Life Confronting a cheater - Page 26

The Dude Abides · 05:30 PM

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

What's the wink for?

Are you going to question an asshole that winks?

keg in kc · 02-17-2009, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

What's the wink for?

Use your imagination and note that I didn't use the word 'eye' anywhere.

The Buddha · 02-17-2009, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

You could have been an asshole some women like that, like say "**** your boyfriend"

I already told her he was a loser, and she said she is going to break up with him.

But screw that. I'm not chasing after some girl who doesn't know what she wants.

Teenage girls, even if they're 18 or 19, are so freaking confusing. Any tips?

BTW, I'm not that much older than 18 or 19, so I'm not a pedophile or anything. :-)

Katipan · 02-17-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc

All you gotta do is bend over and wink.

Is it odd that I attempted to wink after reading that post?
I don't think I did it.

**DeezNutz** · 02-17-2009, 08:45 PM

Dogpile the poster who didn't think of a brown eye wink111

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Katipan

Is it odd that I attempted to wink after reading that post?
I don't think I did it.

You'll have to let me be the judge of that.

keg in kc · 02-17-2009, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by The Buddha

I already told her he was a loser, and she said she is going to break up with him.

But screw that. I'm not chasing after some girl who doesn't know what she wants.

Teenage girls, even if they're 18 or 19, are so freaking confusing. Any tips?

Stop worrying about it. You're young, they're young, have fun.

'Hamas' Jenkins · 02-17-2009, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by The Buddha

That's what sucks about women. They say one thing, want another, and then get mad when you listen to what they say.

I just want to figure women out, from meeting them and getting dates with them, to dating them and figuring out why they love decorative pillows. If I ever find that out, I can die a content man.

Trying to figure out women is like plowing the seas. It's pointless. Don't attempt it. It's the definition of insanity.

**DeezNutz** · 02-17-2009, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by keg in kc

Stop worrying about it. You're young, they're young, have fun.

Shhh. Don't give the competition tips.

Katipan · 02-17-2009, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Mecca

If you don't want to be thought of as a friend don't try to get your foot in the door as a friend that doesn't work, once you're thought of as a friend you'll never escape, make your intentions known right away.

Unless we had at one time been sexually attracted to you.
The body never forgets.

keg in kc · 02-17-2009, 08:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Katipan

Is it odd that I attempted to wink after reading that post?

Weird? Nah, I expected that.

Quote:

I don't think I did it.

But not that.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 08:47 PM

You'll never fully figure out women, you can figure out patterns if you watch them, you know like watching game tape.

Mecca · 02-17-2009, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Katipan

Unless we had at one time been sexually attracted to you.
The body never forgets.

In that case he was probably never just a friend to begin with.

**DeezNutz** · 02-17-2009, 08:48 PM

Two words: confidence and humor.

Women don't want to be around a pussy, and making them laugh is the best way to make them scream.

If you're falling into the "friend category," you need to assert yourself.

keg in kc · 02-17-2009, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DeezNutz

Shhh. Don't give the competition tips.

He's not competition for me. You're on your own, buster.

02-16-2009, 04:21 PM
The Dude Abides Starter Join Date: Jan 2006 Casino cash: $6744940	Confronting a cheater Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other? Last edited by The Dude Abides; 02-16-2009 at 05:30 PM..
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