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Old 02-16-2009, 04:21 PM  
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Confronting a cheater

Haven't been here in awhile, so check this out. Guess this could be related to the cheaters thread, but oh well. I had been seeing this woman for about 3 years. Everything was great, we got along, amazing sex, etc. But during this whole time, I live in Wichita, she in Newton, a 30 minute drive. She always had to visit me at my house because she lived with her ex. They had never been married, just dated for 9 years. Long story short, I saw the end coming, she was pulling away, as she had done before a few years ago, so I found where she lived and told her supposed ex the whole story of me and his woman. Oh yeah, they were very much together, he said. But he was a big puss and didn't get mad or anything. But needless to say, she got hysterical, said she hated me, i ruined her life, etc. I knew all this was going to happen anyway, but I just couldn't let her get away with her doing the whole player thing. So basically, what is your opinion on confronting the cheaters significant other?

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Old 02-18-2009, 12:42 AM   #496
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Old 02-18-2009, 12:43 AM   #497
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Have you watched that show "The Wingman" on FLN (Fine Living Network)? Kind of silly, but it might point you in the right direction. Give you a couple of ideas to wrap your head around. I was watching it while I was running on the treadmill at the gym tonight and there were a couple of things that made me nod my head in agreement.
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Old 02-18-2009, 05:16 AM   #498
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I left in an attempt to get my boyfriend to make love to the tunes of Travis Tritt.

We ended up doing it to Slipknot, Five Finger Death Punch, and Puddle of Mudd.

He's so romantic.
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Old 02-18-2009, 05:21 AM   #499
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I left in an attempt to get my boyfriend to make love to the tunes of Travis Tritt.

We ended up doing it to Slipknot, Five Finger Death Punch, and Puddle of Mudd.

He's so romantic.
Muddle of Pudd?

I was obviously hot enough to have an effect on you........score!
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Old 02-18-2009, 05:23 AM   #500
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I was obviously hot enough to have an effect on you........score!
Give keg some credit, babe.
His winking helped too.
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Old 02-18-2009, 08:49 AM   #501
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no dressing up, no excessive make up in public, no revealing clothing..if we get a male waiter, she knows not to respond and let me order for her.

...my girls aren't even allowed to talk to boys, though I suspect they do it behind my back...
Trust issues much???
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Old 02-18-2009, 08:59 AM   #502
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so all this time you were banging a married chick and she said she wasnt married?

heres a penny for your thoughts...all those times she said she was "really wet" before you ate her out...you were getting the leftovers from her husband
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Old 02-18-2009, 09:07 AM   #503
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so all this time you were banging a married chick and she said she wasnt married?

heres a penny for your thoughts...all those times she said she was "really wet" before you ate her out...you were getting the leftovers from her husband
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Old 02-18-2009, 09:21 AM   #504
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Trying to figure out women is like plowing the seas. It's pointless. Don't attempt it. It's the definition of insanity.
Actually I understand women almost perfectly. Course I have more years under my belt than most on here but I do have most of them figured out and when you get it, its actually pretty simple.
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Old 02-18-2009, 09:40 AM   #505
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Man I'm sad I wasn't in on the last bit of this thread.
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Old 02-18-2009, 09:58 AM   #506
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Man I'm sad I wasn't in on the last bit of this thread.
I've missed you since about post 364
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Old 02-18-2009, 10:09 AM   #507
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Trust issues much???
what are you talking about..?
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Old 02-18-2009, 10:15 AM   #508
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I've missed you since about post 364
It turned strangely weird when you disappeared from it though....I thought perhaps fire engine red nail polish and politely pink lipstick were going to become part of the conversation.

You should take it back to the winking ass hole part....that's when I really thought they were starting to "get" women.
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Give keg some credit, babe.
His winking helped too.
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You should take it back to the winking ass hole part....that's when I really thought they were starting to "get" women.
I think we've all known for years that if there was anybody on the planet who gets women, it's me...
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Old 02-18-2009, 01:02 PM   #510
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Actually I understand women almost perfectly. Course I have more years under my belt than most on here but I do have most of them figured out and when you get it, its actually pretty simple.
I've been trying to figure myself out for just over 32 years. Care to give me some insight?
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