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Old 02-04-2010, 10:53 AM  
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Grandfather had a stroke early Tues morning. Right side affected, brain bleeding with a 3 cm hematoma on the back of his head. We're wishing for mercy and not just comfort for the old man. I'm fine, it's just rough for everyone.

My grandmother had passed last November of cancer and he dealt with it like champ. Even though he had previously started losing his mind a couple of years before she was diagnosed with cancer. He's been living in assisted living for the past year.

Right now he's able to "wake up", able to understand, but unable to talk (if/when he does he sounds like ****ing Scooby Doo with his mouth full), able to stand up but unable to walk. He can smile.

And now that he's "pulling through." I can't help but feel frustrated. If he does "live", what the hell does he have to live for? A nursing home where he'll have to be pushed around everywhere and fed by someone else and he can't ****ing tell anyone what he wants and we can't understand him.

I'm pretty much venting because I'm incredibly frustrated. A lot of people (CP members included.) have had family members pass too soon. And as soon as there's someone who is ready to go and should be given mercy...they end up sitting on the bench for way too long.

If anyone talks to God, please remind them that they forgot someone. I would appreciate it
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Old 02-04-2010, 04:30 PM   #16
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My condolences for your situation. Here is to a peaceful resolution for your family.
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Old 02-04-2010, 04:33 PM   #17
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Old 02-04-2010, 05:57 PM   #18
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Thoughts and prayers with you.


Hubby's grandmother is in the ICU since yesterday. She is 88 and they don't expect her to come home.
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Old 02-05-2010, 08:32 AM   #19
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:53 PM   #20
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Old 02-06-2010, 11:02 AM   #21
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good thoughts headed you qay. had grandma that lived in an alzheimer unit for 13 years. didn't know a soul the entiretime and didn't pass until the brain finally forgot the auto funtions - heart just quit pumpimg.
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Old 02-11-2010, 03:34 PM   #22
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***Update****

At 2:30 this morning my grandfather finally passed. My father and I have already moved his items from the nursing home. (My dad got the 40 inch flat screen consolation prize!)

I thank all of you for your compassion. This website/community is absolutely fantastic. I'm very glad to be apart of it!

Thanks again!

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Old 02-11-2010, 03:38 PM   #23
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Old 02-11-2010, 03:56 PM   #24
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Good to hear man. I must admit that it's a bit unusual to hear someone happy about a loved one passing, but I certainly understand your situation. I'm glad that it's over for all involved.
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Old 02-11-2010, 03:59 PM   #25
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***Update****

At 2:30 this morning my grandfather finally passed. My father and I have already moved his items from the nursing home. (My dad got the 40 inch flat screen consolation prize!)

I thank all of you for your compassion. This website/community is absolutely fantastic. I'm very glad to be apart of it!

Thanks again!

Jon
The only guarantee we get out of this life is that no one's getting out alive. The best we can hope for is as little pain and suffering as possible. I'm happy to hear your grandfather is at peace.

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