How do I slow things down?

[Katipan]

Originally Posted by Cunning Linguist

Mainly the 2.5 months thing. That's not really a significant amount of time, and I'm unsure of how it will be received. I'd be lying if I said there wasn't a little manly ego/pride component to it as a 27 year old dude. Not keeping up with her may be a red flag much like a girl not putting out.

Sure, I see that. But if I care enough about you to have sex with you more than 50 times then I want some sort of successful relationship.

Omg. Pity sex. Better she hears the truth now or the potential for her to believe you ****ed her without really wanting to goes up astronomically. I'm a proud woman. That would bother me.

Buy a new showerhead. Tell her you're exhausted but you don't want her to not spend the night. So you bought her a present. She'll giggle and you can shuffle your feet and stammer your truth. She'll be comforting and you'll cockily throw her over your shoulder and say "starting tomorrow night."