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02-25-2019, 03:23 PM | #2 |
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Money crap tears apart families. I hate it. I've seen it happen 3 times in 3 years. Hopefully they'll get over it. Sorry for your loss.
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02-25-2019, 03:45 PM | #3 |
You Sweetie!
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You got it Luv - prayers up and out to you and him and the rest of the family.
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02-25-2019, 04:10 PM | #4 |
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P&T out for you and the extended family.
Tough times with a lot of emotion and these things can get out of hand easily. Good luck to the BF. |
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02-25-2019, 04:12 PM | #5 |
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I thought you were married.
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02-25-2019, 04:12 PM | #6 |
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Sorry to hear it, luv
Was in the room when my maternal Grandma died, it never leaves you but gets better over time As for the estate battle, my Lord what is it about a death that brings out the VERY worst side of people? Everyone suddenly becomes SO greedy and possessive... my family is still dealing with that kinda situation some 20 years after the death of said Grandma Folks who loved each other dearly, suddenly at each others throats... it's sickening and sad |
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02-25-2019, 04:15 PM | #7 |
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Never pegged Luv as the religious type. May many prayers head your way
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02-25-2019, 04:21 PM | #8 |
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Sorry to hear, it's never an easy thing to lose family, even extended ones. Hopefully your boyfriend's dad will reconsider. At this time I hope he asks, what would his mother want? No mother wants to see her kids fighting, especially at a time like this. You go, not for you or your sister, but for your mother. Anger is fleeting, regret can last a lifetime.
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02-25-2019, 04:22 PM | #9 |
You think you can get by this?
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02-25-2019, 04:25 PM | #10 |
You think you can get by this?
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Should have seen me 20 years ago. I guess life has me questioning much more than not these days, but I still find that knowing people are thinking about you can help more than you realize.
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02-25-2019, 04:32 PM | #11 |
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and he’s a one helluva cute kid too. No BS.
Since I have met the boyfriend, I’ll chime in. He seemed to me a fun loving kind of guy. Don’t get in the middle of the squabble. Stay out of the family rift. Maybe later he can patch stuff up later. My wife’s grandmother died. Him and his brother had a rift over money. Even though neither needed money. Lasted for years. Didn’t speak to each other. Really stupid. Several years later my wife got them back together to patch things up for a wedding anniversary celebration. Been cool ever since. People can be really stupid over money. Just stay out of the way and come back in when cooler heads may prevail. This may not be about money but it’s about something felt deep. Stay out of it beyond the general comment to let’s just get along, we are family kind of thing.
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02-25-2019, 04:33 PM | #12 |
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Condolences for your families loss.
As for the estate stuff, that really sucks. When my mother passed away she had appointed me as the executor of her will. She was pretty darn smart put it right out there. Anyone that disputed any part of the will would receive nothing but one dollar. Kept things kosher whenever one of my sisters started to get a bit out of hand over something. All I had to do was remind them of the dollar clause and I that I would use it!
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02-25-2019, 04:36 PM | #13 |
Damn it feels good.
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We get it, you have a significant other
Kidding. Condolences to you and yours.
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02-25-2019, 04:50 PM | #14 |
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My mom passed last year. Luckily, my two sisters and I were all in lock step on the estate stuff, and there was no drama around any of it. My family is not super wealthy, this seems to be more of a big problem when mega bucks are involved.
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02-25-2019, 04:57 PM | #15 |
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Sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your man. Life is for the living. Funerals are for the living. I hope his dad goes to the funeral for his SON and sets aside the hurt feelings for now
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