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Tough call dude. going for phd isn't exactly like she was out ****ing somebody behind your back. and ftr, long term relationships are never the same as they were in that first 2 month glowfest of almost every great relationship.
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women are fickle ****s that way
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Sorry to hear that dude. Now we both don't have girlfriends and both have shitty hockey teams.
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Join Date: Jan 2006
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sounds like she has moved on and she was crying hysterically because she cares about you a ton and hated the fact she knew she was breaking your heart...
I think it's best to just let her be... when bad shit happens to me I just think "in 5 years I won't even be thinking about this" and then take a deep breath and treat yourself to a new video game or whatever your hobby is and try to keep your mind off of it... it's tough dude but time heals all wounds |
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Brrrrr.....
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Maybe she thought... "WTF?!?! He's constantly gone playing hockey, I'm in school getting a PhD and HE feels "neglected"?!?! The hell with him then."
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Did you ever tell her you want to marry her? Do/Did you live with her, for any stretch? If you helped her financially, and she calls it total quits, then settle the account, and drive on. Later is later, regarding your potential future together. Just don't spend "later," looking back.
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In the first two years she use to travel with me because she loves seeing new cities. Once the PhD came into play it was a done deal, I spoke to her today to air some things out, it was a good productive talk. She never lied or hid anything from me & vice versa. She told me "I wish it was another man, it would be easier for both of us....." She feels that we were both too different of people & feels guilty for making me try to be someone I wasn't.
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Stroking to the SB Champs!
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I'm afraid it's over & damage is done....
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testing ... 1, 2, 3
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Maybe. Maybe not.
The point is that you'll never know unless or until you get your head together and your priorities straight. You guys have been together for 3 years, man. Think about it. Most girls would have demanded a commitment by now. Were I in your shoes, I would take FAX's advice as described above and start focusing on your life. If she wants to be with you, the phone works both ways. FAX |
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Sounds like she's confirmed what some of us have said.
Truthfully, it's easier that its NOT another guy. It sounds like she's grown another direction. Wish her well and get busy moving on with your life. Find some things to keep you busy, things that make you happy. It doesn't sound like you were terribly happy either. run and don't look back. |
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