Misc Does the "no contact" rule work? - Page 9

God of Thunder · 11:39 AM

We've all had those breakups! The ones you didn't see coming, or the ones you did and didn't do anything about it! For whatever reason though, your friends, family, and everyone else always seem to say...

"Do NOT contact them, and in time, they'll come running and begging back"

This always seems strange, however, I think it generally holds true. Once you're gone, you start to mean more to that person. Once you know longer think about it, they tend to come flying back.

Do you all find this to be true or not?

**cabletech94** · 02-08-2012, 08:14 PM

are any of her friends hot?

or maybe double or triple Ds?

just thinking out loud.

cut bait brother, have fun in florida. wrap it before you tap it.

God of Thunder · 02-08-2012, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Laz

it's true, the girl has got to need you before you let her see/know that you need her.

This is like rule #1 for dating

NEVER,EVER be needy until after you have her hooked ... EVER!!!

You'd think after ONE AND A HALF YEARS i'd have her hooked........and like I said, I didn't keep tabs on her, until I caught her first lie.

Mr. Laz · 02-08-2012, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

You'd think after ONE AND A HALF YEARS i'd have her hooked........and like I said, I didn't keep tabs on her, until I caught her first lie.

sucks man, sorry.

ghak99 · 02-08-2012, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

You'd think after ONE AND A HALF YEARS i'd have her hooked........and like I said, I didn't keep tabs on her, until I caught her first lie.

A week, a month, a year, a decade... It doesn't matter. You're dealing with an emotionally unstable species that's incapable of looking in the mirror and seeing reality. The sooner you figure out ~90% of women are bat shit crazy time bombs just waiting for a reason to come out of the closet, the sooner you'll be ahead of the game.

Find the cycles, hedge your bets, & ride the good waves till they quit.

Hammock Parties · 02-08-2012, 09:36 PM

Ignoring girls is a surefire way to get them to chase you.

I once deleted some annoying bitch from facebook...a couple weeks later she gets on IM and says "hey, why did you delete me?"

I had deleted her from my IM list and had no idea who she was and told her so. Boy did that piss her off. I had shattered her little world where every guy she meets gives her oodles and oodles of attention for no reason...AND SHE COULDN'T HANDLE IT!

rtmike · 02-08-2012, 10:36 PM

She wanted the break to keep you on a leash in case things don't work out the way she wants.

I've been there. With a couple chicks the one thing they couldn't stand to see was me with someone else. They didn't want me but they didn't want anyone else to have me either.

If she really cares, she'd be calling the next day after seeing you with someone. At that time you can make your next move.

Good luck. It's prolly an effed up time in your life right now but time heals all wounds.

As my Mom always told me, "Keep your chin up!".

burt · 02-08-2012, 11:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Han Solo

Ignoring girls is a surefire way to get them to chase you.

I once deleted some annoying bitch from facebook...a couple weeks later she gets on IM and says "hey, why did you delete me?"

I had deleted her from my IM list and had no idea who she was and told her so. Boy did that piss her off. I had shattered her little world where every guy she meets gives her oodles and oodles of attention for no reason...AND SHE COULDN'T HANDLE IT!

Then you woke up. The end.

**KcMizzou** · 02-08-2012, 11:23 PM

Just move on and don't look back.

**hometeam** · 02-08-2012, 11:23 PM

If your set on breaking up, the no contact is the only way to go.

God of Thunder · 02-09-2012, 07:37 AM

Small update. She has some stuff at her house that I had forgotten about. Things like some work shirts, dress shoes, etc. Well, I leave for Florida on Monday for a business trip, and need these items. If I could have gotten by without them, i'd have said '**** it', but I needed them (especially the work shirts since they're embroidered with our logo). So I contacted her with a short message, and here's how that conversation went.

ME - Put my things in a bag, and I will make arrangements with your mom to pick them up after work tomorrow or Friday.

HER - I was going to wash them and have them ready when u got back from Florida

ME - No need. Put them in a bag and I will get it tomorrow.

HER - I don't know if i'll have it ready for tomorrow.

ME - Friday at the latest.

And that was the end of the conversation.

