Final Life Thread, Flame Away

[MTG#10]

I don't remember where I left off last time but until recently I had been seeing my ex-wife's best friend (former) for a little over a year and a half. She was the one that I was bitching about not letting me PIIHB anymore. Anyway, we got pretty close, even talked about moving in together at one point but I couldn't go through with it because her and her kids were major slobs and I am a total neat-freak. Plus her 4 year old son destroyed everything he touched and she wouldn't discipline him for it. She wouldn't discipline him for anything actually. I have a lot of nice things that I worked very hard for and didn't want it all ruined. This caused many fights and break-ups but for some reason we couldn't stay away from each other for more than a week...until a couple months ago.

So her boy goes to his dad's house who hadn't wanted to see him for almost a year and he notices a big scar from an old burn. Apparently during one of our many break-ups, she had left the boy alone while she watched tv in her bedroom as she frequently did even against my advice, and the boy decided to try to cook something. He ended up spilling boiling water on himself that caused a few blisters. When his dad saw the scars he called DFS on her and since she admitted to leaving him alone, and also since she didn't take him to the hospital they took him away from her. She was devastated, and I know it was a major dick move but I couldn't be with someone who had their kids taken by DFS because I was in the middle of my own divorce and being with her would have been bad for my case as I was trying to get custody of my own kids.

So we break up for good this time, and she spreads horrible rumors about me to all of our mutual friends. Everyone thinks I'm a dick for leaving her at a time when she needed me the most but I don't really give a shit. I had my own problems and didn't need her problems ****ing up my chance to get custody of my kids. Lost a lot of friends, but I guess if they couldn't understand my side then they weren't very good friends anyway so **** 'em.

Then a couple weeks ago I lost my best friend over something completely ridiculous and was accused of being racist. When his sister found out that me and Sara (ex gf) were finally done for good, she wanted him to set me and her up because I guess she always liked me. I told him I wasn't really interested and that I didn't date black girls. I really don't have anything against dating black girls, but I'm not attracted to her at all and couldn't really say "sorry man I don't think she's attractive at all, no thanks" and that was the first thing that came to mind. This insulted him severely. I tried to explain that I just wasn't attracted to them and that I cant help who I am and who I'm not attracted to but he didn't care and hasn't returned any calls or texts since. Dont get me wrong, I would **** the shit out of Beyonce, Halle Berry, Mya, etc. but I never see black girls like that around here.

My fortunes have finally changed though, and last week I found out that the judge granted me full residential and decision-making custody, and joint physical custody of my children. I'm finally divorced!