Life Signs of attraction - Page 3

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 11:03 AM

Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428

Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you
By Matt Christensen

You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one.

Clue #1: She’s all decked out
What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman.

Clue #2: She licks her lips
What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.”

Clue #3: She tosses her hair
What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.”

Clue #4: Her feet face you
What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.”

Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t.

Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer.

So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them.

I'll start.

1. We keep adjusting our pants.

2. We take off our pants.

3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up.

4. We try to lick your lips.

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

of course when I'm talking to them, but I'm not running my hands through my hair and licking my lips when I do it, that would give the wrong impression even if you didn't want them, men thinks with their dicks and if you were looking a guy in the eyes while licking your lips, you may not be thinking anything, but he probably is.

Truthfully, he probably is anyway.

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by 4th and Long

Hey. bad girl and chiefs4me. Instead of arguing what's NOT a sign of attraction, kindly stick to the topic and tell us what is it you women do that IS a sign we men should be looking for!

- 4th
*putting the train back on the tracks*

I always just made eye contact, if you hold eye contact long enough and give them the right look, they will know what you want.

**CosmicPal** · 04-27-2005, 12:05 PM

When I'm at a bar and shooting pool. If I see a gal looking at me and I'm waiting for my turn to shoot pool. I'll hold the pool cue upright and stroke the cue up and down and smile at the girl. If she returns a smile, all is well I'll be going home with her.

Well, it's better than sticking your foot out....

patteeu · 04-27-2005, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by chiefs4me

number 3 is a lie.....my damn hair is long and gets in my way all the time. I am constantly tossing and flipping it and it doesn't mean I have the hots for the bag boy at the store.

Maybe you are just a subconscous slut.

patteeu · 04-27-2005, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by chiefs4me

I make eye contact with everyone......the eyes are the window to the soul. Making eye contact with someone does not mean you want to screw them.....Do you not make eye contact with guys at all badgirl?

Maybe I should strike the word "maybe" from my last post.

Biohazard · 04-27-2005, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

I always just made eye contact, if you hold eye contact long enough and give them the right look, they will know what you want.

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

patteeu · 04-27-2005, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ponycar93

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

I think the rule is that if you exhibit more than one of the signs of attraction or if you exhibit one sign for an extended period, then it doesn't matter what your intention was, you have to put out anyway. Don't blame me, I'm not the one who makes the rules.

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ponycar93

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

well that would be a different kind of look, your eyes will tell a man what you want and if they have a half a brain they will be able to pick up on it in no time.

**luv** · 04-27-2005, 12:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ponycar93

But what if they think your making eye contact, when really they have somthing on their face that you cant stop looking at, what do you do then. They may think you want somthing that you rally dont!!

That's why girls don't go out alone. When we see a guy that catches our attention, we can turn to our friend and make sure we don't have anything on our face or in our teeth.

Another sign I would say is when a woman "breaks free" from the group of girlfriends that she's with. At least that's what I do, I'm under the impression a guy will approach you if you're not surrounded. Don't take my word for it though ladies, cuz when I do that, the guy usually comes up and asks me if my friend is available. lol

**Rain Man** · 04-27-2005, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

I think the rule is that if you exhibit more than one of the signs of attraction or if you exhibit one sign for an extended period, then it doesn't matter what your intention was, you have to put out anyway. Don't blame me, I'm not the one who makes the rules.

Well, by golly you should be.

**CosmicPal** · 04-27-2005, 12:20 PM

Bleh, every time I make eye contact with a gal, they think I'm a stalker and look away.

That's when I usually send a note over with the waitress saying, "Hi, wanna go to my place and play with my chainsaw?"

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by luv2rite

That's why girls don't go out alone. When we see a guy that catches our attention, we can turn to our friend and make sure we don't have anything on our face or in our teeth.

Another sign I would say is when a woman "breaks free" from the group of girlfriends that she's with. At least that's what I do, I'm under the impression a guy will approach you if you're not surrounded. Don't take my word for it though ladies, cuz when I do that, the guy usually comes up and asks me if my friend is available. lol

A lot of guys want to come up and talk to you when your with your friends I think, to try to impress the whole table, I guess a guy figures, well if I can't get the one I want, maybe I can get one of her friends.

Who Knows?????

badgirl · 04-27-2005, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by CosmicPal

Bleh, every time I make eye contact with a gal, they think I'm a stalker and look away.

That's when I usually send a note over with the waitress saying, "Hi, wanna go to my place and play with my chainsaw?"

If a guy tries to make eye contact with me and I'm not interested I will not look at them or even in the direction they are in, sometimes that don't work, the next thing you feel is a tap on the shoulder and being asked for a dance, a lot of men I have met in bars feel like if you dance with them, they can take over the rest of the night and sit at your table and act like your with them,

this always pissed me off and I have had to get really rude to get them to leave me alone.

