Life GF of 3 years left me yesterday.... - Page 15

01-05-2011, 04:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

She sited that we were too different, her answer in the end was that I wasn't the one. She thought I was but I'm not & she it's not fair to get me to be someone I'm not.

Did you have a good time for 3 years? Did you learn and grow from this relationship? Has it helped you narrow the dynamics relating to the personality of a gal with whom you would want to spend the rest of your life? Has this relationship left you scarred, hating women, needing a lawyer, paying child or spousal support, or missing half of your worldly possessions?

Frankly, it sounds like you had a great time dude. It hurts, yeah but this one will pass fast. You'll have fond memories of this gal in no time at all. Now, live your life and when the one shows up you'll be in a better spot.

Pushead2 · 01-05-2011, 04:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

Did you have a good time for 3 years? Did you learn and grow from this relationship? Has it helped you narrow the dynamics relating to the personality of a gal with whom you would want to spend the rest of your life? Has this relationship left you scarred, hating women, needing a lawyer, paying child or spousal support, or missing half of your worldly possessions?

Frankly, it sounds like you had a great time dude. It hurts, yeah but this one will pass fast. You'll have fond memories of this gal in no time at all. Now, live your life and when the one shows up you'll be in a better spot.

Oh yeah to the memories, some of the best of my life. The best trip of my life to New Orleans was with her, it was fantastic it was for our 2 year anniversary.

Definitely not scarred by no means, we did have a great time......it does hurt but I got to be strong & be ready to move on in life.

There are things I need to address in my life & straighten out. This is my time to shine & do it.

**Ming the Merciless** · 01-05-2011, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Pushead2

There are things I need to address in my life & straighten out. This is my time to shine & do it.

**** yah brother.

If she calls, tell her youre doing fine...and hang up. Period. Hit the gym daily.

You got this.

beach tribe · 01-05-2011, 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

Did you have a good time for 3 years? Did you learn and grow from this relationship? Has it helped you narrow the dynamics relating to the personality of a gal with whom you would want to spend the rest of your life? Has this relationship left you scarred, hating women, needing a lawyer, paying child or spousal support, or missing half of your worldly possessions?

Frankly, it sounds like you had a great time dude. It hurts, yeah but this one will pass fast. You'll have fond memories of this gal in no time at all. Now, live your life and when the one shows up you'll be in a better spot.

I wish I would have said this instead

01-04-2011, 03:17 PM

Frankly, I've no idea how to respond with my relationship wisdom on this thread without seeing pictures of the gal in question.

tooge · 01-04-2011, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Phobia

Frankly, I've no idea how to respond with my relationship wisdom on this thread without seeing pictures of the gal in question.

What he said! CP is slacking.

JD10367 · 01-04-2011, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by tooge

What he said! CP is slacking.

Not really. He didn't bother with a pic because he knew it would only generate 78 "PIIHB" responses.

tooge · 01-04-2011, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by JD10367

Not really. He didn't bother with a pic because he knew it would only generate 78 "PIIHB" responses.

Yeah, but if he can't have her, then he might as well supply some of his, lets say, off (see meat dragon, billay), CP pals with whack off material.

**DaKCMan AP** · 01-04-2011, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by tooge

What he said! CP is slacking.

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01-04-2011, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by DaKCMan AP

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pics or it didn't happen

That doesn't count.

**gblowfish** · 01-04-2011, 03:51 PM

I'm glad I'm too old for all this "social networking" stuff. Dating was hard enough back in the 1970s and 1980s, before cell phones, and Twitter and Facebook and internet dating and such.

We did have answering machines. So you could screen your calls. But elsewise, you had to communicate face to face with a girl.

I had one girlfriend for all four years of undergrad time, and second one for three years during Master's degree chase. Both have been married for years and have their own kids in college now.

I turned out just fine, thanks to the lovely Mrs. Blowfish.
Thanks Mrs. Blowfish!

I know I sound like the Grumpy Old Man from SNL...

"We only had answering machines and no fancy schmantzy IPhones, but we wrote letters by hand and walked them to the mail box and we LOVED IT!!!!"

Also you could have a slump buster if you needed it, and didn't have to worry about anything worse than the clap or crabs -or pregnancy. World is a much more dangerous place for loose sex now.

MOhillbilly · 01-04-2011, 04:38 PM

ahhh funny

acarter25 · 01-04-2011, 05:42 PM

Didn't read all the pages, but if she told you she wants it to be done, show her what it's like. Be distant with her and don't let her see that it bothers you too much. If you just keep stickin around pourin out to her she won't realize anything about her own feelings. Get out and try to have fun and get your mind off it, if the distance doesn't bring her back, nothing will and it will end up being a good thing either way. Hang in there.

Sure-Oz · 01-04-2011, 07:02 PM

Goodluck...if it's meant to be it will happen. Just leave her alone and do you. Independence is your best friend here, no games just focus on what you have control over. the feelings of wanting her back dont have to be ignored, be strong.

Seperation can be a good thing, trust me, you'll find out even more why you may have loved her and vice versa. If it doesn't work out you did your thing and moved forward.

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gblowfish Be Kind To Your Pets Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Glorious Independence, MO Casino cash: $17606178 VARSITY	I'm glad I'm too old for all this "social networking" stuff. Dating was hard enough back in the 1970s and 1980s, before cell phones, and Twitter and Facebook and internet dating and such. We did have answering machines. So you could screen your calls. But elsewise, you had to communicate face to face with a girl. I had one girlfriend for all four years of undergrad time, and second one for three years during Master's degree chase. Both have been married for years and have their own kids in college now. I turned out just fine, thanks to the lovely Mrs. Blowfish. Thanks Mrs. Blowfish! I know I sound like the Grumpy Old Man from SNL... "We only had answering machines and no fancy schmantzy IPhones, but we wrote letters by hand and walked them to the mail box and we LOVED IT!!!!" Also you could have a slump buster if you needed it, and didn't have to worry about anything worse than the clap or crabs -or pregnancy. World is a much more dangerous place for loose sex now.
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acarter25 Starter Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: SE, KS Casino cash: $10004900	Didn't read all the pages, but if she told you she wants it to be done, show her what it's like. Be distant with her and don't let her see that it bothers you too much. If you just keep stickin around pourin out to her she won't realize anything about her own feelings. Get out and try to have fun and get your mind off it, if the distance doesn't bring her back, nothing will and it will end up being a good thing either way. Hang in there.
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