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**Buck** · 03-03-2013, 12:50 PM

Luv's old thread is in the HOC for being too big.

Post all your dating questions, comments, concerns, advice, and scrutiny in here!

**DaKCMan AP** · 06-21-2013, 09:30 PM

Yeah I don't do the hang out as friends shit after a break up.

When I break up it's "I hope you find what you're looking for - good luck." And that's it. Good-bye.

patteeu · 06-21-2013, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Yeah I don't do the hang out as friends shit after a break up.

When I break up it's "I hope you find what you're looking for - good luck." And that's it. Good-bye.

Much better, IMO.

TLO · 06-22-2013, 05:23 AM

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Originally Posted by LoneWolf

Arguing with Clay on this subject is an exercise in futility. It seems he was a fat Star Wars nerd growing up and consequently was ignored by the ladies. He's since lost some weight, but hasn't gained any class. He has no respect for women and is hell bent on treating any woman who will degrade herself enough to hang out with him like shit. He will get them all back for ignoring him when he looked like Jabba the Hut and the last nail in his douche coffin is that he idolizes Hootie.

Plus he's gay.

NTTAWWT

**SAUTO** · 06-22-2013, 06:39 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Yeah I don't do the hang out as friends shit after a break up.

When I break up it's "I hope you find what you're looking for - good luck." And that's it. Good-bye.

That's the adult way of handling things
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WhiteWhale · 06-22-2013, 06:58 AM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

No offense, I'm sure you look great, but "obese" happens a lot lighter than most people think. Brought to you by /Omaha:

Yup.

I'm a lean 185 and six feet, and I'm 'overweight'.

The BMI was created during the great depression. It's worthless.

Hootie · 06-22-2013, 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by LoneWolf

He was getting ready to tell her that he loved her so she obviously wasn't too horrible to him. She was a bitch (supposedly, we are only hearing Buck's side) on one weekend. Buck handled it immaturely IMO.

All girls can be bitchy at times. Just like all men can be dicks sometimes. It's how you handle these times that makes you an adult. She deserves to be treated with respect because she didn't do anything that warrants treating her like shit. Unless I missed something and she was ****ing around on Buck behind his back.

JFC

WhiteWhale · 06-22-2013, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Bo's Pelini

Most.

You never see a hot chick with a fat guy. You see plenty of good looking dudes with thick chicks.

One of my buds is a fat, ugly, balding guy.

He's also a trust fund kid who happens to be a musician. He bags hot girls all the time.

Women are more about social status than appearances.

**LoneWolf** · 06-22-2013, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by unnecessary drama

JFC

Nice post. Are you up early writing down whatever fabricated story I'm sure you will entertain us with about what you supposedly did last night? Make it a good one.

**Lumpy** · 06-22-2013, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

Yeah I don't do the hang out as friends shit after a break up.

When I break up it's "I hope you find what you're looking for - good luck." And that's it. Good-bye.

There was a time when I thought that 2 people could still remain friends after a break up. I don't view it that way anymore though. The animosity that's created by a break up can be too much to overlook in order to make a friendship work.

Of course, if there are children involved, it makes things more difficult. You will see each other a lot and need to remain civil for the sake of the children.

Ending a marriage is way more difficult than just a b/f-g/f breaking up, too. There is so much legal crap to deal with and that only makes matters worse. It leads to both people in the marriage worrying about what the other one plans to say/do in front of the courts. You definitely find out who you really were married to when a divorce happens though.

Rudy tossed tigger's salad · 06-22-2013, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Lumpy

There was a time when I thought that 2 people could still remain friends after a break up. I don't view it that way anymore though. The animosity that's created by a break up can be too much to overlook in order to make a friendship work.

Of course, if there are children involved, it makes things more difficult. You will see each other a lot and need to remain civil for the sake of the children.

Ending a marriage is way more difficult than just a b/f-g/f breaking up, too. There is so much legal crap to deal with and that only makes matters worse. It leads to both people in the marriage worrying about what the other one plans to say/do in front of the courts. You definitely find out who you really were married to when a divorce happens though.

Oh great. Lumpy won Chiefsplanet in her divorce. Gonzo with one post in the last month.

Stewie · 06-22-2013, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by WhiteWhale

Yup.

I'm a lean 185 and six feet, and I'm 'overweight'.

The BMI was created during the great depression. It's worthless.

I'm 6'4" and could weigh 155 and still be "normal." Really? A walking skeleton is not appealing.

**Buck** · 06-22-2013, 10:24 AM

In response to lonewolf's post.

She was perfect. I forgot my shirt 2 weeks ago and she's been an insufferable bitch to me every single day since then. I guess she was expecting me to put in some kind of effort to keep the relationship going after she dumped me.

It really sucks. Not saying what I did was right, but it was funny as hell and since that night a couple nights ago I FINALLY am over it. Not completely, but I'm not feeling that shitty breakup feeling 24/7 anymore.

**Lumpy** · 06-22-2013, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Rudy Was Offsides

Oh great. Lumpy won Chiefsplanet in her divorce. Gonzo with one post in the last month.

He traded me CP for our king-size bed.

Kidding.

Who said anything about us getting a divorce?

If we were getting one though, he would be free to post here, (he's a mod after all). As far as him not being on here that much lately, he's been a bit busy.

Fwiw, my comments about divorce were more in regards to a relative's current situation.

**Rausch** · 06-22-2013, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Lumpy

He traded me CP for our king-size bed.

Kidding.

Who said anything about us getting a divorce?

If we were getting one though, he would be free to post here, (he's a mod after all). As far as him not being on here that much lately, he's been a bit busy.

Fwiw, my comments about divorce were more in regards to a relative's current situation.

They're getting a divorce...

patteeu · 06-22-2013, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Buck

In response to lonewolf's post.

She was perfect. I forgot my shirt 2 weeks ago and she's been an insufferable bitch to me every single day since then. I guess she was expecting me to put in some kind of effort to keep the relationship going after she dumped me.

It really sucks. Not saying what I did was right, but it was funny as hell and since that night a couple nights ago I FINALLY am over it. Not completely, but I'm not feeling that shitty breakup feeling 24/7 anymore.

In an all-about-Buck world, it was truly a happy ending.

I'm sure she wasn't perfect. No one is. But even after only hearing your side of the story, I can't think of much to respect about the choices you've made since the going initially got tough. You put all the blame on her for the problems on the trip without really looking at what you could have done to make things go better, you gave her the silent treatment for several days, you tried to maintain a **** buddy relationship but you were reluctant to even make the effort of going out to address her apparent needs and then you made her the focus of ridicule in front of a live audience. You kind of suck. But at least now you feel like you're finally over it. Bad form.

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06-21-2013, 09:30 PM	#1606
DaKCMan AP Beloved & Awesome CP Celebrity Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Florida Casino cash: $5594952	Yeah I don't do the hang out as friends shit after a break up. When I break up it's "I hope you find what you're looking for - good luck." And that's it. Good-bye. __________________
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06-22-2013, 10:24 AM	#1617
Buck Take a Chill Pill Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South Carolina Casino cash: $6020295	In response to lonewolf's post. She was perfect. I forgot my shirt 2 weeks ago and she's been an insufferable bitch to me every single day since then. I guess she was expecting me to put in some kind of effort to keep the relationship going after she dumped me. It really sucks. Not saying what I did was right, but it was funny as hell and since that night a couple nights ago I FINALLY am over it. Not completely, but I'm not feeling that shitty breakup feeling 24/7 anymore.
Posts: 44,606