Study - porn stars "aren't damaged" by profession

[DaneMcCloud]

Originally Posted by scott free

I suppose i'm layering a bit too much of my own experience into what i'm saying, i dated a girl who'd previously worked in the escort business, had made great money, taken trips all over the place etc... but she truly was damaged goods after that, totally unable to form a "normal" bond.

Her idea of what went into a loving relationship was way outta whack, she figured that as long as she was giving you all you could handle, that was enough... beyond that she was a moneygrubbing liar and cheater.

Anyway, i guess my bottom line is that i'd never again try to put something together with someone who'd worked in the sex industry in any capacity whatsoever.

I don't blame you. As I mentioned earlier, strippers (and from what you're describing, escorts) have a different "self-worth" than porn stars, in my experience.

These women that are "Porn Stars", like Sunny Leone, Jill Kelly, Jenna Jamison, Kimberly Kane, so on and so forth truly see themselves as "International Stars". Their movies make millions, their work is seen worldwide and in nearly every way, they truly are "Stars".

That's a different stratosphere than the chick working at the local strip club to support her kids because her Baby Daddy ran off or because she was sexually abused as a child.

[Easy 6]

Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

I don't blame you. As I mentioned earlier, strippers (and from what you're describing, escorts) have a different "self-worth" than porn stars, in my experience.

These women that are "Porn Stars", like Sunny Leone, Jill Kelly, Jenna Jamison, Kimberly Kane, so on and so forth truly see themselves as "International Stars". Their movies make millions, their work is seen worldwide and in nearly every way, they truly are "Stars".

That's a different stratosphere than the chick working at the local strip club to support her kids because her Baby Daddy ran off or because she was sexually abused as a child.

Yaeh, that previously mentioned porn doc made it very clear that many of those women are treated just like any regular movie star in many places, particularly overseas.

Its hard to imagine being in a relationship with an active one though, lol, "bye hun, i'm off to the triple penetration gangbang, dont wait up!"

[DaneMcCloud]

Originally Posted by scott free

Its hard to imagine being in a relationship with an active one though, lol, "bye hun, i'm off to the triple penetration gangbang, dont wait up!"

I suppose. I mean, it's not for me, but either is swinging, an open marriage, so on and so forth. Yet, there are millions upon millions of people who enjoy those lifestyles, so live and let live.

[DJ's left nut]

Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

That's a different stratosphere than the chick working at the local strip club to support her kids because her Baby Daddy ran off or because she was sexually abused as a child.

It's a different stratosphere than 90% of the girls that do a couple videos, take a gang-bang and get thrown to the side for the next 19 yr old.

Yeah, I can totally see how the 'stars' and known girls can be happy as pigs in shit and feel that they're living full, complete lives. The confidence these women must have is amazing.

But I think the 'damaged' comments are directed towards the flash in the pan chicks that get choked while taking 3 dongs and you never see them again. Or even some of the chicks that are on like Brazzers and stuff; generally normal porn but certainly not girls that you're going to see much of in 12 months.

[DaneMcCloud]

Originally Posted by DJ's left nut

It's a different stratosphere than 90% of the girls that do a couple videos, take a gang-bang and get thrown to the side for the next 19 yr old.

But I think the 'damaged' comments are directed towards the flash in the pan chicks that get choked while taking 3 dongs and you never see them again. Or even some of the chicks that are on like Brazzers and stuff; generally normal porn but certainly not girls that you're going to see much of in 12 months.

I guess that "technically", those girls could be referred as "Porn Stars", because they starred in a porn film, but I don't think that most people would refer to them as "stars".

Many of those women and even men you refer to are trying to make a name in the business. They haven't necessarily "arrived".

[milkman]

Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

I guess that "technically", those girls could be referred as "Porn Stars", because they starred in a porn film, but I don't think that most people would refer to them as "stars".

Many of those women and even men you refer to are trying to make a name in the business. They haven't necessarily "arrived".

I'm sure that most believe their "arrival" will come.

[Prison Bitch]

Originally Posted by DJ's left nut

But I think the 'damaged' comments are directed towards the flash in the pan chicks that get choked while taking 3 dongs

Sounds eerily similar to our experience watching Chiefs games this year.