Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her?

[Blitz]

I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now.

Thanks for the tips.

UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items.

In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious.

Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there.

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by Brock

I thought you had ****ed off, but here you are with your pseudoplayer bullshit again.

Psuedoplayer?

How the **** did you pull that out your ass? Who's talking about being a player? Jack ass.

And no one was even talking to you, yet you feel the need to chime in and start with childish name calling.

You still pissy about your imports or something?

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by seclark

kind of sensitive, huh? if you get that mad from someone calling you a name, i wonder what you'd be like if you found out some guy was screwing your wife.
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Nope. Just responding to unwarranted name calling.

[Brock]

Originally Posted by Detoxing

Psuedoplayer?

How the **** did you pull that out your ass? Who's talking about being a player? Jack ass.

And no one was even talking to you, yet you feel the need to chime in and start with childish name calling.

You still pissy about your imports or something?

I didn't call you any names, I described you as dumb, since you're espousing a dumb viewpoint that only a naive kid would.

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by Brock

I didn't call you any names, I described you as dumb, since you're espousing a dumb viewpoint that only a naive kid would.

Same thing.

[Hammock Parties]

Originally Posted by luv

I could have sworn that swingers swapped partners. Who did this swinger's hubby sleep with? Your hand?

I just love how you've become such an expert on this topic.

I'm no expert, I'm just trying to relate my experiences.

Do you really want the juicy details of my encounter with swingers?

[Brock]

Originally Posted by Detoxing

Same thing.

No, it isn't the same thing. One is a statement of observation, the other is a putdown. The things you are saying in this thread are based in inexperience and stupidity, that's all I'm saying.

Things like (paraphrased) "Don't you want to sit around when you're 40 and think about all the skanks you slept with". It's stupid on the face of it.

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by Brock

Things like (paraphrased) "Don't you want to sit around when you're 40 and think about all the skanks you slept with". It's stupid on the face of it.

you may think it to be stupid, but i know plenty of guys that love to share their stories of past lays. They're proud of it and not ashamed of it either.

Just another opportunity to make a memory.

[Brock]

Originally Posted by Detoxing

you may think it to be stupid, but i know plenty of guys that love to share their stories of past lays. They're proud of it and not ashamed of it either.

Just another opportunity to make a memory.

I know guys like that too, they're called midlife crisis losers. Living in the past, bragging about the past, miserable about where they ended up.

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by Brock

I know guys like that too, they're called midlife crisis losers. Living in the past, bragging about the past, miserable about where they ended up.

Way to generalize.

Actually....it's called telling an interesting story over a cold beer. You know, something guys do.

[Brock]

Originally Posted by Detoxing

Way to generalize.

Actually....it's called telling an interesting story over a cold beer. You know, something guys do.

What's interesting about some anecdote about screwing a married woman? You must run with a really immature crowd, a story like that would be met with an eyeroll and a "so anyway" by men with actually interesting things to say to each other.

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by Brock

What's interesting about some anecdote about screwing a married woman? You must run with a really immature crowd, a story like that would be met with an eyeroll and a "so anyway" by men with actually interesting things to say to each other.

Wow. Sounds pretty boring to me. If you cant' share any wild stories about your life than I really dont wanna talk to you. What an elitest attitude.

I'd rather talk to someone who is fun than a prude.

[Pants]

Originally Posted by Detoxing

Wow. Sounds pretty boring to me. If you cant' share any wild stories about your life than I really dont wanna talk to you. What an elitest attitude.

I'd rather talk to someone who is fun than a prude.

Detox, there's nothing prudish about not sleeping with another man's wife. That's called "being a decent human being." There's literally no shortage of women out there who don't have a ring on their finger. Homewrecking is for epic douchebags, even though I agree with you that 98% of the fault lies with the person that actually cheats. Let them cheat with other people, stay the **** away.

[suds79]

Originally Posted by Detoxing

Wow. Sounds pretty boring to me. If you cant' share any wild stories about your life than I really dont wanna talk to you. What an elitest attitude.

I'd rather talk to someone who is fun than a prude.

Detoxing you're fighting a losing battle here.

I like to share fun stories with my college buddies to. But there's a difference between sharing fun stories and talking up times as compared to where you did something that is flat out morally wrong. I mean character has to come into play at some point right?

And if you can't see the wrong in adultery then I guess we're wasting our time trying to explain it to you.

"Hey guys remember the scared look on that person's face when we did this to him?"

"Oh man that was good."

"Dude I one banged this married chick. She was freaky. I think they had kids and later got a divorce but not my problem. Was probably going to happen anyways. At least I got mine.

"That's awesome."

[ToxSocks]

Originally Posted by Metrolike

Detox, there's nothing prudish about not sleeping with another man's wife. That's called "being a decent human being." There's literally no shortage of women out there who don't have a ring on their finger. Homewrecking is for epic douchebags, even though I agree with you that 98% of the fault lies with the person that actually cheats. Let them cheat with other people, stay the **** away.

When i said Prude, i was referring to Brock's inability to share any sex stories with his buds, as if he were too good for it.

[JOhn]

Originally Posted by Metrolike

Detox, there's nothing prudish about not sleeping with another man's wife. That's called "being a decent human being." There's literally no shortage of women out there who don't have a ring on their finger. Homewrecking is for epic douchebags, even though I agree with you that 98% of the fault lies with the person that actually cheats. Let them cheat with other people, stay the **** away.

THIS.

Even though I've been on the other end, ie my ex cheated n me, I would never do that to another man, no matter what the circumstances. It's just flat out wrong. If they are having problems, then let her leave him first.

edit: Ok I might if it involved my ex & her current BF, the one she did cheat with, but that is a whole different ball game.