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Old 09-04-2007, 03:16 PM   #1
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It's not a matter of what she's wearing, but everyone knows men are pretty visual and if a girl makes no effort to impress, whether first meeting someone or whether you've been married to them for 30 years, then what are you telling the other person about your interest in them? Now I've only been married for 6 months, but I definitely do my best daily to look hot for him. I would think she'd try twice as hard. Not to mention that she's ten times hotter when she tries a little!!
If for some reason you don't do your best every day to look hot for him, is it going to affect your relationship?

Does he expect your best?

Do you get worried when you wake up with hair a mess and dragon breath that your partner will see? Would it matter then?

Sorry if I'm being to forward, I'm just curious...
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:25 PM   #2
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If for some reason you don't do your best every day to look hot for him, is it going to affect your relationship?

Does he expect your best?

Do you get worried when you wake up with hair a mess and dragon breath that your partner will see? Would it matter then?

Sorry if I'm being to forward, I'm just curious...
I'm guessing if I went 5 years without trying to look my best for him at least once or twice a week, it would effect our relationship. Because what am I telling him if I never try? Would he love me anyways? of course, cuz I'm damn fine regardless!!! (Kidding). But I bet it would take it's toll...just like if he never shaved, etc. I'd begin to wonder why he never wanted to look good for me.
My hair being a mess inthe morning or my breath isn't really what I'm referring to, because that happens. I just mean...getting up and making an effort. If I got up, put on sweats and a t-shirt every day... esp to go out or something.... I'd be giving a message I don't really want to give. But if we go do something and I put on a cleavage shirt and do my hair, and look awesome, I'm giving a message that I'm still interested in impressing him.
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:31 PM   #3
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I'm guessing if I went 5 years without trying to look my best for him at least once or twice a week, it would effect our relationship. Because what am I telling him if I never try? Would he love me anyways? of course, cuz I'm damn fine regardless!!! (Kidding). But I bet it would take it's toll...just like if he never shaved, etc. I'd begin to wonder why he never wanted to look good for me.
My hair being a mess inthe morning or my breath isn't really what I'm referring to, because that happens. I just mean...getting up and making an effort. If I got up, put on sweats and a t-shirt every day... esp to go out or something.... I'd be giving a message I don't really want to give. But if we go do something and I put on a cleavage shirt and do my hair, and look awesome, I'm giving a message that I'm still interested in impressing him.
Thank you for the input. The vaginal side of the species continues to bewilder me...
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:36 PM   #4
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Thank you for the input. The vaginal side of the species continues to bewilder me...
yeah...we're pretty strange. At least some of us are. But doesn't that make sense...or maybe that's something I'm putting in there. Maybe I'm obsessing about nothing?
Personally, I think to feel sexually empowered, a woman needs to take care of herself and feel good about what she looks like. I think many women don't have sex with their husbands because they constantly feel bad about what they look like. But to me, regardless of weight or other factors, if a woman decides to put on something pretty, wear pretty make up and do her hair, she instantly feels better about who she is and is more apt to feel sexually amorous
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:48 PM   #5
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yeah...we're pretty strange. At least some of us are. But doesn't that make sense...or maybe that's something I'm putting in there. Maybe I'm obsessing about nothing?
Personally, I think to feel sexually empowered, a woman needs to take care of herself and feel good about what she looks like. I think many women don't have sex with their husbands because they constantly feel bad about what they look like. But to me, regardless of weight or other factors, if a woman decides to put on something pretty, wear pretty make up and do her hair, she instantly feels better about who she is and is more apt to feel sexually amorous
Yes, that makes sense. Personally, I feel the same about myself in a tux as I do in greasy coveralls, but I see where you're coming from. I guess for me, when I get to the point that I'm in love(not just lust) with a woman, it doesn't matter if she dresses up X number of times a week. I'm still going to be attracted to her. Like you said of your friend "I love her and think she's pretty regardless...but you know, I know her soul." I guess I'm just looking for that...
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:51 PM   #6
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Yes, that makes sense. Personally, I feel the same about myself in a tux as I do in greasy coveralls, but I see where you're coming from. I guess for me, when I get to the point that I'm in love(not just lust) with a woman, it doesn't matter if she dresses up X number of times a week. I'm still going to be attracted to her. Like you said of your friend "I love her and think she's pretty regardless...but you know, I know her soul." I guess I'm just looking for that...
so you're single? because that's what she's looking for.... we should have a planet get together, just so I can bring her along to meet someone nice like this!!! But you all cant' tell her i talked about her!!!
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:52 PM   #7
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Yes, that makes sense. Personally, I feel the same about myself in a tux as I do in greasy coveralls, but I see where you're coming from.
I think you'd feel a whole lot better in a pair of these:

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Old 09-04-2007, 03:56 PM   #8
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Do they come in plaid? I have a lot of plaid...... and do they come in a higher heel? Maybe a swimming goldfish in the heel?
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