Life My ex had her baby last night... - Page 12

MTG#10 · 03-21-2010, 08:05 AM

I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.

MOhillbilly · 03-21-2010, 12:55 PM

ChiefsFan4Life · 03-21-2010, 12:56 PM

In this whole scenario I feel most sorry for the baby that was born to a no good whore of a mother and a hoosier unintelligent pathetic excuse for a man and and in the middle of all of it I'm sure you'll find a way to insert your dumbass into the baby's life and the baby will have yet a 3rd piece of shit to deal with.

03-21-2010, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

I have. She says she still loves me, doesnt love him, and is only staying with him because she feels "trapped". She said after the baby was born and things settle down she would be able to think more clearly and make a decision. I just want my family back, that's all Ive ever wanted. If there is one more member so be it, I would lover her and treat her like my own. This isnt entirely her fault, I wasnt the greatest husband in the world either. Thats why I havent been able to totally let go and move on, because she is still saying there's still a chance for us. If she said she was done and we would never get back together I would be able to move on.

She's not going to be thinking any more clearly now that she's had the baby. Her hormones are jacked and she's likely going to be faced with post-partum depression. You need to be aware of those dynamics.

ChiefsFan4Life · 03-21-2010, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

She's not going to be thinking any more clearly now that she's had the baby. Her hormones are jacked and she's likely going to be faced with post-partum depression. You need to be aware of those dynamics.

You are speaking to someone who is incapable of processing any worthwhile thoughts. Save your good advice for people who would actually listen and understand.

**dirk digler** · 03-21-2010, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

The fact that I cant get over her is my own fault. We've been seeing each other and sleeping with each other for the last 6 months. At first I was only doing it for revenge. It felt good because her bf knew it was going on and kept giving her chance after chance. I guess I just wanted him to feel a little bit of what I felt when he did it to me. Plus we have amazing sex, by far the best Ive ever had. I didnt think it was messing with me emotionally but I guess I was wrong. She has been telling me that she wants to get back together someday, but couldnt right now because she felt trapped since they were having a baby together. She says she still loves me and doesnt love him at all but Im not so sure anymore. Im starting to think she just likes ****ing two guys. There have been several times that I tried to end it, but she would always talk me into to it again and I couldnt resist.

You are absolutely crazy MTG. I don't want to pile on you but alot of people told you not to sleep with her because it would **** you up emotionally. You need to stop ****ing her right now and don't ever talk to her again except about your kids. JFC man.

Mile High Mania · 03-21-2010, 01:00 PM

Bottom line... you're kidding yourself. Think more clearly? Mother of four, involved with two men... still married to one of them, just had a baby by the other one.

Is that guy going to pay for anything? Hmm, if not, guess she will come back to you. Enjoy the waiting game.

03-21-2010, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by GoChiefs

Phil has officially gone off the ledge.

Never thought I'd see the day.

Do you really think so? Man, how do I fix this with you, dude? Because you know your opinion is of utmost importance in my life. Please share with me your wisdom.

**Bowser** · 03-21-2010, 01:03 PM

I stopped reading this after 100 posts.

Words just can't describe this situation. You need to get your head on straight, dude. You two are over. Act like it. Have a little pride, for ****s sake.

Hammock Parties · 03-21-2010, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Slainte

Clayton, I find your new avatar highly disturbing. Good choice...

Do you like this better?

**Slainte** · 03-21-2010, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiefsFan4Life

You are speaking to someone who is incapable of processing any worthwhile thoughts. Save your good advice for people who would actually listen and understand.

You have crystalized my thoughts, Paul...

**Slainte** · 03-21-2010, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by GoChiefs

Do you like this better?

I think I want to throw my laptop into a lake of fire...

Delano · 03-21-2010, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

Do you really think so? Man, how do I fix this with you, dude? Because you know your opinion is of utmost importance in my life. Please share with me your wisdom.

Clayton, the prognathous one, is an expert of the human condition.
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Hammock Parties · 03-21-2010, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Slainte

I think I want to throw my laptop into a lake of fire...

Good enough for me.

Frazod · 03-21-2010, 01:14 PM

Dude, if you take that ****ing whore back, we will take up a collection and hire MO to beat the shit out of you.

Assuming he won't do it for free.

What you had is GONE FOREVER. You won't ever get it back. MOVE ON.

**RNR** · 03-21-2010, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

I have sat down and talked to her about working things out. She said she wanted to wait until after the baby was born and things settled down so she could "think more clearly". She just had the baby last night so I guess I'm playing the waiting game. For how long, who knows. And its hard to relocate when there's kids involved. Plus I just signed a 12 month lease.

It is always nice for a girl to have a backup plan in case the one she has now stops working. Be sure and keep waiting and whatever you do don't move on with your life because she might call! Don't listen to those people that say you can be a good dad without being married to her. That type of thinking would totally **** up her backup plan, stay the course son~

03-21-2010, 08:05 AM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7264386	My ex had her baby last night... I dont know why Im posting this thread, just need to vent. I know I shouldnt be feeling this way, its been almost a year since my wife left but I feel like I just missed the birth of my own child. I knew it was going to happen soon and I thought I was mentally prepared but when her dad called me and told me this morning I quickly realized I wasn't. I cant believe I still love her after everything she's done to me and put me through both emotionally and financially. I would take her back and help her raise her baby in a heartbeat. Thats how much I love her. ****ing pathetic I know. When's this shit going to end? Its been 10 months and it still hurts just as much as the day I found out. Its so hard to keep face in front of my kids, they are so excited to have a new baby sister and I have to pretend Im happy and excited for them but its killing me. I know I have to be strong for my kids and I will but when they are gone I dont know what to do.
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03-21-2010, 01:03 PM	#173
Bowser sorta mod-ish Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: KC North Casino cash: $2111616	I stopped reading this after 100 posts. Words just can't describe this situation. You need to get your head on straight, dude. You two are over. Act like it. Have a little pride, for ****s sake.
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Frazod WE ARE THE CHAMPIONS Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $1643385	Dude, if you take that ****ing whore back, we will take up a collection and hire MO to beat the shit out of you. Assuming he won't do it for free. What you had is GONE FOREVER. You won't ever get it back. MOVE ON.
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