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Old 04-21-2014, 10:56 AM  
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Anyone ever have issues with social anxiety before?

I've noticed myself being uncomfortable with large crowds of people as far back as 3rd or 4th grade. Recently though, I'm noticing it around people all together. Yesterday we had a medium size group for Easter dinner, mostly family, and I didn't really talk to anyone. Sometimes I have difficulty going to class because I'm afraid I'll be judged, or God forbid the professor puts us into a small group to do an activity.

Any thoughts or opinions are welcome.
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:40 PM   #76
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thanks. Pylons I bow to your wisdom....though I'd substitute that with blow jobs for maximum effect...
I think you just offered to blow ptylons instead of bowing to his wisdom. NTTAWWT
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:49 PM   #77
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:51 PM   #78
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Not to get too therapuetic in a public forum, but could tell me a bit about your belief that "it's sad" in regards to those things that make you happy?
Good point. We tend to assume that extroversion is a good thing and introversion isn't. Who really cares? It's about what makes us happy (with the acknowledgement that some extroversion traits like networking inevitably lead to more career opportunities).

My wife and I have some similar interests and some different ones. As we enter our third decade of marriage, we've figured out that we don't have to do everything together. She's much more social than I am, so sometimes she goes to theater events or parties without me. I like travel more than she does, so sometimes I'll wander off on a trip without her. We have enough common interests that we still do things together, but we've decided that we can do things separately and be just fine. It keeps one partner from dragging the other to a non-enjoyable thing, and feeling guilty doing so.
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:52 PM   #79
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i had it as a kid, I'm sure of it. my job in the Navy required me speaking in front of officers, pilots, and even CO/XO of the ship when deployed; and a few times in front of the RADM of Third Fleet.

My school, required us to deliver near daily mock-briefings. I was petrified. but after doing it over and over and over again, I got used to it. After time, gaining more confidence in my job and what I was speaking about, I didn't mind it. Once the confidence is there, it really does go away. That, and just saying "**** it" and not giving a shit helps too. lol.

I used to think while I was up in front of everyone (high school, middle school etc) that everyone was judging me. But, once I said **** it, I don't care what they think, it helped quite a bit.

It's odd, because I was a gymnast for 5 years; competitive, not just recreational. there were times I would be the only one on my event performing and a majority of the meet would be watching me. but it didn't bother me. Again, it was probably a confidence thing t at that point because I knew I was fairly good etc.
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Old 04-21-2014, 03:53 PM   #80
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I think you just offered to blow ptylons instead of bowing to his wisdom. NTTAWWT
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Old 04-21-2014, 04:24 PM   #81
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I think you just offered to blow ptylons instead of bowing to his wisdom. NTTAWWT
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Old 04-21-2014, 04:24 PM   #82
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Old 04-21-2014, 04:52 PM   #83
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No it doesn't. Any thoughts on why I would say that?



Not to get too therapuetic in a public forum, but could tell me a bit about your belief that "it's sad" in regards to those things that make you happy?
I'd say maybe you've had the same experience, and pot made you more anti social?

The reason I say "it's sad" is because I feel like I should be out meeting people and socalizing. Chiefsplanet has become a huge part of my social group.
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Old 04-21-2014, 04:56 PM   #84
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What is your sticking point? (i/e: body image issues, bullying issues from growing up, etc...)

What are some of the thoughts you have when you feel this way?

It could be something stemming from a bad situation earlier in life (therapy needed) or it could even be something as simple as a chemical imbalance that can be fixed with a prescription.
I'm medicated now. Effexor-225mg per day, Trazadone- 50mg at bedtime, and Abilify -2mg in the morning.

No body image issues. I played baseball all through high school, and right now we'd be playing games, which I miss.

I have had some bullying issues. Both at home, and from school. But they both went away by the time I was a freshman in high school. Well, the being bullied at school did anyway.
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Old 04-21-2014, 05:01 PM   #85
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Anxiety, no just usually don't care or want to deal with bullshit that doesn't involve me.

I like to read other people's responses(wallflower), but usually believe I can put my time in that's more meaningful.
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Old 04-21-2014, 06:13 PM   #86
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I'd say maybe you've had the same experience, and pot made you more anti social?
Haha. No not that at all. If you had to define anxiety in your own words, how would it go?

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The reason I say "it's sad" is because I feel like I should be out meeting people and socalizing. Chiefsplanet has become a huge part of my social group.
Do you believe you use CP as a replacement for something you desire in real life? Or do you enjoy CP for its own properties and benefits?

If you don't want to continue with it that's okay. Especially if you see a therapist already. Do you? If you would would rather talk in pm that is cool with me. And just so you are aware I am a professional. I am not trying to solicit you or anything (would be inappropriate) instead I am just trying to encourage you to think in different ways you may not have.
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Old 04-21-2014, 06:14 PM   #87
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I can relate to you guys about the party situations. Nothing more awkard then just standing by yourself with a drink in your hand.

It's sad, but I'm often much happier just sitting in my dorm, watching sports, and playing around on CP.
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I'll send you a PM later tonight, mr. tegu.

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mr. tegu I'll send you a PM later tonight.

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Have suffered with social anxiety since high school. Ironically I think I am naturally quite chatty when I dont feel anxious. Around the right people im almost the loudest in the group. I got professional help, which really changed my life to be honest. I would highly recommend doing so.
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