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ON CP YOU’RE SOMEBODY’S BITCH!
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Da SEI
Casino cash: $2224809
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Holy shit, the timing of this thread is weird for me. I have had a very bumpy, eventful past 6 weeks myself with this. I will respond with my situation when I get home from work. Ultimately, we reconciled and are back together...and closer than ever.
The last 2-3 months have been the worst of my life...hands down. Is Kansas a fault or no fault state? |
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Starter
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Overland Park, KS
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Sarcasm
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Olathe
Casino cash: $3322900
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Never marry again dude.
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Banned
Join Date: Jan 2013
Casino cash: $9998560
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In Kansas I found that a cheating spouse has no bearing on anything, including custody. Nobody cares.
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Starter
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Overland Park, KS
Casino cash: $3589551
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ON CP YOU’RE SOMEBODY’S BITCH!
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Da SEI
Casino cash: $2224809
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Dude... ****ing let his wife know. That ****er disrespected you and could jeopardize your livelihood and emotional well being.. You put him in his place with his life. **** him.
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Veteran
Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Jupiter, FL.
Casino cash: $-1194727
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https://www.survivinginfidelity.com
This is a pretty great resource. Lots of tools to help you personally and a venue where you can anonymously share your story. Others that have been through it have some great advice to pass on. Went through something similar over a year ago and found it all to be quite helpful. |
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Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Jupiter, FL.
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Tip of the hat LIV Champs
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: ks
Casino cash: $45421
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Congratulations
Divorce can be a good thing embrace your new life. A new beginning a new hope. Don't get down on yourself my utmost best advice Go fishing I'm not talking POF real fishing discover yourself. |
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Somewhere Kansas
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Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: HERMOSA BEACH,CA
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Marriage for a woman is the happiest day of her life. For a man its divorce.
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ON CP YOU’RE SOMEBODY’S BITCH!
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Da SEI
Casino cash: $2224809
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Divorce is ****ing terrible for some men...for me, anyways. The entire process, everything. It sucks. The affidavits are hurtful to write, hurtful to read. I guess it just depends on the relationship. I am so happy my wife and I dropped the divorce last week. I felt like I lost my best friend and I was grieving it...like I felt like she died and it was terrible...and every time I saw her briefly to pick up or drop off the kids, it seemed like a ghost of her...we were like a shell of who were in those interactions and it was freaking sad. I’ve shed a lot of tears these past 2 months and I couldn’t be happier that I’m not doin no that anymore. |
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: Springfield
Casino cash: $7014386
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Infidelity means nothing to a judge, they dont take it into consideration at all. My best advice is to start a journal immediately and log every encounter she has with you and the children if you have any. Sorry this happened to you, it hurts but I promise it gets better. |
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Starter
Join Date: Aug 2017
Casino cash: $10000400
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Bottom line...get a good lawyer. Don't try to do it yourself and don't do mediation.
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