Life Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? - Page 7

Blitz · 04:42 PM

I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now.

Thanks for the tips.

UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items.

In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious.

Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there.

booger · 04-08-2010, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

What I was getting at (and reading it again I'm not sure I was clear about it) was the devastation and general f'ed upness that can result from this kind of thing.

yup.

like lifetime network meets texas chainsaw massacre type f'ed up.

ok, maybe not that bad.

Blitz · 04-08-2010, 07:14 PM

Sorry to hear of MTG's problems. Considering I haven't read any of his threads, I hope his situation worked out for him.

JD10367 · 04-08-2010, 07:15 PM

Just tell her the truth. "I like you, and you're hot, but as long as you're married all we can be is friends, because I will not bang a married broad, case closed, sorry." And put that in an e-mail so if her husband finds it he won't try to shoot you, LOL.

nychief · 04-08-2010, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by patteeu

What I was getting at (and reading it again I'm not sure I was clear about it) was the devastation and general f'ed upness that can result from this kind of thing.

But, come on, patteeu, this woman is asking for it... just like the 15 year old in Boston, right? Sluts are sluts, right?

Fairplay · 04-08-2010, 07:22 PM

Glad to see Blitz is taking the advice on this thread of not doing it.

It isn't worth it man.

**alanm** · 04-08-2010, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by JD10367

Just tell her the truth. "I like you, and you're hot, but as long as you're married all we can be is friends, because I will not bang a married broad, case closed, sorry." And put that in an e-mail so if her husband finds it he won't try to shoot you, LOL.

That's usually something the DA throws out there during the murder trial.

Hammock Parties · 04-08-2010, 07:27 PM

I still say you should go for the blowjob.

Low risk, high reward, especially if she's just looking for attention.

Blitz · 04-08-2010, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by GoChiefs

I still say you should go for the blowjob.

Low risk, high reward, especially if she's just looking for attention.

Truth be told, you fella's scared me straight, I'm going to stay away from this broad, lol

This really would've been my first foray into going after someone's girl, even all past GF's were single at the time...really would've been uncharted territory to say the least.

**Bugeater** · 04-08-2010, 07:31 PM

God damnit, you people disappoint me, this shit had HoC potential. Whatever happened to the Planet tradition of giving the worst advice possible?

**notorious** · 04-08-2010, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Blitz

scared me straight

You weren't straight before?!

J/K

NewChief · 04-08-2010, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Blitz

Truth be told, you fella's scared me straight, I'm going to stay away from this broad, lol

Wow. You're like the anti-MTG... unless of course you come back in two days telling us how you ****ed her then in another month telling us how she's knocked up and leaving her husband to shack up with you. Then you'd be like... hold on... you'd still be like the anti-MTG.

lostcause · 04-08-2010, 07:33 PM

No. No. And No. I have been down that road and got into a ****ing quagmire of a mess to the point where i ended up resigning my position rather than deal with it.

Blitz · 04-08-2010, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by NewPhin

Wow. You're like the anti-MTG... unless of course you come back in two days telling us how you ****ed her then in another month telling us how she's knocked up and leaving her husband to shack up with you. Then you'd be like... hold on... you'd still be like the anti-MTG.

One of the things that turned me off from her was she had kids...no way was I going to be their "new daddy".

Blitz · 04-08-2010, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by notorious

You weren't straight before?!

J/K

well played notorious

Fairplay · 04-08-2010, 07:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lostcause

No. No. And No. I have been down that road and got into a ****ing quagmire of a mess to the point where i ended up resigning my position rather than deal with it.

You resigned? Was it a good position and all?

Learning the lessons in life can be a real pain to go through.

04-08-2010, 05:44 PM
Blitz Starter Join Date: Oct 2004 Casino cash: $10004900	Married coworker hitting on me...Should I bang her? I'm going to be avoiding her at all costs now. Thanks for the tips. UPDATE: I listened to the advice given and broke off things before it could get really serious. I simply told her although I'm flattered by her interest, because she is married, I would never go down the route. Further I told her, she has to stop sending me messages via my work email that can if looked at more closely create a whole new set of problems at work. At which point, she told me that she's never felt this way and that she didn't realize until it was too late (now) and that she agrees that we don't want to go further with this as it could lead to many problems. After which we continued talking but about other work related items. In retrospect, I don't know what I was thinking because if I was in the other guys shoes, I would be furious. Thanks guys, I think I dodged a potential bullet there. Last edited by Blitz; 04-09-2010 at 04:42 PM.. Reason: Advice received
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04-08-2010, 07:14 PM	#92
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JD10367 Cheaterlover* Join Date: May 2009 Location: RI Casino cash: $10010716	Just tell her the truth. "I like you, and you're hot, but as long as you're married all we can be is friends, because I will not bang a married broad, case closed, sorry." And put that in an e-mail so if her husband finds it he won't try to shoot you, LOL.
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04-08-2010, 07:33 PM	#102
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