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Simply Red · 02:39 PM

So my neighbor (Sabrina) has a friend from Yale (Christie.) They never knew each other @ Yale. Funny, they met each other here. (Atlanta)

Anyway, so Sabrina and I are relatively close and we've done numerous things together, however she has a man in which she's holding-down a long-distance relationship w/. Welp, the other day we were running and she had casually mentioned that Christie (temp. roomy) and her had discussed small talk, like talking about guys and stuff (the prior night.) Sabrina (my neighbor) mentioned they'd eventually discussed 'guys.' She went on and on and illustrated that Christie is much different than that of herself (Sabrina.) In fact she'd mentioned Christie didn't think that it was a big deal at all hooking up w/ guys (as in sex.)

So, I was over there last night (briefly.) To try to meet Christie. She was very friendly to me. Well, Sabrina (my neighbor) is going out of town this weekend. I said: "Oh dear, I'd better get you my cell phone number in case you need anything while Sabrina's away." She replied, "That's a good idea" and then continued to tell me that she'd just called me and that the missed-call was her.

SO,

Pointers are really needed here, this girl is like 5'2" and petite w/ big blue eyes. 24 BTW she's a solid '8' if you don't mind the smaller petite ones.

Simply Red · 08-07-2009, 03:47 PM

By the way, you're probably still wondering what you should actually do if
you're girl is talking to other dudes. Well, the absolute worst thing you can do
(ironically) is to try to intervene to stop her from doing it. That makes it so that
she has the higher value, not you.
Instead, the best way to counter such behavior is to say, "Have a good
time!" with a tone of complete indifference when she says she's going to go hang
out with some other guy. Let her see that it doesn't phase you one bit.
Meanwhile, you go talk with other girls.

Stewie · 08-07-2009, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by wutamess

There an english version of this I can read?

£450?

This was my 5000th post. Yeah, me!

Fritz88 · 08-07-2009, 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simply Red

By the way, you're probably still wondering what you should actually do if
you're girl is talking to other dudes. Well, the absolute worst thing you can do
(ironically) is to try to intervene to stop her from doing it. That makes it so that
she has the higher value, not you.
Instead, the best way to counter such behavior is to say, "Have a good
time!" with a tone of complete indifference when she says she's going to go hang
out with some other guy. Let her see that it doesn't phase you one bit.
Meanwhile, you go talk with other girls.

**** you SR, I was immersed reading this thread and the updates..had a hot sauce on my hand ..reached out to scratch my cock ( i usually surf the net naked, and my cock is on fire now)

Simply Red · 08-07-2009, 03:52 PM

Avoid conjuring up pity
A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to make a woman feel pity for
them. They’ll call obsessively, saying things like, “I’m so lonely and I really want
to see you tonight.”
On a psychological level, a lot of this may point back to the mother-son
relationship. As little boys, we could often get what we wanted by evoking the
maternal nurturing instinct in our moms.
Don’t do this with women you date. Any time you evoke pity in a person,
they will look down on you. In their mind, they’ll frame you as a person who is a
loser, and then they’ll treat you accordingly.
Have you ever noticed that unsuccessful salesmen are the ones who
appeal to your pity? (“Please buy this car so I can eat this month!”)
Psychologically, people cannot help having derision for those they pity.
The successful salesmen are those who make sure customers feel they (and not
the salesmen) are gaining a benefit by buying their cars and not just feeling sorry
for someone.

teedubya · 08-07-2009, 03:52 PM

wutamess · 08-07-2009, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simply Red

Want to lay hot chicks? Then keep this first and foremost in mind: The
quickest and easiest way to kill any attraction a woman may be starting to feel for
you is to feel insecure about yourself, or to be needy, or to seek approval. When
you have the mindset of being desperate to please, you end up coming on too
strong, too early. You become clingy. It’s like you’re begging.
There’s an old saying about banks: they only want to loan you money
when you’re loaded already. If you genuinely need the money, then you can
forget it.

FUGG that book shit. She basically threw the pussy at you (which means she was throwing it at someone else too). The other guy didn't read your book/literature and you had to hear reeruned people sounds from next door all last night.

Woman want company and interaction. Expecially one that's temporarily there. She has to have quick gratification. My guess is since you text her one and she text'd back and you didn't respond, she went out and found her someone that isn't slow to respond.

How about you listen to us instead of reading your dating books for a lil bit?

wutamess · 08-07-2009, 03:56 PM

Oh and for your pity or whatever... For all she knows... you have no idea she had a guy in there. Text her and talk to her as if you know nothing. No pity or anything... don't even bring up the other guy because it's none of your business.

