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Bottom line...get a good lawyer. Don't try to do it yourself and don't do mediation.
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Marriage is like a carnival mirror....
And my favorite line is: Don't get mad. Get even. I did not see if there are kids involved. It certainly changes things when the process gets going. When the conversation of divorce was mentioned my marriage was past the point of no return but it seems you are the one bringing said action and you don't sound like you want to reconcile. At this point it just a fight for the money unless there are kids involved and still the most major item is the money. When I got divorced there were lots of financial papers floating (none asking how my mental well being was) and lawyers trying to find hidden assets but the reason for the divorce was only a formality. Why do you want to go after the other guy? Is it your problem that he cheated on his wife or only because your wife was the one he cheated with? Your wife cheated on YOU. Good luck, May you enjoy the fact that she is going to tag any savings, equity properties, collectibles, retirement, 401K's and IRA's accounts and depending on your situation own or make you buy her out of any businesses you own together. My divorce was easy, we only dealt with the money. You will soon understand, with 20/20, why prenups are so important.
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Well, for one, it happened in my house while I was on vacation with the kids. Two, I'm not confronting him, just giving his wife a heads up.
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Had she been planning the infidelity? How did you find out?
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Please sight cases where this has happened in Kansas?
I know a few, or did, Kansas specialty divorce lawyers who deal with tax, trust, and family areas and they all told me, for future reference, that unless there are extenuating circumstances that a prenup is gold. All the way down to family issues such as where the kids spend Christmas!
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Yikes really? That is the only thing holding me back from marriage. I have a ton of assets. If I get married, I'm going to need to have an iron clad prenup. I've been with my chick for 9 years. She's very upset with me we haven't gotten married yet
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Talk to an attorney. I think you'll find they only get thrown out when it would leave someone destitute and unable to care for themselves or someone intentionally manipulating assets to end marriage with nothing while they have assets protected via prenup.
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You can protect those assets. I don't know what you consider a lot but if it is I would sit down with a good estate attorney before you consider anything. The best advise of course is to not get married. I never thought I would say that but it is true. The nature of your relationship when they have leverage almost always changes for the worse.
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Avoids the “I don’t really love you that much” prenup discussion. |
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