My Girlfriend got her period!!!

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by Jilly

Then why would you giving it not demean you? Isn't it the same principal the other way around?

Perhaps. However, I just try to take a more understanding approach to oral sex. It's not like I'm going to turn it down, but I'm not going to be the "dominant male" who forces the woman to preform oral such more for an act of submission rather than an act of pleasure. If it's on acceptable terms to both parties, I don't have a problem receiving oral stimulation. However, I don't necessarily like or appreciate the negative connotations that it can have, especially from a female to male perspective.

And it's not that I have a problem with submission/domination type of role playing either. That can be rather fun when both parties are in complete understanding of such a situation.

It's the blowjob as a demeaning, domineering thing that I have a problem with.

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

Perhaps. However, I just try to take a more understanding approach to oral sex. It's not like I'm going to turn it down, but I'm not going to be the "dominant male" who forces the woman to preform oral such more for an act of submission rather than an act of pleasure. If it's on acceptable terms to both parties, I don't have a problem receiving oral stimulation. However, I don't necessarily like or appreciate the negative connotations that it can have, especially from a female to male perspective.

And it's not that I have a problem with submission/domination type of role playing either. That can be rather fun when both parties are in complete understanding of such a situation.

It's the blowjob as a demeaning, domineering thing that I have a problem with.

But you're ok with it as long as she wants it that way, right?

[Pablo]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

Perhaps. However, I just try to take a more understanding approach to oral sex. It's not like I'm going to turn it down, but I'm not going to be the "dominant male" who forces the woman to preform oral such more for an act of submission rather than an act of pleasure.

LOL.

I know the last time I got head, and held the back of her head and thrust my rod into her mouth until she gagged, repeating over and over "Suck it you filthy ****, you dirty whore of a woman, ahh **** yeah I enjoy being dominant!!!"

I'd imagine most girls give head because they like to do it or they want to please their partner.

My ex gave lousy head, and I didn't ask for it often, nor did I force the issue. But when I did get it, it was because SHE wanted to do it. The same with anal sex. If a woman doesn't want to get ****ed in the ass, then she's not going to let you, and if you want to be dominant, and do it anyhow...well that's called rape.

Don't act like anal sex or blowjobs are some sort of deviant act that alpha males force poor little innocent women into. A lot of chicks are dirty sluts that will go ATM.

[Mr. Plow]

Originally Posted by PostRockPablo

LOL.

I know the last time I got head, and held the back of her head and thrust my rod into her mouth until she gagged, repeating over and over "Suck it you filthy ****, you dirty whore of a woman, ahh **** yeah I enjoy being dominant!!!"

I literally laughed for 5 minutes. Nice.

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by PostRockPablo

... A lot of chicks are dirty sluts that will go ATM.

This is what I have a problem with. The generalization that there are a lot of woman who are "dirty sluts" who do things like that. I can't imagine that being ultimately enjoyable for anyone outside of a handful of fetish freaks. It's this type of demeaning generalization that bothers me.

[EyePod]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

This is what I have a problem with. The generalization that there are a lot of woman who are "dirty sluts" who do things like that. I can't imagine that being ultimately enjoyable for anyone outside of a handful of fetish freaks. It's this type of demeaning generalization that bothers me.

I think that it was a joke. Really, the main point that I would take out of it is that women get just as horny as men, they just don't have a divining rod that announces it to the rest of the world.

[Pablo]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

This is what I have a problem with. The generalization that there are a lot of woman who are "dirty sluts" who do things like that. I can't imagine that being ultimately enjoyable for anyone outside of a handful of fetish freaks. It's this type of demeaning generalization that bothers me.

There are also a lot of guys who are filthy ****ers that will do all sorts of shit just to get off. So, it's not a one-way street.

There are dirty sluts and there are filthy ****ers. Hopefully they find each other and have all sorts of demeaning, evil sex together.

[Valiant]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

This is what I have a problem with. The generalization that there are a lot of woman who are "dirty sluts" who do things like that. I can't imagine that being ultimately enjoyable for anyone outside of a handful of fetish freaks. It's this type of demeaning generalization that bothers me.

Unless you have had sex with lots of women, then you are just talking out your ass.. The majority of women are this way once you get to know them..

[crazycoffey]

Originally Posted by Valiant

Unless you have had sex with lots of women, then you are just talking out your ass.. The majority of women are this way once you get to know them..

yup, surprise her with a bit of a thumb to anus massage when you are behind her. You'll know if she's not into it. Time it with her O and she may even learn that she really does like it......

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by Valiant

Unless you have had sex with lots of women, then you are just talking out your ass.. The majority of women are this way once you get to know them..

I've had enough partners to formulate a general understanding. But thank you for continuing my theories on this subject as it relates to a man's perception of what woman like.

[bobbything]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

Perhaps. However, I just try to take a more understanding approach to oral sex. It's not like I'm going to turn it down, but I'm not going to be the "dominant male" who forces the woman to preform oral such more for an act of submission rather than an act of pleasure. If it's on acceptable terms to both parties, I don't have a problem receiving oral stimulation. However, I don't necessarily like or appreciate the negative connotations that it can have, especially from a female to male perspective.

And it's not that I have a problem with submission/domination type of role playing either. That can be rather fun when both parties are in complete understanding of such a situation.

It's the blowjob as a demeaning, domineering thing that I have a problem with.

You've got to be an accountant.

[EyePod]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

Perhaps. However, I just try to take a more understanding approach to oral sex. It's not like I'm going to turn it down, but I'm not going to be the "dominant male" who forces the woman to preform oral such more for an act of submission rather than an act of pleasure. If it's on acceptable terms to both parties, I don't have a problem receiving oral stimulation. However, I don't necessarily like or appreciate the negative connotations that it can have, especially from a female to male perspective.

And it's not that I have a problem with submission/domination type of role playing either. That can be rather fun when both parties are in complete understanding of such a situation.

It's the blowjob as a demeaning, domineering thing that I have a problem with.

This makes me think that you were forced to suck dick at some point in your life.

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by EyePod

This makes me think that you were forced to suck dick at some point in your life.

Nope. Not once. However, I'm glad I could provide some imagined visual fantasy for you on a Wednesday afternoon. Pretty ghey fantasy Eyepod, but whatever floats your boat.