She's just a screw not your potential woman. Stop putting the pussy on a pedastal.

Simply Red · 08-07-2009, 03:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wutamess

FUGG that book shit. She basically threw the pussy at you (which means she was throwing it at someone else too). The other guy didn't read your book/literature and you had to hear reeruned people sounds from next door all last night.

Woman want company and interaction. Expecially one that's temporarily there. She has to have quick gratification. My guess is since you text her one and she text'd back and you didn't respond, she went out and found her someone that isn't slow to respond.

How about you listen to us instead of reading your dating books for a lil bit?

Roger, I'm coming in to town soon, can you and I practice at Independence-Center on like 40yr old homeless white trash women w/ diabeetus? I mean, will you groom me?

teedubya · 08-07-2009, 03:58 PM

Simply Red · 08-07-2009, 03:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wutamess

Oh and for your pity or whatever... For all she knows... you have no idea she had a guy in there. Text her and talk to her as if you know nothing. No pity or anything... don't even bring up the other guy because it's none of your business.

She's just a screw not your potential woman. Stop putting the pussy on a pedastal.

noted, thanks

teedubya · 08-07-2009, 03:58 PM

and get rid of your gay flower avatar... where is your nutsack? Seriously.

Simply Red · 08-07-2009, 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ari Chi3fs

and get rid of your gay flower avatar... where is your nutsack? Seriously.

i just love everyone, i can NOT help it.

Stewie · 08-07-2009, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Simply Red

Roger, I'm coming in to town soon, can you and I practice at Independence-Center on like 40yr old homeless white trash women w/ diabeetus? I mean, will you groom me?

Your going to be in KC? Man, I know several attractive women who will **** someone else before you make a move.

**rockymtnchief** · 08-07-2009, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Stewie

Your going to be in KC? Man, I know several attractive women who will **** someone else before you make a move.

I'll be there in 2 months. Have them ready!

Hammock Parties · 08-07-2009, 04:04 PM

Stop playing games dumbass. She wanted your nuts. All you had to do was invite her over.

I could have closed this deal.

You are ****ing pissing me off.

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Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	-- Please instruct me as to how to land my neighbor's temporary roommate. So my neighbor (Sabrina) has a friend from Yale (Christie.) They never knew each other @ Yale. Funny, they met each other here. (Atlanta) Anyway, so Sabrina and I are relatively close and we've done numerous things together, however she has a man in which she's holding-down a long-distance relationship w/. Welp, the other day we were running and she had casually mentioned that Christie (temp. roomy) and her had discussed small talk, like talking about guys and stuff (the prior night.) Sabrina (my neighbor) mentioned they'd eventually discussed 'guys.' She went on and on and illustrated that Christie is much different than that of herself (Sabrina.) In fact she'd mentioned Christie didn't think that it was a big deal at all hooking up w/ guys (as in sex.) So, I was over there last night (briefly.) To try to meet Christie. She was very friendly to me. Well, Sabrina (my neighbor) is going out of town this weekend. I said: "Oh dear, I'd better get you my cell phone number in case you need anything while Sabrina's away." She replied, "That's a good idea" and then continued to tell me that she'd just called me and that the missed-call was her. SO, Pointers are really needed here, this girl is like 5'2" and petite w/ big blue eyes. 24 BTW she's a solid '8' if you don't mind the smaller petite ones. Last edited by Simply Red; 08-04-2009 at 02:39 PM..
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Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	By the way, you're probably still wondering what you should actually do if you're girl is talking to other dudes. Well, the absolute worst thing you can do (ironically) is to try to intervene to stop her from doing it. That makes it so that she has the higher value, not you. Instead, the best way to counter such behavior is to say, "Have a good time!" with a tone of complete indifference when she says she's going to go hang out with some other guy. Let her see that it doesn't phase you one bit. Meanwhile, you go talk with other girls.
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Simply Red You Sweetie! Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2021206219 VARSITY	Avoid conjuring up pity A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to make a woman feel pity for them. They’ll call obsessively, saying things like, “I’m so lonely and I really want to see you tonight.” On a psychological level, a lot of this may point back to the mother-son relationship. As little boys, we could often get what we wanted by evoking the maternal nurturing instinct in our moms. Don’t do this with women you date. Any time you evoke pity in a person, they will look down on you. In their mind, they’ll frame you as a person who is a loser, and then they’ll treat you accordingly. Have you ever noticed that unsuccessful salesmen are the ones who appeal to your pity? (“Please buy this car so I can eat this month!”) Psychologically, people cannot help having derision for those they pity. The successful salesmen are those who make sure customers feel they (and not the salesmen) are gaining a benefit by buying their cars and not just feeling sorry for someone.
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