Life Confronting a cheater - Page 5

The Dude Abides · 05:30 PM

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

JuicesFlowing · 02-16-2009, 04:59 PM

Jerry Springer just called. He wants his script back. (?)

**DeezNutz** · 02-16-2009, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

That's basically how I look at it, what the **** are you fighting about it? If you are fighting because you want the girl back then you are a dipshit.

Yep.

Marco Polo · 02-16-2009, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

No it's because guys are reeruns and think it can't possibly be their g/fs fault it had to be the other guys fault....as she likely never mentioned she had a b/f or told him she was leaving him or something like that.

Alot of guys never come to terms with the fact that their g/f is just as much at fault as the other guy is.

This. I've been cheated on in the past and not once did I feel the urge to beat the guys ass. Sure I was mad and sad about it all. But it's guys nature to want to **** everything that moves. It's her job to say no. She obviously didn't.

Mecca · 02-16-2009, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by dirk digler

Let me add this is what I would have done in my younger days

Now I would just say have fun and hope you 2 enjoy each other

Before I do anything drastic I always ask myself what does this prove and what is the point of this.

If you care that much to go fight some dude, you'd probably take the girl back which in the end would make you the reerun.

**petegz28** · 02-16-2009, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

This summer, we found out someone in my close circle's wife was running, and at the very moment was at one of the guy's house at a party. 3 of us went out there and the husband kicked his ass across his house and back to the other side.

You're the other guy....the husband is the one who should be pissed off. I think you knew what the score was...on some level if not outright.

I hate the filthy pirate hooker in my story.

Why is it guys kick this shit out of the guy when it is THEIR woman is cheating? Like he made her do it or someting? Shit, most of the time I doubt guys even know the slut they're bangin has a man.

Mecca · 02-16-2009, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by petegz28

Why is it guys kick this shit out of the guy when it is THEIR woman is cheating with? Like he made her do it or someting? Shit, most of the time I doubt guys even know the slut they're bangin has a man.

That's pretty much how I look at it..

Not to mention this guy she's cheating with may whip your ass if you pick a fight with him, then you're out twice.

The Dude Abides · 02-16-2009, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by StcChief

Dude Abides... She was playing both and realized
1) I am about to get caught

2) then you forced her to get caught.....she's pissed. may end up in Divorce. (you don't want her) Cheaters will cheat again.

3) The S.O. may still be contemplating kickin' your ass.... keep lookin over your shoulder

If you were blind sided (I didn't know about the S.O.) well not going to Newton should have been a huge clue...... Thinkin' with your d1ck will get you in alot of trouble.

Actually, we have a mutual friend, and I heard that they are now engaged. How twisted is that.

Mecca · 02-16-2009, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by The Dude Abides

Actually, we have a mutual friend, and I heard that they are now engaged. How twisted is that.

He's the typical other guy, takes her back no matter what she does.

The Dude Abides · 02-16-2009, 05:07 PM

And I would be more worried about her kicking my ass than him. I had heard he was a worthless puss, but damn. I told the man, "I slept with your woman last week", and he was like oh, I see.

beach tribe · 02-16-2009, 05:08 PM

This aggression will not stand man.

Mecca · 02-16-2009, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by The Dude Abides

And I would be more worried about her kicking my ass than him. I had heard he was a worthless puss, but damn. I told the man, "I slept with your woman last week", and he was like oh, I see.

It's probably not the first time....maybe he hates himself.

**Iowanian** · 02-16-2009, 05:09 PM

People that live with their mother and have never had a significant relationship wouldn't have a clue how a man with both testicles dropped would react.

The Dude Abides · 02-16-2009, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

He's the typical other guy, takes her back no matter what she does.

Thing is, Mecca, she caught him cheating years before, and kind of held it over his head. Now she got busted, and I'm sure she begged and lied. I thought about showing him some pictures and home movies we made, but decided against it.

Mecca · 02-16-2009, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

People that live with their mother and have never had a significant relationship wouldn't have a clue how a man with both testicles dropped would react.

Ahahaha, reacting like a 15 year old with a temper problem is always the way to go.

Mecca · 02-16-2009, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by The Dude Abides

Thing is, Mecca, she caught him cheating years before, and kind of held it over his head. Now she got busted, and I'm sure she begged and lied. I thought about showing him some pictures and home movies we made, but decided against it.

Oh well now they're even...that's probably why he didn't give you some huge reaction he was probably expecting it at some point or another, he gave his woman a get some dick for free card.

02-16-2009, 04:21 PM
The Dude Abides Starter Join Date: Jan 2006 Casino cash: $6754940	Confronting a cheater Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other? Last edited by The Dude Abides; 02-16-2009 at 05:30 PM..
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