get that. In my world "Let it happen and don't worry about it" gets you some sea donkey that sucks at making me laugh and can't do shit for herself.