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Old 02-16-2009, 04:21 PM  
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Confronting a cheater
Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:34 PM   #16
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lol. You enjoyed it while you could, and now that she doesn't want you anymore, you have to punish her.

Either the story is full of shit or you are.

I guess that's not an either/or.
Pretty much this.

Why confront the significant other? You knew she was cheating, so just end it. And to think people think women like drama.
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:35 PM   #17
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Maybe he didn't get violent, not because he's a puss....but because he knew he'd given you herpes....
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:36 PM   #18
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I always think it's funny in these situations when guys wanna beat up the other guy when in reality it's the chicks fault as she plays 2 guys.
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:37 PM   #19
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This is an amazing tale of woe. I can't figure out who the good guys are, though.

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Old 02-16-2009, 04:38 PM   #20
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I always think it's funny in these situations when guys wanna beat up the other guy when in reality it's the chicks fault as she plays 2 guys.
But we're weak creatures easily swayed.
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:39 PM   #21
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I always think it's funny in these situations when guys wanna beat up the other guy when in reality it's the chicks fault as she plays 2 guys.
You say that because you're a douchebag with no scruples about who you fornicate with...
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:39 PM   #22
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But we're weak creatures easily swayed.
If she thought the sex was as amazing as he did...
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:40 PM   #23
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You let her do it on her terms and you don't do it for her. You're the one who entered into the relationship that way, so you accept the consequences. That's just my opinion.
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If she thought the sex was as amazing as he did...
Amen sistah.
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:41 PM   #25
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:42 PM   #26
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You say that because you're a douchebag with no scruples about who you fornicate with...
No it's because guys are reeruns and think it can't possibly be their g/fs fault it had to be the other guys fault....as she likely never mentioned she had a b/f or told him she was leaving him or something like that.

Alot of guys never come to terms with the fact that their g/f is just as much at fault as the other guy is.
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Yeah, it did, but did I mention the great sex?
If your simple justification is "but it was great sex", then you obviously didn't have much emotional investment in this.

Consider it acceptable loss and start lookin for psychos closer to home...
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Old 02-16-2009, 04:45 PM   #28
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Wait so you're the guy she cheated with and now that she pulled away from you, you're upset?

When you go into that situation you take it for what it is.
Am I missing something he said the guy was her ex?
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So, basically, you knew she was still living with another man and decided it was alright to nail her without verifying that things were over by talking to the guy beforehand, then you got pissed because she decided to stop cheating, so you went and threw it all in the guy's face? Did you kick the poor bastard in the balls and insult his mother too while you were at it?
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No, its because dumbf@cks like you don't think twice about laying down someone else's wife. It does come with consequences sometimes.

Its the chics fault for sure. Filthy Pirate hookers.

I suppose I see it differently if the guy is far away and has no idea who you are vs someone who does know you. IF she lied about it....and the guy has no idea, its a different story. I don't know of too many cases where that is true.

I've not found myself in this situation because see, I wouldn't nail someone elses' wife.
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