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Originally Posted by Jilly
Then why would you giving it not demean you? Isn't it the same principal the other way around?
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Perhaps. However, I just try to take a more understanding approach to oral sex. It's not like I'm going to turn it down, but I'm not going to be the "dominant male" who forces the woman to preform oral such more for an act of submission rather than an act of pleasure. If it's on acceptable terms to both parties, I don't have a problem receiving oral stimulation. However, I don't necessarily like or appreciate the negative connotations that it can have, especially from a female to male perspective.
And it's not that I have a problem with submission/domination type of role playing either. That can be rather fun when both parties are in complete understanding of such a situation.
It's the blowjob as a demeaning, domineering thing that I have a problem with.