Caught my woman cheating. - Page 11

keg in kc · 02-14-2016, 01:12 PM

So sorry to hear. A lot of us have been there.

Whatever issues you may have in the relationship, her cheating is not your fault. This is something she did, a choice she made. You're the victim here. Don't look for reasons to feel guilty or for things you could have done to prevent it. There aren't any.

Just a personal opinion here, but this is something where there's no second chance. You need to move on. It's tough but the only real option long-term. Trust has been broken, and most likely more than the one time you know about.

ModSocks · 02-14-2016, 12:22 PM

Im a half glass full kinda guy so...HEY! More freedom and alone time to look forward to! **** yeah, dude!

More time to workout
More time to fap
More time to work
More time to watch movies that dont suck shit
More time to watch sports

Basically, more time to do the shit you wanna do!

And you still have Tinder to get laid! And Strip clubs.

CoMoChief · 02-14-2016, 12:28 PM

That sucks man.

Sorry to hear that.

I wouldn't give her the time of day (I know that's easier said than done since you love her) unless if it's for business regarding your kid, or to get certain affairs in order to help move along the split.

ModSocks · 02-14-2016, 12:33 PM

If i were in your shoes, i'd call up some friends and hit up the strip club.

Remind yourself of all the beautiful snatch out there in this world and that you are a lion in a field of lions, ready to **** the next sexy gazelle that grazes your way.

Start looking forward to things in life, understand that you'll be MORE happy than before once you get over it. You'll recover faster.

Stand proud my man, and understand that this is merely a new beginning.

**TribalElder** · 02-14-2016, 01:14 PM

I would get a paternity test on the kid

Mr. Laz · 02-14-2016, 01:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TribalElder

I would get a paternity test on the kid

I imagine he's already bonded with his kid, test isn't going to change anything.

running that skank over with a truck might, but i digress

rabblerouser · 02-14-2016, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr. Laz

I imagine he's already bonded with his kid, test isn't going to change anything.

running that skank over with a truck might, but i digress

As much rancor as he may (justifiably) feel, you can't take a mother away from her child - I'm sure the child has bonded with her mother, as well.

I also read that beach tribe has a son, so he has at least one other child's needs to consider as well.

It's a heavy load, and I wish him the best.

Mr. Laz · 02-14-2016, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by beach tribe

Caught my woman cheating.

Been together 6 years.
Love her Madly.
Have a 4 year old with autism together

oh shit ... dude

sorry to hear

Tombstone RJ · 02-14-2016, 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by beach tribe

Ex-Boyfriend.
Crazy history. Never Met him.

Been together 6 years.
Love her Madly.
Have a 4 year old with autism together.

God damn I'm hurting.

Don't want to do anything crazy.
10 years ago he would be in the hospital.
Gotta be smarter/better than that.

Not handling these emotions well....

I'm sorry to hear this, I hope for the best for you, your girlfriend and your family. I hope you work it out.

Eleazar · 02-14-2016, 01:59 PM

Living well is the best revenge.

The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.

You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc

She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.

rabblerouser · 02-14-2016, 02:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cochise

Living well is the best revenge.

The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.

You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc

She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.

Yuuuuup.

**notorious** · 02-14-2016, 02:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cochise

Living well is the best revenge.

The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.

You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc

She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.

**Iowanian** · 02-14-2016, 02:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cochise

Living well is the best revenge.

The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.

You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc

She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.

Fact.

I had a long term girlfriend in college that cheated and ran off. Got knocked up a month or so later, was married in 3 months and getting beaten and divorced in a year. Somehow through a friend of a friend of a friend a pic of her popped up on my feed last week.....she looks like grimace now. My wife is hot...and faithful.

rabblerouser · 02-14-2016, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Iowanian

Fact.

I had a long term girlfriend in college that cheated and ran off. Got knocked up a month or so later, was married in 3 months and getting beaten and divorced in a year. Somehow through a friend of a friend of a friend a pic of her popped up on my feed last week.....she looks like grimace now. My wife is hot...and faithful.

That's YOUR fault for having a 'long term girlfriend in college'.

You shoulda done hit it and quit it

stevieray · 02-14-2016, 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cochise

Living well is the best revenge.

The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb.

You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc

She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.

She will prolly cheat on him too, and he'll deserve it.

02-14-2016, 01:12 PM	#1
keg in kc oxymoron Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: OP/KC/Whatever Casino cash: $9556299	So sorry to hear. A lot of us have been there. Whatever issues you may have in the relationship, her cheating is not your fault. This is something she did, a choice she made. You're the victim here. Don't look for reasons to feel guilty or for things you could have done to prevent it. There aren't any. Just a personal opinion here, but this is something where there's no second chance. You need to move on. It's tough but the only real option long-term. Trust has been broken, and most likely more than the one time you know about.
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02-14-2016, 12:22 PM	#2
ModSocks Needs more middle fingers Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: San Diego Casino cash: $4114563	Im a half glass full kinda guy so...HEY! More freedom and alone time to look forward to! **** yeah, dude! More time to workout More time to fap More time to work More time to watch movies that dont suck shit More time to watch sports Basically, more time to do the shit you wanna do! And you still have Tinder to get laid! And Strip clubs. __________________ Life is like a dick. Sometimes it gets hard for no reason, but it can't stay hard forever.
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02-14-2016, 12:28 PM	#3
CoMoChief Mahomes Dynasty Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Parts Unknown Casino cash: $8042254	That sucks man. Sorry to hear that. I wouldn't give her the time of day (I know that's easier said than done since you love her) unless if it's for business regarding your kid, or to get certain affairs in order to help move along the split. __________________
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02-14-2016, 12:33 PM	#4
ModSocks Needs more middle fingers Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: San Diego Casino cash: $4114563	If i were in your shoes, i'd call up some friends and hit up the strip club. Remind yourself of all the beautiful snatch out there in this world and that you are a lion in a field of lions, ready to **** the next sexy gazelle that grazes your way. Start looking forward to things in life, understand that you'll be MORE happy than before once you get over it. You'll recover faster. Stand proud my man, and understand that this is merely a new beginning. __________________ Life is like a dick. Sometimes it gets hard for no reason, but it can't stay hard forever.
Posts: 64,512

02-14-2016, 01:14 PM	#5
TribalElder Arrowhead Trail of Tears Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: KansasCity Casino cash: $2240441	I would get a paternity test on the kid
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02-14-2016, 01:59 PM	#10
Eleazar Beyond the Rapids Join Date: May 2003 Location: Langley, VA Casino cash: $-370000	Living well is the best revenge. The kids continue to get all the love they deserve and more, but she goes to the curb. You get a reset button, start things again, do everything great like someone who is on the way up would do. Get a new place, hit the gym, eventually meet someone new and better, etc etc She can enjoy life struggling with her douchebag ex and wondering why she screwed up something good by being a whore.
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