Thinking of getting re married

[vailpass]

Originally Posted by DaneMcCloud

Just as long as you don’t mind hearing about it every single day until you’re in the morgue

[stumppy]

Originally Posted by Eureka

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

That's a bullet she'll be firing during the inevitable fights.

[WhiteWhale]

Originally Posted by Eureka

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

As long as you understand you're always #3 behind herself and her career.

If she has kids, forget about it.

JMO.

However, if she's a childless career woman be careful. She may view you as nothing more than a potential sperm donor happy and willing to dump you into the gutter once she gets what she wants. Plus a chunk of your earnings for a child you'll rarely see.

I'm not saying she DOES, but man... men are WAY too oblivious to the machinations of women.

[cooper barrett]

Originally Posted by Eureka

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

Spoiler!

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[BryanBusby]

Originally Posted by Eureka

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

I wouldn't give a flying **** if my wife made more.

She could tell me about it every day and come home from work and demand I munch her box. Wouldn't give a shit.

[Spott]

Originally Posted by Eureka

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

Only if you’re really insecure about yourself.

[MahiMike]

Originally Posted by Eureka

I’m going to ask my lady to marry me this year. I’m 37 and she’s 38. We’ve never been married. She’s better off than me financially. She’s a Dr, in shape and very sweet to me. I’m now a returning college student and plan on joining the police acedmy at the end of the year.

Does a woman being better off financially make a difference about the guy getting married?

You are in a great position here. My 1st wife was a Dr but we were kids when we got married. At your age, it's a green light.

Doesn't necessarily matter that she makes more but since she does, it gives you the freedom to pursue other career paths while she earns. That's huge. I could have changed multiple times but didn't have that bridge money to pursue it.

Go for it.

[Ming the Merciless]

prenuptial agreement or dont even think about it

do not comingle your funds or assets

[Hog's Gone Fishin]

You won't need a wife. Come next season Mahomes will satisfy all your needs.

[cooper barrett]

I was married for 20, been with a live in SO for 10 years, Both have their points but a woman who's life will take a huge downturn is much easier to deal with than the one who will try to take 70% of your shit. One who has their own money is like a unicorn.

I feel better with a simple cohabitation agreement, Our names are both on the house along with a trust with a contract that says basically that if she leaves me she gets a flat $20 grand, If I throw her out she gets $40K. or enough for a DP on a place.

I'd be more than happy to discuss privately the financial arrangements I have made.

[blackkatesmiranda]

Originally Posted by cooper barrett

I was married for 20, been with a live in SO for 10 years, Both have their points but a woman who's life will take a huge downturn is much easier to deal with than the one who will try to take 70% of your shit. One who has their own money is like a unicorn.

I feel better with a simple cohabitation agreement, Our names are both on the house along with a trust with a contract that says basically that if she leaves me she gets a flat $20 grand, If I throw her out she gets $40K. or enough for a DP on a place.

I'd be more than happy to discuss privately the financial arrangements I have made.

I think I need the advice before I make a rash decision.
Morally I have a small issue but realizing that the piece of paper doesn’t make it a marriage.

[Rausch]

Originally Posted by blackkatesmiranda

Thinking of getting re married .
Turned 50 11-22

Good , Bad or ???
Experiences ?
Kids ?

You tell me.

How many kids?
Experiences (you and the wife.)
How much baggage? (you and the wife.)

Originally Posted by blackkatesmiranda

Married to what I thought was love of my life 20 plus years but ended badly.

If you let it, yes.

She isn't your ex and she isn't your savior.
She's your wife.
You know if you're ready or not...

[oldman]

I've been with the same woman for almost 49 years. If something were to happen, there'd be no way I'd ever get married again. I'd find a well off, attractive 40-50 year old that likes to do the horizontal bop and call it good. If we chose to live together, you can be certain I'd have some kind of legal document defining who gets what should we split the sheet.

[Prison Bitch]

Originally Posted by oldman

I've been with the same woman for almost 49 years. If something were to happen, there'd be no way I'd ever get married again. I'd find a well off, attractive 40-50 year old that likes to do the horizontal bop and call it good. If we chose to live together, you can be certain I'd have some kind of legal document defining who gets what should we split the sheet.

If you are married 49, you are likely 70+. And you ain't getting a 40-50 ur old attractive gal who wants to screw your old balls. Major misconception

[cooper barrett]

Originally Posted by Prison Bitch

If you are married 49, you are likely 70+. And you ain't getting a 40-50 ur old attractive gal who wants to screw your old balls. Major misconception

At least his handle is true, WAIT I bet your's is too!!!!