I thought she was just a friend & she is married

[blaise]

I wouldn't want a woman who left her husband to be with me, anyway. It'd be 20 years later and she'd still go, "I left my husband for you, and you can't even ____."

[DaKCMan AP]

Originally Posted by Thatguy

I hooked up with my first love who was in a bad marriage. We never did anything physical, just talked alot on the phone . She would profess her love to me , and how she wanted to be with me, and how I should of been the father of her kids...well...she ended up leaving the guy, but by then I was in a new relationship. After I broke up with my X, I looked her up , and she was in TX . We talked and attempted to make plans for me to fly down there...but I really was interested in a long term thing at that point so we just decided to be friends. I guess my point is I don't regret hooking up with her while she was married. If I was that guy , I wouldn't want it done to me...I didn't have a problem talking to her, but I couldn't do more then that...and I had plenty of opportunities too also.

Huh? Talking on the phone does not equal hooking up.