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**The Bad Guy** · 02-25-2013, 06:30 PM

As some of you know, wife and I were expecting baby #2 in August.

Last week, we got a call Friday afternoon saying blood test #2 did not come back great and that our risk for down syndrome increased significantly. The genetic counselor said she would explain it all to us in an appt. on Wednesday.

My wife had an appt with her ogbyn today. He explained to her that sometimes that test has a false positive and he's rarely had a positive 2nd test really indicate any problems.

Well, he went to check the heart beat today and there wasn't one. They did 2 different ultra sounds and nothing.

Tomorrow the wife will be induced and deliver the deceased baby. This is likely going to be the toughest day of my life and I know it will be hers and would appreciate some prayers especially for her.

Thanks everyone.

bishop_74 · 02-26-2013, 07:52 AM

God bless you and your family.

King_Chief_Fan · 02-26-2013, 07:56 AM

Prayers for you and your wife.

The Lord will see you through this.

tecumseh · 02-26-2013, 08:00 AM

Prayers and peace to you and yours through this sad time.

BoneKrusher · 02-26-2013, 08:09 AM

Prayers Sent.

**dirk digler** · 02-26-2013, 08:10 AM

I am sorry to hear that Bad Guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife.

**OnTheWarpath15** · 02-26-2013, 08:23 AM

So sorry to hear this Frank. Thoughts and prayers to you and your wife.

OmahaChief · 02-26-2013, 08:46 AM

I am so sorry to hear this for you and your wife. My prayers go out to you and your wife.

**The Bad Guy** · 02-27-2013, 03:41 PM

Thank you to everyone for the prayers and positive thoughts. It certainly helped me and my wife get through the last 48 hours.

That experience isn't something I'd wish on anyone. It's the most gut wrenching time of my life and I've certainly had a lot to compare it to.

Baby was delivered at 4 AM this morning. Doctor's estimated that it had been dead for 1-2 weeks.

PA law says we had to either have a burial or a cremation. Thankfully, my friend is an undertaker and my aunt works for him so they are taking care of the cremation part.

My wife held very tough and she's the toughest person I'll ever meet. I'm so thankful for her and my 3-year old.

This experience has changed me forever.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers that we can grieve and heal.

Thanks again everyone.

R8RFAN · 02-27-2013, 03:43 PM

It wasn't meant to be man... Yall keep trying... God Is Great

Al Bundy · 02-28-2013, 04:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Bad Guy

Thank you to everyone for the prayers and positive thoughts. It certainly helped me and my wife get through the last 48 hours.

That experience isn't something I'd wish on anyone. It's the most gut wrenching time of my life and I've certainly had a lot to compare it to.

Baby was delivered at 4 AM this morning. Doctor's estimated that it had been dead for 1-2 weeks.

PA law says we had to either have a burial or a cremation. Thankfully, my friend is an undertaker and my aunt works for him so they are taking care of the cremation part.

My wife held very tough and she's the toughest person I'll ever meet. I'm so thankful for her and my 3-year old.

This experience has changed me forever.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers that we can grieve and heal.

Thanks again everyone.

I have experienced this first hand. You have always been a good guy to me and I am really sorry you and your wife are having to go through this.

**BigMeatballDave** · 02-28-2013, 04:19 AM

What a horrible experience. So sorry for your loss.

redsurfer11 · 02-28-2013, 04:52 AM

Frank,

Sorry to hear this. My wife and I had the same experience in 1989. I feel greatly for your loss.

R........

spanky 52 · 02-28-2013, 05:48 AM

I and my wife are so sorry for what you and your wife have experienced. Better days ahead.

KC_Lee · 02-28-2013, 06:31 AM

Still thinking and praying of you and yours today.

Richard_Cuckold · 02-28-2013, 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by The Bad Guy

As some of you know, wife and I were expecting baby #2 in August.

Last week, we got a call Friday afternoon saying blood test #2 did not come back great and that our risk for down syndrome increased significantly. The genetic counselor said she would explain it all to us in an appt. on Wednesday.

My wife had an appt with her ogbyn today. He explained to her that sometimes that test has a false positive and he's rarely had a positive 2nd test really indicate any problems.

Well, he went to check the heart beat today and there wasn't one. They did 2 different ultra sounds and nothing.

Tomorrow the wife will be induced and deliver the deceased baby. This is likely going to be the toughest day of my life and I know it will be hers and would appreciate some prayers especially for her.

Thanks everyone.

Oh my GOD. Dude, I am so sorry. Best wishes to you and your wife. I can't imagine what you and her are going through. Hang in there.

02-25-2013, 06:30 PM
The Bad Guy Scott Pioli Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: The Copacobana Casino cash: $9273645	Could really use some prayers for the wife and I As some of you know, wife and I were expecting baby #2 in August. Last week, we got a call Friday afternoon saying blood test #2 did not come back great and that our risk for down syndrome increased significantly. The genetic counselor said she would explain it all to us in an appt. on Wednesday. My wife had an appt with her ogbyn today. He explained to her that sometimes that test has a false positive and he's rarely had a positive 2nd test really indicate any problems. Well, he went to check the heart beat today and there wasn't one. They did 2 different ultra sounds and nothing. Tomorrow the wife will be induced and deliver the deceased baby. This is likely going to be the toughest day of my life and I know it will be hers and would appreciate some prayers especially for her. Thanks everyone.
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02-26-2013, 07:52 AM	#106
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02-26-2013, 07:56 AM	#107
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02-26-2013, 08:00 AM	#108
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02-26-2013, 08:10 AM	#110
dirk digler Please squeeze Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Clinton, MO Casino cash: $84644	I am sorry to hear that Bad Guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife.
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02-26-2013, 08:23 AM	#111
OnTheWarpath15 MVP Join Date: Sep 2005 Casino cash: $2031115	So sorry to hear this Frank. Thoughts and prayers to you and your wife.
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02-27-2013, 03:41 PM	#113
The Bad Guy Scott Pioli Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: The Copacobana Casino cash: $9273645	Thank you to everyone for the prayers and positive thoughts. It certainly helped me and my wife get through the last 48 hours. That experience isn't something I'd wish on anyone. It's the most gut wrenching time of my life and I've certainly had a lot to compare it to. Baby was delivered at 4 AM this morning. Doctor's estimated that it had been dead for 1-2 weeks. PA law says we had to either have a burial or a cremation. Thankfully, my friend is an undertaker and my aunt works for him so they are taking care of the cremation part. My wife held very tough and she's the toughest person I'll ever meet. I'm so thankful for her and my 3-year old. This experience has changed me forever. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers that we can grieve and heal. Thanks again everyone. __________________
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02-27-2013, 03:43 PM	#114
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02-28-2013, 04:19 AM	#116
BigMeatballDave GBM 8-12-15 Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Dayton, Oh. Casino cash: $10052154	What a horrible experience. So sorry for your loss.
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02-28-2013, 04:52 AM	#117
redsurfer11 Veteran Join Date: Oct 2000 Casino cash: $10004900	Frank, Sorry to hear this. My wife and I had the same experience in 1989. I feel greatly for your loss. R........
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02-28-2013, 05:48 AM	#118
spanky 52 Veteran Join Date: Mar 2008 Casino cash: $-1024399	I and my wife are so sorry for what you and your wife have experienced. Better days ahead.
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02-28-2013, 06:31 AM	#119
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