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View Poll Results: Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Yes. If they'll do it once, they're bound to do it again. 64 47.41%
No. People can change. 25 18.52%
It depends on the circumstances. 38 28.15%
Dane is a douche. 8 5.93%
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Old 12-07-2012, 03:42 AM   #1
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It would be interesting to see the results if this were an anonymous poll.
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Old 12-07-2012, 03:46 AM   #2
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Old 12-07-2012, 03:52 AM   #3
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This one isn't anonymous?
All the mods can see who voted if they want to so no...
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Old 12-06-2012, 02:49 PM   #4
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I think alot goes into this. If you are in a terrible marriage, and you are just biding time to get the **** out for financial or legal reasons, and you cheat? I think you can change. If you cheat just because you can't turn down strange, then you will cheat regardless of if you are happily married or not. I think cheating can be like a drug addiction. Some people can have a few beers and go home, others just keep going until they are ****ed up.
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Old 12-06-2012, 02:53 PM   #5
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I think alot goes into this. If you are in a terrible marriage, and you are just biding time to get the **** out for financial or legal reasons, and you cheat? I think you can change. If you cheat just because you can't turn down strange, then you will cheat regardless of if you are happily married or not. I think cheating can be like a drug addiction. Some people can have a few beers and go home, others just keep going until they are ****ed up.
I agree.

I do think that some people are just dogs. Despite "settling down" in a relationship with an official title, they really have no desire to be monogamous.

On the other hand, I don't think everyone that cheats is 100% like that.

Maybe they're missing an emotional connection and trying to find it anyway they can. Maybe they're missing that physical side of the relationship that some people don't like to admit is as important as it is. Maybe they're just pissed off like Durtyrute was..

I understand you can't really generalize human emotion like this. I was just trying to get your own opinions from your personal experiences.
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Old 12-06-2012, 03:01 PM   #6
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I agree.

I do think that some people are just dogs. Despite "settling down" in a relationship with an official title, they really have no desire to be monogamous.

On the other hand, I don't think everyone that cheats is 100% like that.

Maybe they're missing an emotional connection and trying to find it anyway they can. Maybe they're missing that physical side of the relationship that some people don't like to admit is as important as it is. Maybe they're just pissed off like Durtyrute was..

I understand you can't really generalize human emotion like this. I was just trying to get your own opinions from your personal experiences.
I didn't cheat cause I was pissed. Even though I was pissed cause she wouldn't suck it more, even though she said she would if I shaved my gonads, (that lying ass bitch face) that's not why I cheated. I cheated because my first love, even though she cheated on me six years earlier, wanted to get down durty style, so we did.

With all of that being said, people can and do change. That "once a cheater, always a cheater" bullshit is well, bullshit.
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Old 12-06-2012, 05:01 PM   #7
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I think most relationships are ****ed up to begin with. You either learn to communicate about your needs and work through those or you cheat or you forever resent the fact that you are at the point you are at.
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Old 12-06-2012, 05:54 PM   #8
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Also, is the person who the person cheated with a bad person? Even if they knew the cheater was in a relationship but they weren't?
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Old 12-06-2012, 05:57 PM   #9
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Also, is the person who the person cheated with a bad person? Even if they knew the cheater was in a relationship but they weren't?
Would you feel bad if Brad Pitt rode you hard all night and sent you home wet?
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Old 12-06-2012, 06:46 PM   #10
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Also, is the person who the person cheated with a bad person? Even if they knew the cheater was in a relationship but they weren't?
I've been there before.

She'd answer his call while butt naked laying in my bed. Tell her she loved him then 5 minutes later we'd be having sex...

I was 18 or so then though so I didn't even care.

Looking back on it I feel pretty bad because i dont think he ever found out. I saw first-hand how easy it was to cheat... You never really know these days..
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Old 12-06-2012, 06:01 PM   #11
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Would you feel bad if Brad Pitt rode you hard all night and sent you home wet?
Good question. Should I feel bad for enabling him to cheat, or should the feeling of guilt be on him? If the cheater shows no remorse, should the third party hold any blame?
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Good question. Should I feel bad for enabling him to cheat, or should the feeling of guilt be on him? If the cheater shows no remorse, should the third party hold any blame?
well, if you go to the press you're going to get a lot of money, and you should never feel bad about a lot of money
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people can and do change

As people age their perspective changes


I don't expect someone to change in a month or even a year but as the years go by they change.
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Good question. Should I feel bad for enabling him to cheat, or should the feeling of guilt be on him? If the cheater shows no remorse, should the third party hold any blame?
PS. I probably would not consider entering into a relationship with someone who cheats with me. Sex is one thing, but I will not tie myself to that person emotionally.
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