My Girlfriend got her period!!!

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by Katipan

How dumb is that? There are no "rights" except what we give ourselves. Just because I like something done to me doesn't mean I have any desire to do it to someone else.

And since all of us get off in different ways, why is it so much of a stretch to believe it doesn't have the potential to feel absolutly amazing to be filled in such a naughty way?

If you don't want to reciprocate then that is your prerogative. I just think that if a man is so incline to have anal sex with a woman, that he should prepare himself for the reciprocal action. Otherwise, it makes him a hypocrite. A guy has a butthole the same as a woman. No difference between her getting it stuffed and him. If you don't want to do that, that's your choice. I'm not saying you have to. It's like the sado/masochist partnering.

However, I think that it's a bit demonstrative and demeaning and selfish if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex, but won't let her do it to him. If she doesn't want to, that's one thing, but it's downright piggish not to expect her to reciprocate in any event.

[keg in kc]

That's kind of like saying your girlfriend shouldn't eat liver and onions or read romance novels or listen to deathmetal just because they aren't things that you enjoy. It's okay to want to do different things. A real relationship probably won't die because she likes a cock up her ass and you don't.

[Fish]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

If you don't want to reciprocate then that is your prerogative. I just think that if a man is so incline to have anal sex with a woman, that he should prepare himself for the reciprocal action. Otherwise, it makes him a hypocrite. A guy has a butthole the same as a woman. No difference between her getting it stuffed and him. If you don't want to do that, that's your choice. I'm not saying you have to. It's like the sado/masochist partnering.

However, I think that it's a bit demonstrative and demeaning and selfish if a guy wants to give a woman anal sex, but won't let her do it to him. If she doesn't want to, that's one thing, but it's downright piggish not to expect her to reciprocate in any event.

Sounds like you've been given a guilt trip about sex for years.... That's too bad. Sex, in all it's various wonderful forms, is not bad for you. It doesn't turn you into a sex offender. It's not evil and demeaning just because some silly woman told you so. And just because one of the partners enjoys something, it doesn't mean that it must be dealt out in equal portions to the other partner as well. Sex isn't about equality. Not in the slightest. I'm not sure why you're so hung up on that. In fact, a lot of sex partners enjoy dominance/submission from their partner. To the point of it being a common part of sex play. If you require equality in your sex life, it's going to be pretty boring. I hope that's not the reasoning behind your celibacy....

[bobbything]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

And, in having such an implement of sexual gratification and still maintaining the hypothetical female perspective, faced with a male partner wishing to penetrate my anal orifice with his penis, I would allow him to do so only unless he was willing to take said nine inch dildo up his ass as vigorously and for a time period relative to what he was inclined to do so to mine. Otherwise, it's complete hypocrisy. Guys have a butthole just as much as girls do. Girls then, should have every right to plow into a dudes keester with a strap on - if the guy wants to put it in her pooper.

But you're not a female. No matter how real the hypothetical may seem to you, you have no idea how a female thinks. Have you thought that maybe, just maybe, some women like it? And that each and every anal sex encounter isn't confined to the man demanding it from his partner? Just a thought.

The black and white world you're living in needs some sunlight to add the necessary shades of gray.

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by bobbything

But you're not a female. No matter how real the hypothetical may seem to you, you have no idea how a female thinks. Have you thought that maybe, just maybe, some women like it? And that each and every anal sex encounter isn't confined to the man demanding it from his partner? Just a thought.

The black and white world you're living in needs some sunlight to add the necessary shades of gray.

No, it's you living in a black and white world where it's okay for a guy to do anything to a woman and just expect that she'll like it because, well, it's you, and you are a guy, and well, she's a woman. I understand there are some psychological differences in the thought processes between a man and a woman based on biological differences. I also understand that there are mutually agreed upon sexual acts that go beyond the "normalized" sexual understandings. However, I was simply commenting on the growing references in US culture to "buttsecks!," as it relates to peoples perceptions of this as an accepted and normalized sexual act.

There is a growing concern with numerous sociologists, sex researchers, psychologists, etc., about the effects of the ever increasing access and participation in such "taboo" sexual acts, particularly as perceived by the younger generations who have the potential to normalize such acts due to their burgeoning prevalence on internet pornography sites.

I live in a world of grey. Jean Dixon would define my aura as "pewter." You need to be a bit more perceptive my friend.

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

No, it's you living in a black and white world where it's okay for a guy to do anything to a woman and just expect that she'll like it because, well, it's you, and you are a guy, and well, she's a woman. I understand there are some psychological differences in the thought processes between a man and a woman based on biological differences. I also understand that there are mutually agreed upon sexual acts that go beyond the "normalized" sexual understandings. However, I was simply commenting on the growing references in US culture to "buttsecks!," as it relates to peoples perceptions of this as an accepted and normalized sexual act.

There is a growing concern with numerous sociologists, sex researchers, psychologists, etc., about the effects of the ever increasing access and participation in such "taboo" sexual acts, particularly as perceived by the younger generations who have the potential to normalize such acts due to their burgeoning prevalence on internet pornography sites.

I live in a world of grey. Jean Dixon would define my aura as "pewter." You need to be a bit more perceptive my friend.

It actually makes a lot of sense. As long as people are making informed, nonforced, choices, I totally agree.

[bobbything]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

No, it's you living in a black and white world where it's okay for a guy to do anything to a woman and just expect that she'll like it because, well, it's you, and you are a guy, and well, she's a woman.

The above shows that you didn't read one thing that I wrote.

[Iowanian]

Don't worry, I'm sure Roman will issue you another one of your cousins to marry when they turn 13. You may also be one of those people who would suck on a muddy h'roid.

You were getting a raw deal though, if you were taking 9" of plastic only to issue 3" of skin.

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

You illiterate redneck.
However, I also have many of these previously mentioned marital aids in addition to many, many others. When I used to have sex, I just wanted to make sure that my partner was completely and utterly satisfied and just wanted to cover all the bases. One would have to be naive, a neophyte or ill-trained in the sexual arts not have tools of the trade on hand to help ensure a pleasurable experience for all parties involved.

[bevischief]

Originally Posted by Iowanian

what I want to know is how saccagoo knows so much about ancient buttsecks techniques, and if he's so certain of the exit only strategy, why in the hell do you have a 9" dildo in your night stand? dude?

[Demonpenz]

it is always hard to really get a good read if your girl is pregnant since she always pisses all over the place because she ways 3 bills. So you can't really just look and see if she is carrying or if she just rolled over on a hoggie or something

[EyePod]

That feeling of relief is a good feeling.

[Katipan]

I wonder how Saccogoo feels about oral stimulation.

[Saccopoo]

Originally Posted by Katipan

I wonder how Saccogoo feels about oral stimulation.

I'm a giver. Not so much a receiver in that regard. Feels like it denigrates the woman. A bit demeaning.

[Jilly]

Originally Posted by Saccogoo

I'm a giver. Not so much a receiver in that regard. Feels like it denigrates the woman. A bit demeaning.

Then why would you giving it not demean you? Isn't it the same principal the other way around?

[keg in kc]

Originally Posted by Jilly

Then why would you giving it not demean you? Isn't it the same principal the other way around?

Maybe something about his dick makes it insulting to women. Hung like a field mouse or warted up like a diseased mushroom.

I figure if she doesn't like it, fine. If she does like it, fine. Either way, nothing she wants to do can be demeaning. I mean, who am I to judge, and the whole idea is about mutual pleasure.