....cut the lights.

or just a small candle.


...put on enigma or pink floyd.

If she's self conscious i'd imagine the lights are off quite frequently.

He should probably just accept that she doesn't like it and entertain the things she DOES like.

I just wish I could convince her that I love her body


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A sentiment shared by most husbands. Women are weird.

you can...and I believe you. she just needs to see/hear it.

emphasize it.. touch her everywhere.

affirmation during will take you leaps and bounds..

Or a vibrator on the clit of course.

Get her "The Celebrator." You can thank me later.

The market research project that I most regret losing was a request to conduct female sex toy research in Puerto Rico. The client decided not to do the project and it broke my heart. I would have done a really good job for them.

Googled it. Make sure no one confuses it with a battery operated tooth brush LMAO

I would think in a pinch you could make that work


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Man, there are some weird convos on here. Not saying the toy thing is weird, just people giving suggestions

LMAO

What's weird about sex?

We gotta help each other out. Women are sexual combination locks


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i'd advise taking her "shopping". Not sure what the adult store scene is like in Wichita Falls, but in San Diego they're everywhere.

I'd guess she'd be embarrassed at first, but if she can get over it i'm sure being in a sex themed store lined with objects for her orgasmic pleasure would certainly heighten the senses.

Never know, maybe she'll be comfortable enough to pick one off the wall herself.

It's pretty simple. Play a game that both of you enjoy (cards, board game, whatever) and make articles of clothing the stakes. Each round or hand you both put in an article of clothing. Winner takes both items. Or if you want to draw it out use two or three markers, players decide whether to use markers or articles of clothing each round. The loser is the person who runs out of markers and clothing first, winner gets to have their way with the loser. Make a lot of suggestive comments during the game and she'll throw it just to see what you'll do when you win. When you win go to the bedroom, dim the lights, tie her to the bed and use your only your hands on her until she has finished at least a couple of times, do it enough to get her to start tiring out. And then just keep going with whatever "moves" you have in your playbook. Make an evening of it. If you do it well she'll take it as a challenge to make this part of your regular routine and come up with her own ideas of what to do when she decides to win.