Chiefnj2 · 02-09-2012, 08:26 AM

Hire a hot escort for an hour. Drive with the escort to her house. Let the escort ring the bell and pick up your belongings. Tell the escort the only thing she's allowed to say is "God of Thunder says he'll give you a call in 3 weeks. He has a business trip next week and then we are going to the Caribbean for 2 weeks for an all exclusive vacation he just won." Get a hummer on the ride home. Don't ever call.

stonedstooge · 02-09-2012, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by God of Thunder

Small update. She has some stuff at her house that I had forgotten about. Things like some work shirts, dress shoes, etc. Well, I leave for Florida on Monday for a business trip, and need these items. If I could have gotten by without them, i'd have said '**** it', but I needed them (especially the work shirts since they're embroidered with our logo). So I contacted her with a short message, and here's how that conversation went.

ME - Put my things in a bag, and I will make arrangements with your mom to pick them up after work tomorrow or Friday.

HER - I was going to wash them and have them ready when u got back from Florida

ME - No need. Put them in a bag and I will get it tomorrow.

HER - I don't know if i'll have it ready for tomorrow.

ME - Friday at the latest.

And that was the end of the conversation.

Her new Beau is wearing your shit man. He must be a real class act. Let her go

God of Thunder · 02-09-2012, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by stonedstooge

Her new Beau is wearing your shit man. He must be a real class act. Let her go

He's not wearing my shit......when I dropped her shit off, I saw my stuff spread out all over her floor with a million other dirty clothes. I just wasn't going to go digging through her room looking for it all.

tooge · 02-09-2012, 08:56 AM

you MUST show up to pick your shit up with some hottie. I don't care if you have to pay someone to go with you, it is worth it. Even though she is letting another guy rub his balls in her face, it will still drive her batshit to know you have replaced her so fast.

BigCatDaddy · 02-09-2012, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by tooge

you MUST show up to pick your shit up with some hottie. I don't care if you have to pay someone to go with you, it is worth it. Even though she is letting another guy rub his balls in her face, it will still drive her batshit to know you have replaced her so fast.

I agree with this.

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02-08-2012, 09:09 AM
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02-08-2012, 09:36 PM	#125
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02-08-2012, 10:36 PM	#126
rtmike union paraplegic organizer Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: western Kansas Casino cash: $8590000	She wanted the break to keep you on a leash in case things don't work out the way she wants. I've been there. With a couple chicks the one thing they couldn't stand to see was me with someone else. They didn't want me but they didn't want anyone else to have me either. If she really cares, she'd be calling the next day after seeing you with someone. At that time you can make your next move. Good luck. It's prolly an effed up time in your life right now but time heals all wounds. As my Mom always told me, "Keep your chin up!". __________________ I like to sleep For I'm walking in my dreams. Live life like every DAY is your last!
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02-08-2012, 11:23 PM	#128
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02-09-2012, 07:37 AM	#130
God of Thunder Trained to reign as the one. Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Casino cash: $8849344	Small update. She has some stuff at her house that I had forgotten about. Things like some work shirts, dress shoes, etc. Well, I leave for Florida on Monday for a business trip, and need these items. If I could have gotten by without them, i'd have said '**** it', but I needed them (especially the work shirts since they're embroidered with our logo). So I contacted her with a short message, and here's how that conversation went. ME - Put my things in a bag, and I will make arrangements with your mom to pick them up after work tomorrow or Friday. HER - I was going to wash them and have them ready when u got back from Florida ME - No need. Put them in a bag and I will get it tomorrow. HER - I don't know if i'll have it ready for tomorrow. ME - Friday at the latest. And that was the end of the conversation.
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02-09-2012, 08:26 AM	#131
Chiefnj2 In Search of a Life Join Date: Mar 2007 Casino cash: $6654388	Hire a hot escort for an hour. Drive with the escort to her house. Let the escort ring the bell and pick up your belongings. Tell the escort the only thing she's allowed to say is "God of Thunder says he'll give you a call in 3 weeks. He has a business trip next week and then we are going to the Caribbean for 2 weeks for an all exclusive vacation he just won." Get a hummer on the ride home. Don't ever call. __________________ Mismanaging the clock.
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02-09-2012, 08:56 AM	#134
tooge MVP Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Liberty, MO Casino cash: $664112	you MUST show up to pick your shit up with some hottie. I don't care if you have to pay someone to go with you, it is worth it. Even though she is letting another guy rub his balls in her face, it will still drive her batshit to know you have replaced her so fast.
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