Life Confronting a cheater - Page 12

The Dude Abides · 05:30 PM

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

Saccopoo · 02-17-2009, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

She was pretty ignored.....we spent hours and hours together and he was never around or called once.

He most likely trusted her.

Stupid bastard.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 03:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Saccogoo

He most likely trusted her.

Stupid bastard.

He was busy working it was all he did.

'Hamas' Jenkins · 02-17-2009, 03:48 AM

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Originally Posted by stevieray

hamas, you've just been owned by someone you routinely think of as a dumbass.

kill yourself.

even so, your initial response tells me there might be hope for you yet...

Yeah. How foolish of me to respond seriously to a serious thread that has had nothing but serious replies in it.

So naive am I

Newport_Chief · 02-17-2009, 04:15 AM

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Originally Posted by 'Hamas' Jenkins

Yeah. How foolish of me to respond seriously to a serious thread that has had nothing but serious replies in it.

So naive am I

Being a brotha, do you **** a lot of white women? The white woman is the black man's kryptonite.

Hootie · 02-17-2009, 05:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

Hamas should obviously just let women abuse him, that's great behavior.

a girl could slap, punch, kick, call me names, or throw liquor in my face and you'd still see no retaliation from me.

They can look foolish...nothing screams tool more than chucking a drink at a girl. Are you kidding me?

I don't think 'Hamas' is a tool, but chucking a drink at a girl, even if she did it first, is just loser behavior.

memyselfI · 02-17-2009, 06:45 AM

Don't.

Katipan · 02-17-2009, 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Saccogoo

The guy could be a prince, but she's not thinking of any of his positives when she's making an attempt at garnering attention. And attention is the primary reason a woman cheats. It's not that she isn't getting attention at home, it's that she wants/demands/needs attention and wants to feel wanted and attractive by more than her spouse. We all do to some degree. How she deals with that and where she takes it are up to the individual.

What a stupid generalization. I mean... Just stupid. You typed that. Read that. And hit enter.

wow.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Katipan

What a stupid generalization. I mean... Just stupid. You typed that. Read that. And hit enter.

wow.

Yea I thought that was a pretty stupid post he made.

**Iowanian** · 02-17-2009, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

You're making to much sense, you obviously aren't a good family man sense that's what I was told.

FAP FAP FAP FAP FAPFAPFAP FAP....keep crying, you infected dickhole.

**Iowanian** · 02-17-2009, 07:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

It's not like you bodyslammed her through the table dudley style....it was the first story that popped in my head.

Thats what REAL men do right? Equate everything back to monday night Raw?

Your wife cheated on you man? Sorry to hear it, its like that one time when the Mouth of the South told the guitar man that junk yard dog wasn't his friend, and then during their match he handed jyd the caveman's bone to club him with when he wasn't looking. Shit just wasn't right. So anyway, I met this married bitch on craigslist and her husband is in Iraq and......

fapfapfapfapfap.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Iowanian

Thats what REAL men do right? Equate everything back to monday night Raw?

Your wife cheated on you man? Sorry to hear it, its like that one time when the Mouth of the South told the guitar man that junk yard dog wasn't his friend, and then during their match he handed jyd the caveman's bone to club him with when he wasn't looking. Shit just wasn't right. So anyway, I met this married bitch on craigslist and her husband is in Iraq and......

fapfapfapfapfap.

Seeing as it's pretty obvious you don't even know what I was referring to, I would suggest sticking to something you know.

Internet tough guy persona mixed with hilarious midwestern family values was working better.

**Iowanian** · 02-17-2009, 08:05 AM

Seeings how you're an admitted wife****er, I can see why you're spinning for excuses and justification.

You're pretty much an all world shitbrick. I'm tempted to see if I can find you a title belt online. You're gochiefs without the ambition to go to the gym.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 08:09 AM

It really hurts me to know that Iowanian doesn't think highly of me, I tell ya.

My day is ruined now RUINED!

Be let me ask an honest question what makes you think that I care what you think?

**Iowanian** · 02-17-2009, 08:21 AM

Its good to know that I won't be affecting your score on guitar hero.

Don't laugh too hard, you don't want to wake your mom up.

You've always got guys like shyguyms to keep you of the top rung of dipshittery, but you've definitely got aspirations of greatness on thd DF scale.

Radar Chief · 02-17-2009, 08:43 AM

Confronting the significant other of a cheater?
Sounds like a plan for getting shot to me.

02-16-2009, 04:21 PM
The Dude Abides Starter Join Date: Jan 2006 Casino cash: $6774940	Confronting a cheater Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other? Last edited by The Dude Abides; 02-16-2009 at 05:30 PM..
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02-17-2009, 08:05 AM	#177
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $1658454	Seeings how you're an admitted wife****er, I can see why you're spinning for excuses and justification. You're pretty much an all world shitbrick. I'm tempted to see if I can find you a title belt online. You're gochiefs without the ambition to go to the gym.
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02-17-2009, 08:09 AM	#178
Mecca Hockey Town Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Kansas City, Missouri Casino cash: $-742950	It really hurts me to know that Iowanian doesn't think highly of me, I tell ya. My day is ruined now RUINED! Be let me ask an honest question what makes you think that I care what you think?
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02-17-2009, 08:21 AM	#179
Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $1658454	Its good to know that I won't be affecting your score on guitar hero. Don't laugh too hard, you don't want to wake your mom up. You've always got guys like shyguyms to keep you of the top rung of dipshittery, but you've definitely got aspirations of greatness on thd DF scale.
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02-17-2009, 08:43 AM	#180
Radar Chief Wearing ballistic dog goggles. Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: In the box. Casino cash: $2841503	Confronting the significant other of a cheater? Sounds like a plan for getting shot to me.
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