Confronting a cheater

[stevieray]

anger masks sadness...if something like that doesn't make you angry or sad..then you prolly won't ever have a loving relationship.

that said, some people handle things differently, and the risk of being shot does exist.

[Mecca]

Originally Posted by stevieray

anger masks sadness...if something like that doesn't make you angry or sad..then you prolly won't ever have a loving relationship.

that said, some people handle things differently, and the risk of being shot does exist.

Then at that point it's misplaced, your anger should be at her, not some guy you don't know.

That was my entire point.

[Just Passin' By]

Originally Posted by Mecca

Then at that point it's misplaced, your anger should be at her, not some guy you don't know.

That was my entire point.

The guy knew she was living with an "ex". He's at fault as well as her. The anger's not misplaced, and there's usually plenty of it to go around.

[Mecca]

Originally Posted by Just Passin' By

The guy knew she was living with an "ex". He's at fault as well as her. The anger's not misplaced, and there's usually plenty of it to go around.

That's just one situation but say he really believed it was her ex, he doesn't believe he's doing anything wrong.

[The Dude Abides]

Originally Posted by Mecca

That's just one situation but say he really believed it was her ex, he doesn't believe he's doing anything wrong.

And yes I did believe her, until her shady actions really got me to thinking about it. Then when I asked her man if they were together, he said yes, I then told him what had been going on. Not before.

[Just Passin' By]

Originally Posted by Mecca

That's just one situation but say he really believed it was her ex, he doesn't believe he's doing anything wrong.

Well, if you change the terms of the hypothetical, you can get all kinds of different answers. The partner is always going to be at fault, and the 'other person' is at fault if they knew or should have known.

Either way, going to the house after you've been sleeping with a woman, and telling the 'ex' about it in person is just asking for the guy to go UFC or pistol range on your stupid ass.

[stevieray]

Originally Posted by Mecca

Then at that point it's misplaced, your anger should be at her, not some guy you don't know.

That was my entire point.

only an idiot wouldn't be able to figure out he's sleeping with someone who is married..unless it was one time..the truth is eventually going to come out.

besides, just because the woman has no integrity, doesn't give the guy a free pass...if you'd sleep with a friends girlfriend, you aren't a friend.

[Mecca]

Originally Posted by stevieray

only an idiot wouldn't be able to figure out he's sleeping with someone who is married..unless it was one time..the truth is eventually going to come out.

besides, just because the woman has no integrity, doesn't give the guy a free pass...if you'd sleep with a friends girlfriend, you aren't a friend.

Did I not cover the difference between it being a friend of yours and just some random guy earlier in the thread?

[stevieray]

Originally Posted by Mecca

Did I not cover the difference between it being a friend of yours and just some random guy earlier in the thread?

Did I not address that in the first sentence of the reply?

[Predarat]

Originally Posted by jspchief

If a guy was screwing my girl, knowing that she was my girl, he's going to get his ass kicked.

Doesn't change that my girl is a slut.

this

Originally Posted by luv

I don't hink it's that men don't give women credit. I think it's because men want to fight, and most don't hit women.

this too