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Old 02-16-2009, 04:21 PM  
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Confronting a cheater

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

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Old 02-17-2009, 03:58 PM   #286
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I confront a cheater by cheating myself. If she finds out about it **** it who cares?
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Old 02-17-2009, 04:04 PM   #287
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Old 02-17-2009, 05:30 PM   #288
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The point is that our society and education system wants to teach history, reading, writing, math, cooking, sex, women's liberation, black history, and how to work on our cars but when is the last time you saw a secular class on how to make your marriage work - what makes you spouse tick so you can succeed in marriage? Where are those classes? Why can't we teach our youth how to communicate with their spouses and achieve marital happiness?
Human pair bonding has been extensively studied and there are several courses one could take at the university level to elucidate any questions that you have.

You won't get answers as cut and dried as what you seek above because you are looking for a very specific kind of answer for a heteronormative, nuclear family that is culturally constructed.
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Old 02-17-2009, 05:34 PM   #289
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Boy this thread got funny...seeing people who think they know express some kind of thought when they themselves can't even get over their own personal issues.
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Old 02-17-2009, 05:44 PM   #290
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Boy this thread got funny...seeing people who think they know express some kind of thought when they themselves can't even get over their own personal issues.
Its easier to "figure out" or "fix" other people's problems than your own. Its the emotional investment that provides such a problem in seeing things the way they are.

Also, people like to project. Its just human nature.

Its best not to fight the inevitable. Some people just suck. I am pretty crappy myself sometimes. You just have to go with it.
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:03 PM   #291
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No sense in saying "I've had better blow jobs" while she is giving you a blow job.....ouch.
I've actually done that. It didn't go well. Especially when I asked her if she'd ever thought of using her hands.
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:07 PM   #292
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I've actually done that. It didn't go well. Especially when I asked her if she'd ever thought of using her hands.
Huh. I had a girl tell me that her husband complained that she used her hands too much.

... calculating time spent using hands ...

hmm.

What is the appropriate amount?
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:09 PM   #293
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Huh. I had a girl tell me that her husband complained that she used her hands too much.

... calculating time spent using hands ...

hmm.

What is the appropriate amount?
Well hey not everyones the same...
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:10 PM   #294
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Huh. I had a girl tell me that her husband complained that she used her hands too much.

... calculating time spent using hands ...

hmm.

What is the appropriate amount?
Hard to explain.

This is an "in person" conversation. I leave it to my betters, whom I hope are single.
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:10 PM   #295
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We need a chart or wheel or something then.
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:13 PM   #296
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We need a chart or wheel or something then.
Spin the wheel make the deal!
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Old 02-17-2009, 06:14 PM   #297
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Huh. I had a girl tell me that her husband complained that she used her hands too much.

... calculating time spent using hands ...

hmm.

What is the appropriate amount?
Well, this girl used her hands, technically, but it was more like she trying to mimick a kid with downs syndrome trying to play handball and knead play-doh simultaneously.

So I'd probably say it's not a matter of how much, but how well.

Which is something else I said, as I recall. Funny how that relationship didn't last. Not sure why.
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Well, this girl used her hands, technically, but it was more like she trying to mimick a kid with downs syndrome trying to play handball and knead play-doh simultaneously.

So I'd probably say it's not a matter of how much, but how well.

Which is something else I said, as I recall. Funny how that relationship didn't last. Not sure why.
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What did I tell you about picking up women at the special needs home?
You said it was easy, if memory serves. Exact quote was "almost as sure a thing as rubbing beef on my dong so my dog would lick".
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