Broke up with my girlfriend

[Bearcat]

Originally Posted by Frazod

I can't imagine dealing with that crap with no benefits. At least while I was being tortured great sex with a pretty 19-year-old blonde was part of the deal (I was 24). She kind of looked like Jenny Wright with short hair. In hindsight I'm surprised the sex lasted as long as it did; I think that was just part of her control package and she used it right up the end. I assume that if I'd married the bitch it would have been turned off like a spigot.

The funny thing is after me she found a guy to dominate who actually didn't put up a fight. He was part of our circle of friends. Rarely spoke, had no personality, no opinion on anything, and definitely no backbone. She latched onto him like a deer tick. I heard later that they married. I assume that if he stayed in the role of loyal minion it might have worked out for him. Who knows?

One thing about the hair - I don't like short hair on women, and I repeatedly asked her to grow it longer. After we split I heard she did. Probably just to spite me. ****ing ****.

Yeah, we were really good friends for about a year before there was even a glimpse of bullshit, and for a while after that it was just moments here and there. That still left about 6 months of putting up with the real bipolar mind**** bullshit though. Once I started catching those glimpses, it was a weird spot to be in, because she would date pretty well-rounded guys (minus a toed-shoe wearing douchebag) who I kind of wanted to warn, yet it's not like it was any of my business. They learned for themselves though and moved on to marry other well-adjusted women.

I assume your friend had money?