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**luv** · 10:17 AM

Well, after dealing with getting over an ex and making sure he's paying joint bills, I decide to just focus on my job for awhile. I know it well, and I'm good at it. Should mean a little less stress while I get me and my life back into focus.

We had a meeting today, and the portion of the company that I'm a part of has been sold. Luckily, it will be in Springfield. Unluckily, there are only so many spots available at the new company. While I know that I will still have a job, I don't know what I'll be doing or if I'll have to take a subtantial paycut.

So much for less stress.

UPDATE: I just got offered a new position with the original company. I'll be able to stay where I'm at!! I'm now part of the technical support group. I'll be learning how to import and export data, etc. Kinda nervous, but so thankful for the opportunity.

**Rausch** · 08-13-2008, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Redrum_69

grape gatorade is a helluva drug

This post is like Bobby Brown saying Red Bull pumps him up like nohting before...

sedated · 08-13-2008, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by GoBo

Just because someone makes what turns out to be the wrong choice doesn't necessarily mean it was a bad decision.

so you would consider co-signing a loan for a guy you've just started dating a "good choice gone bad"?

**Saulbadguy** · 08-13-2008, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

so you would consider co-signing a loan for a guy you've just started dating a "good choice gone bad"?

Yeah - you should probably do something about that, like now.

Redrum_69 · 08-13-2008, 01:50 PM

theres always endelt....

Fairplay · 08-13-2008, 02:08 PM

I'm listening and nodding my head in a agreement with you luv.

Jilly · 08-13-2008, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by luv

I definitely don't mean to make it seem like I've got it harder than someone else. I know I'm better off than a lot of people. I just tend to worry when it comes to finances, and taking a huge cut in pay didn't help whenever I was trying to figure out how to keep up with bills with the added expenses. I feel for anyone who has to look for a job. I always hated jobhunting. I was going to be so proud to say that I'd been with my company for 10 years in November. While I do have a job, I will basically be starting over. It was just a little much to swallow as it happened.

of course it is, but maybe it will be a blessing in disguise...one can only hope I guess.

**Bugeater** · 08-13-2008, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

so you would consider co-signing a loan for a guy you've just started dating a "good choice gone bad"?

Heh, I wasn't aware that she did that, obviously I haven't been paying close enough attention. If we're talking about that specifically then no, that's usually not a good idea, it sounds like she made a decision with her heart instead of her head and that will burn you nearly every time. Although I'm not going to pile on her for that as I learned that lesson many times the hard way myself.

phisherman · 08-13-2008, 02:12 PM

well, saul's never made a bad decision in his life.

or at least one that he told the planet about.

little jacob · 08-13-2008, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by sedated

so you would consider co-signing a loan for a guy you've just started dating a "good choice gone bad"?

nobody should EVER cosign a loan for ANYONE. i would not cosign a loan for my best friend, my child, my parents, the old lady's parents, no one.

if they did not already have a long history of not being trustworthy in finance they wouldn't have to be asking for a cosigner. a bank with millions and millions in financial backing won't trust them with a few thousand bucks. why would a person with little or no financial backing assume the risk if Bank of America won't??

if you cosign a loan, you should just assume that you're going to have to pay all of that balance off.

**Saulbadguy** · 08-13-2008, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by phisherman

well, saul's never made a bad decision in his life.

or at least one that he told the planet about.

http://www.chiefsplanet.com/BB/showthread.php?t=116258&

MOhillbilly · 08-13-2008, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by little jacob

nobody should EVER cosign a loan for ANYONE. i would not cosign a loan for my best friend, my child, my parents, the old lady's parents, no one.

if they did not already have a long history of not being trustworthy in finance they wouldn't have to be asking for a cosigner. a bank with millions and millions in financial backing won't trust them with a few thousand bucks. why would a person with little or no financial backing assume the risk if Bank of America won't??

if you cosign a loan, you should just assume that you're going to have to pay all of that balance off.

**** that. i dont wanna take a home loan out on my house ever. so my uncle cosighns for me every 10 years or so when i need to make repairs to the farm or buy something i want.

id ****ing die before id live with the shame of not paying the loan off.

**Saulbadguy** · 08-13-2008, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by MOhillbilly

**** that. i dont wanna take a home loan out on my house ever. so my uncle cosighns for me every 10 years or so when i need to make repairs to the farm or buy something i want.

id ****ing die before id live with the shame of not paying the loan off.

Helps to have a fairly wealthy uncle.

little jacob · 08-13-2008, 02:21 PM

there are plenty of people though who don't have shame.

seclark · 08-13-2008, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by little jacob

nobody should EVER cosign a loan for ANYONE. i would not cosign a loan for my best friend, my child, my parents, the old lady's parents, no one.

if they did not already have a long history of not being trustworthy in finance they wouldn't have to be asking for a cosigner. a bank with millions and millions in financial backing won't trust them with a few thousand bucks. why would a person with little or no financial backing assume the risk if Bank of America won't??

if you cosign a loan, you should just assume that you're going to have to pay all of that balance off.

i've cosigned for loans for each of my 3kids. 2 auto loans, and 1 motorcycle. no problems. of course, i knew they had jobs and were able to pay the loans, which they did.
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Sure-Oz · 08-13-2008, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by seclark

i've cosigned for loans for each of my 3kids. 2 auto loans, and 1 motorcycle. no problems. of course, i knew they had jobs and were able to pay the loans, which they did.
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Plus they are your kids, and you'd probably beat them senslessly if they weren't responsible, hell thats what id do :P

08-04-2008, 08:05 PM
luv You think you can get by this? Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Springfield, MO Casino cash: $-180000	The official "Life's a Bitch" thread Well, after dealing with getting over an ex and making sure he's paying joint bills, I decide to just focus on my job for awhile. I know it well, and I'm good at it. Should mean a little less stress while I get me and my life back into focus. We had a meeting today, and the portion of the company that I'm a part of has been sold. Luckily, it will be in Springfield. Unluckily, there are only so many spots available at the new company. While I know that I will still have a job, I don't know what I'll be doing or if I'll have to take a subtantial paycut. So much for less stress. UPDATE: I just got offered a new position with the original company. I'll be able to stay where I'm at!! I'm now part of the technical support group. I'll be learning how to import and export data, etc. Kinda nervous, but so thankful for the opportunity. Last edited by luv; 08-21-2008 at 10:17 AM..
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