So tell me, What have I missed?

[JOhn]

Originally Posted by JohninGpt

I don't know if it is the same in your case, but for many of them, their wives/girlfriends couldn't bear the thought of being partnered with someone who wasn't "healthy" for lack of a better word, and they left them.

Yea I've wondered that too, along with most of our friends. I mean we have been through many, many rough times, more than most couples. And I know I woke in ICU with her crying over me so afraid to lose me. Then less than 5 weeks later she just leaves, after telling me how much she loves me & how everything is OK.

She still calls almost everyday, and I see her a lot, and is not & has not been with anyone and still shows up at times for the "benifits". She's gone out of her way to tell everyone that it's not my fault and how good of a father & husband I was, even defending me to her family. Really is wierd and I still love her, but I keep trying to move on, and I can't wait for her to "figure out her life".