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Old 08-01-2010, 04:07 PM  
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Flabbergasted and pissed

Totally felt this way yesterday and Im a little bit better today. Im just wondering if I have good reason to feel this way and ask for the opinions of the readers of this thread. I'll explain.

I was at a wedding last night, and happened to be part of a bridal party. The person who got married I had been friends with for years, dating back since high school. I've done him favors left, right, and center throughout the time knowing him but he just happens to be one of those people that depends on you to do stuff for him, but when it comes to you, he would do very little. Last night topped it off and fully convinced me that I shall never do anything for this guy again.

He orders a limo to pick us up at his house. The limo took us to the church, to the park to take pictures for the wedding, and finally to the banquet hall. I was kind enough to bring some booze and play batender in the limo by serving drinks for everyone. Oh and to mention I gave him a good chunk of change to support him and his wife for both the hall and honeymoon.

So last night at around 1am in the morning were at the banquet hall and I asked him out of the blue, I said, "How am I going to get home?" The reason I asked him this question was because I recall that the limo driver told me he wasn't coming back. Now, my friend never mentioned this to me before the wedding. When I asked him that very question you know what his response was? "IT'S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY!"

When he said that, I wanted to grab him and choke him to death. What he said, definately made me feel very angry and like sh*t. I was going to tell him off then and there, but felt it wasn't a good idea since it was his special day, and I didn't want any animosity to arise or did not want to put other peoples nights down as a result. With that being said, I managed to keep my cool.

But I told him straight, that he should of got a bus to escort us back home to his house because thats where all of our cars were when the limo came to pick us up. But, what really ticked me off even more was that his eff'n wife ordered a bus because she had family that came over from greece. The bus took them back to her house where they stayed over night to sleep. but then Im like, "What about the F***'N bridal party?! Why aren't we getting this very same type of treatment? Just totally surprised and upset at the way this a**hole had treated me. Later on in the night, he kept insisting that I should hitch rides with other people like other distant friends or members of his family that happened to come along and were about to leave. Is this right? To go around doing something like that? Im thinking in my head, are you stupid? do you think I am going to go around asking people for rides, and doing that especially when you are a part of the groom? You know how silly and stupid that looks.

*So I just got up, and left. I didn't even say goodbye, never turned back, I just called a cab and fucked off! Im never EVER doing a favor for this guy again. So, finally let me ask you planteers, do you think Im right? Do I have reason to feel this way or should I just relax and not take it too hard?
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Old 08-01-2010, 04:54 PM   #31
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I know. You're upset because this guy who got married didn't want to listen to your whining on his wedding day and suggested several options to get you back to your car, but you wanted a bus or something to take you back. It's trivial bullshit. You want to start the namecalling, you sound like a whiny little bitch over the whole thing.
Sorry about the name calling.

But Laz pointed it out.

The rage is all about the attitude. You do favors for a guy, and then when it comes to you its eff you. A lot of people would be pissed in cases like that.

So put yourself in my shoes before you begin to make ignorant comments.

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Old 08-01-2010, 04:54 PM   #32
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I'm not sure why your buddy had more important things on mind during his wedding night than getting you home.
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Old 08-01-2010, 04:54 PM   #33
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fuccccckkkk leach losers,you dont even always notice one when there are bigger ones around.do like i did, dump your wife and it will be like you bought a new pair of glasses.ex gone new woman in life,all better.
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Old 08-01-2010, 04:56 PM   #34
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Eric Berry would have found you a ride home
you just need to loose your Dez Bryant friends
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Old 08-01-2010, 04:56 PM   #35
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Oh, and as far as the incident in question, he should've at least warned you that you'd need to find your own ride home, or you should've asked when you were told you'd be taken there in a limo. But details like that can easily get overlooked, all the shit the bride and groom have to deal with is pretty overwhelming.
Well, yeah exactly.

If he would of at least told me Im responsible for finding my way back home, that would have been decent to say the least. I could respect that.
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Old 08-01-2010, 04:57 PM   #36
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fuccccckkkk leach losers,you dont even always notice one when there are bigger ones around.do like i did, dump your wife and it will be like you bought a new pair of glasses.ex gone new woman in life,all better.
Are you trying to become the new village idiot here?
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Old 08-01-2010, 04:59 PM   #37
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Well, yeah exactly.

If he would of at least told me Im responsible for finding my way back home, that would have been decent to say the least. I could respect that.
Did you ask him to wipe your ass too?
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:00 PM   #38
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Well, yeah exactly.

If he would of at least told me Im responsible for finding my way back home, that would have been decent to say the least. I could respect that.
But like I said, shit like that can get lost in the shuffle. He definitely should've been more helpful when presented with the issue though, I'll give you that much.
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:01 PM   #39
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Did you ask him to wipe your ass too?
I should of because then I would of used that napkin to wipe your face.
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:01 PM   #40
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My best bro could've promised me a horse drawn carriage and I still would've had my own plan in place, but I'm just proficient that way. AKA having a ****ing brain.
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:06 PM   #41
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I should of because then I would of used that napkin to wipe your face.
You wipe your ass with napkins? No wonder you have to rely on others to find your way home.
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:07 PM   #42
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My best bro could've promised me a horse drawn carriage and I still would've had my own plan in place, but I'm just proficient that way. AKA having a ****ing brain.
Your responses in this thread clearly reflect off of responsibility. That was never the issue. But I just got more of a feel and hate towards douchebag types.

The situation as a whole clearly brings out the true colours of that person I was dealing with. Its about how people respond to you in particular situations. you've got your point across, you can do things yourself and take care of yourself. Fine.
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:07 PM   #43
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You wipe your ass with napkins? No wonder you have to rely on others to find your way home.
Only when Im out of toilet paper.
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:09 PM   #44
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Maybe I'm reading this wrong, but it sounds like someone made a mistake and didn't think through the consequence of sending the Limo driver home early. Why is there such drama about that? On either side?

Was it just drunken drama? Or am I missing something deeper?
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Old 08-01-2010, 05:10 PM   #45
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Douche move on his part? Yeah. An understandable thing to overlook? Yeah. He should have been more apologetic. Other than that...meh.
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