**Donger** · 04-27-2005, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by badgirl

A lot of guys want to come up and talk to you when your with your friends I think, to try to impress the whole table, I guess a guy figures, well if I can't get the one I want, maybe I can get one of her friends.

Who Knows?????

Well, since all women are at the very least closet lesbians, said fella is looking for a lesbo gangbang.

I thought you females knew this.

chiefs4me · 04-27-2005, 12:28 PM

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Originally Posted by CosmicPal

Bleh, every time I make eye contact with a gal, they think I'm a stalker and look away.

That's when I usually send a note over with the waitress saying, "Hi, wanna go to my place and play with my chainsaw?"

I love chainsaws.......

04-27-2005, 11:03 AM
Rain Man NFL's #1 Ermines Fan Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: My house Casino cash: $3158491 VARSITY	Signs of attraction Below is MSNBC's article about how to tell if a woman is attracted to you. http://msn.match.com/msn/article.asp...44657&GT1=6428 Attention, men! 4 signs that she's into you By Matt Christensen You’re at a bar. You notice a woman. She notices you. You move closer, drink in hand. She tosses her hair and crosses her legs. Does it mean anything? You bet. Is it a good sign? Could be. More than 70% of communication between humans is non-verbal, meaning you can learn a lot, and save yourself from potential embarrassment, just by watching a potential love interest. Check out these things you can tell about a woman before she even says word one. Clue #1: She’s all decked out What you can tell: According to Patti Wood, body language expert and professional speaker, a woman’s appearance can translate into how much attention she needs, and is willing to give. “When a woman takes care of herself, men assume she’ll be able to take care of them,” she says. That’s the upside. “But if her appearance is perfectly flawless, that is the standard she’ll measure you by,” explains Kevin Hogan, Ph.D., and author of Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism. Are you up for the challenge? Because she may well be one high-maintenance woman. Clue #2: She licks her lips What you can tell: “There is a certain kind of lip-licking that means she’s interested,” says Wood. “Look for a slow movement of just the upper part of the tongue across the lips. A woman has to make an effort to do that, so it’s very come-hither.” John South, from Charleston, WV, has used the lip-licking theory to his advantage. “There was a woman at a bar who looked at me and then licked her lips,” he explains. “So, I went over to her and asked her if she needed some ChapStick. She knew I caught her, and she was a little embarrassed, but she told me she was glad I came over.” Clue #3: She tosses her hair What you can tell: “Any kind of preening is a woman’s attempt to get noticed,” Wood explains. One particularly good sign: “If she flips her hair back with her wrist exposed, she’s opening herself up to you.” In fact, any exaggerated hair toss (as opposed to a quick sweep of the bangs to get them out of the way), is a positive thing. Chase Massingill, of Queens, NY, says the hair toss has been a good indicator that a woman is interested in him. “One night at a party, I noticed this beautiful woman looking at me, then she looked away and flipped her hair back,” he explains. “I went to talk to her and later found out from one of her friends that she’d been eyeing me all night.” Clue #4: Her feet face you What you can tell: “Where the feet go, the heart follows,” explains Wood. “If a woman is into you, the bottom portion of her body will face you. If her lower body is turned away, chances are it’s not shyness, it’s a lack of interest.” Most women have been taught to be polite, so they may turn to face you with their upper bodies, observes Wood. “But the lower body is what separates attraction from civility. Even when she’s talking to other guys, if her feet are pointed toward you, she’s interested. It’s a very good indicator.” Now that you know how to decode body language, get out there and use this info to approach the women who are interested in you… and not bother with those who aren’t. Matt Christensen has written for Maxim and The Cleveland Plain Dealer. So, just for the women, maybe we chiefsplanet guys can write the other side of the article. What are some signs that women can read about you that signals that you might be attracted to them. I'll start. 1. We keep adjusting our pants. 2. We take off our pants. 3. We sit behind a table and don't stand up. 4. We try to lick your lips.
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04-27-2005, 12:05 PM	#33
CosmicPal Learn it. Know it. Live it. Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Casino cash: $10004900	When I'm at a bar and shooting pool. If I see a gal looking at me and I'm waiting for my turn to shoot pool. I'll hold the pool cue upright and stroke the cue up and down and smile at the girl. If she returns a smile, all is well I'll be going home with her. Well, it's better than sticking your foot out.... __________________ - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - Four blessings upon my fellow planeteers: Older whiskey, younger women, faster horses, and more money.
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04-27-2005, 12:20 PM	#41
CosmicPal Learn it. Know it. Live it. Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: St. Petersburg, FL Casino cash: $10004900	Bleh, every time I make eye contact with a gal, they think I'm a stalker and look away. That's when I usually send a note over with the waitress saying, "Hi, wanna go to my place and play with my chainsaw?" __________________ - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - * - Four blessings upon my fellow planeteers: Older whiskey, younger women, faster horses, and more money.
Posts: 10,840